Can a Woman Raise a Boy to Be a Man?

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Just having two parents doesn't make everything magically better. The parents have to be healthy themselves but what boys with single mothers do is they lack sufficient levels of self-esteem. They usually lack direction in life and easy to get them to do what you want. They have problems with the opposite *** when they grow up. They don't respect themselves and act weak + they have a hard time facing challenges in their life. These are usually the result of being raised by a single mother, the root problem being low self-esteem and no confidence. Most of the time, those single mothers have their own flaws that made them single mothers and it can be a very toxic environment for a young boy to grow up in.
Although a little clearer, this sounds like a biased argument, I'll need to check facts on this because it doesn't necessarily answer the question at hand. The base argument used for your POV is that these women raising dysfunctional boys are already dysfunctional themselves, meaning their choice in men probably wasn't the best, meaning they (the men) were probably lacking in character as well.

To entertain your POV, wouldn't the low self-esteem only pose in issue while the boy is still just a boy? It is common for teenage children, boys and girls alike to question themselves while among their peers, self-esteem issues can come from many different sources at that age that do not reside in the home, and although men can give them direction, it is up to the individual themselves to realize their own potential. I believe a strong woman can help realize that potential as well, where does a woman fail where a man succeeds if she has the necessary tools (remember, she's not some basic bich who made poor choices).

So lets skip the flaws that would make most of your arguments basic platform, and say the woman is perfectly normal, can she raise the son to be a man, and first, what is your definition of a man?
 
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How do you define "to be a man and woman" to begin with
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I myself don't separate how well someone is raised by ***, I believe a good person can be raised by anyone, whether only male or female or both are present. My question doesn't come from my own thoughts, but from what some people seem to think, so I ask you, is it possible for a woman to raise a man? (Using your own definition of a man).
 

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Although a little clearer, this sounds like a biased argument, I'll need to check facts on this because it doesn't necessarily answer the question at hand. The base argument used for your POV is that these women raising dysfunctional boys are already dysfunctional themselves, meaning their choice in men probably wasn't the best, meaning they (the men) were probably lacking in character as well.

To entertain your POV, wouldn't the low self-esteem only pose in issue while the boy is still just a boy? It is common for teenage children, boys and girls alike to question themselves while among their peers, self-esteem issues can come from many different sources at that age that do not reside in the home, and although men can give them direction, it is up to the individual themselves to realize their own potential. I believe a strong woman can help realize that potential as well, where does a woman fail where a man succeeds if she has the necessary tools (remember, she's not some basic bich who made poor choices).

So lets skip the flaws that would make most of your arguments basic platform, and say the woman is perfectly normal, can she raise the son to be a man, and first, what is your definition of a man?
Someone who can stand up for himself, knows what he wants and doesn't need anyone. There are no shortage of people who put on a tough mask but have horrible self-esteem. What you don't overcome will always stick with you even in adulthood. Also dude, I ain't a goddamn scientist, I haven't done research on this but I believe anecdotes are underrated. I'm telling you my perspective of what I've seen in my life. I don't claim to know everything and I know correlation doesn't equal causation but what I said is fairly accurate.
 

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I myself don't separate how well someone is raised by ***, I believe a good person can be raised by anyone, whether only male or female or both are present. My question doesn't come from my own thoughts, but from what some people seem to think, so I ask you, is it possible for a woman to raise a man? (Using your own definition of a man).
A man/woman is any grown individual who isn't a bum they get things done. They are mature, have good morals and etc

I don't believe in gender so any type of seterotypes that are directed towards that *** to try to portray how they should be in society in order to be a "man" or "woman"
 

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Expected Kategora behind this nonsense.
I have no idea...who that person is...

Someone who can stand up for himself, knows what he wants and doesn't need anyone. There are no shortage of people who put on a tough mask but have horrible self-esteem. What you don't overcome will always stick with you even in adulthood. Also dude, I ain't a goddamn scientist, I haven't done research on this but I believe anecdotes are underrated. I'm telling you my perspective of what I've seen in my life. I don't claim to know everything and I know correlation doesn't equal causation but what I said is fairly accurate.
lol Fair enough, but what you don't overcome can be reconciled in adulthood. Some people are late to the plate so to speak.

A man/woman is any grown individual who isn't a bum they get things done. They are mature, have good morals and etc

I don't believe in gender so any type of seterotypes that are directed towards that *** to try to portray how they should be in society in order to be a "man" or "woman"
Right on.
 

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I have no idea...who that person is...



lol Fair enough, but what you don't overcome can be reconciled in adulthood. Some people are late to the plate so to speak.



Right on.
Lack of self-esteem will always be there even if you don't see it unless you have actually changed how you view yourself. That shit will affect your future job, your relationship and a large part of what you do in life. It's like a tree that keep growing branches. You need to uproot that shit to finally stop it from wreaking havoc in your life. I am Kagetora btw I changed my name few days ago.
 
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