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I don't like bullies or bullying. I don't do it to anyone.

I never really was bullied big time, but I sort of was back in Middle School days and early Freshman. However, it's nothing looking back on it. I stood up and all went smooth.

Oh, and I don't see bullying alot.
 

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I remember i got bullied last year (well it wasent bullying) but some boy name terrance, tried me one day and kept talking shit, i tried to tell him to chillout, but he ain't listen. So the next day he came up to me talkin shit again and pushed me, then i was like hell naw, fk this then 2 seconds later I knocked tha shit out his ass, and laid him out in front of everybody in the lunchroom at school. I swear he talked so much shit, his mouth was like a dam toilet. But i flushed dat muthafka. Then i got suspended. which was wrong since i was only defendin my self.

anyways bullying will get you fked up one day, so u shouldn't do it.
 

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Against it. Those who bully others are just insecure with their own selves that they have to prove a point that they can inflict pain on others whether it be verbally/emotionally.

I'v never been bullied because I've never taken crap from anyone. No matter who they were.
 

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Yep, bullied since elementary school. It mostly ends in high school, then it just becomes overly hormonal boys trying to pretend their men. Stops in college.

Only solution is to lure them in and beat them up yourself. Do it where you have no witnesses.
 

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Fact is that I've been bullied and bullied my fare share. Looking back at my life I can honestly say that. Although at the time I just thought they were pranks/practical jokes and I never really intended to bully people. I guess I just wanted people to view me as a clown. But I never took into account on who the joke i played on felt. I never talked down to someone or ever really got got physical with anyone just to extend authority. With the exception of my little sisters' boyfriends.

Yes I did get bullied, but I always turned it around. I got my fare share of beat downs and hits in. Once the bruises, black eyes, and busted lips started showing, other people started asking questions. And it stopped.

Speaking from personal experience, bullies only have power over you if you let them. If it's one person, ignore them. If it's a group, stand up to the ring leader, and point out that they only pick on you when they have friends around. It doesn't have to end with physical. Scrutinize them and exploit any little weakness you see, then bring it out whenever they confront you. For example, in third grade, some 5th grader tried to take my G.I Joe lunch box. I turned it around and yelled so every one can hear, "It's not my fault that your so poor that you can't afford to buy lunch (which was kinda true and mean but I was nine)." I got a bloody nose that day, but the kid got suspended and never bothered me again.
 
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I'm don't really care about verbal bullying but not physical bullying, verbal bullying makes individuals stronger I guess? If words affect you to the point of wanting to kill yourself like the many emo kids wearing unreasonable amounts of black makeup are then you were never fit for this world and should give up at life. If words can hurt you that bad I wonder what punches will do?
 

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This is something that I've found interesting for some time now. Recently, the word "bully" has been tossed around quite frequently. In the more classic sense, a bully is usually one who uses physical intimidation in order to procure something from one weaker or smaller than themselves, such as money, homework, etc... Nowadays, name calling seems to be what people are mainly referring to when they say bullying. In fact, some schools and legislatures are looking to provide rules and laws against bullying.

And to this I say, What the fuck? Since when is it a crime to hurt someone's feelings? Ever heard of freedom of speech? I'm not trying to say that it's okay to bully someone to the point of suicide of self inflicted injury, but really, we're humans. The fat kid in class is going to be called fat. The scrawny straight A kid, whom enjoys Lord of the Rings is going to be called a nerd. The 16 year old who has a vag that's seen more use than her brain is going to be called a slut. And all of the sudden, calling people these things, and acting upon basic human nature can make you a criminal? Has society really gotten to be this pussified?
 

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This is something that I've found interesting for some time now. Recently, the word "bully" has been tossed around quite frequently. In the more classic sense, a bully is usually one who uses physical intimidation in order to procure something from one weaker or smaller than themselves, such as money, homework, etc... Nowadays, name calling seems to be what people are mainly referring to when they say bullying. In fact, some schools and legislatures are looking to provide rules and laws against bullying.

And to this I say, What the fuck? Since when is it a crime to hurt someone's feelings? Ever heard of freedom of speech? I'm not trying to say that it's okay to bully someone to the point of suicide of self inflicted injury, but really, we're humans. The fat kid in class is going to be called fat. The scrawny straight A kid, whom enjoys Lord of the Rings is going to be called a nerd. The 16 year old who has a vag that's seen more use than her brain is going to be called a slut. And all of the sudden, calling people these things, and acting upon basic human nature can make you a criminal? Has society really gotten to be this pussified?
Why should someone get to this point? I can understand if some circumstances that would make you want to commit suicide but having your feelings hurt should never be one. Its sad when people in middle class kids commit or attempt suicide just because they want attention ot because they've been bullied. I mean what the **** I have been in a third world country where Iv'e seen people in really shitty conditions still have the will to go on with their lives each and everyday.If name calling makes you feel like wanting to kill yourself you should have killed yourself along time ago.
 

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I don't like bullies or bullying. I don't do it to anyone.

I never really was bullied big time, but I sort of was back in Middle School days and early Freshman. However, it's nothing looking back on it. I stood up and all went smooth.

Oh, and I don't see bullying alot.
What Jack said, but for the middle part, I was bullied my entire primary school days. But yeah.

I hate it. Someone bullies one of my friends, I will stand up to the bully, no questions.
 
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