im a girl, and you are totally wrong. But you seem like a person who has been placed in the friendzone alot.
If a guy is timid with me, automatically i wont be interested in a relationship. I wont take him serious. A girl wants a guy who isn't afraid to tell her how he feels about her. The reason why it may seem like girls go for the douche is cuz the douche at least isnt afraid to tell her how he feels. Timid is a female thing, a guy being timid is girlish and is a turn off. We want assertiveness. Dont be agressive, but dont give up on us either. Be a gentleman, and know what you want. We like a guy to go after us when they say they will, not a guy who says they want us, but is too scared to come get us.
you tell them girl