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im a girl, and you are totally wrong. But you seem like a person who has been placed in the friendzone alot.
If a guy is timid with me, automatically i wont be interested in a relationship. I wont take him serious. A girl wants a guy who isn't afraid to tell her how he feels about her. The reason why it may seem like girls go for the douche is cuz the douche at least isnt afraid to tell her how he feels. Timid is a female thing, a guy being timid is girlish and is a turn off. We want assertiveness. Dont be agressive, but dont give up on us either. Be a gentleman, and know what you want. We like a guy to go after us when they say they will, not a guy who says they want us, but is too scared to come get us.

you tell them girl
 

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alrighty then, I'm not "timid", but conservative
 

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Im a girl, and you are totally wrong. But you seem like a person who has been placed in the friendzone ALOT.
If a guy is timid with me, automatically I wont be interested in a relationship. I wont take him serious. A girl wants a guy who ISN'T afraid to tell her how he feels about her. The reason why it may SEEM like girls go for the douche is cuz the douche at least isnt afraid to tell her how he feels. Timid is a female thing, a guy being timid is girlish and is a turn off. We want assertiveness. Dont be agressive, but dont give up on us either. Be a gentleman, and know what you want. We like a guy to go after us when they say they will, not a guy who says they want us, but is too scared to come get us.

That douche could have High self esteem, but could care less about the girl...And that's why i don't understand girls. Treats the girl like ****, yet she remains. At least to what i have seen...Always on the Omg He's such a ****. I wish he could appreciate me more. :shrug:
 

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that douche could have high self esteem, but could care less about the girl...and that's why i don't understand girls. Treats the girl like ****, yet she remains. At least to what i have seen...always on the omg he's such a ****. I wish he could appreciate me more. :shrug:

thats not what she meant broski
 

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pardon my language, but FUKK ADVICE, you either can, or you can't, all else is an excuse to escape your reality!

its not a question of want, but a question of can, so i ask you kid, Can you be brave?

if you think you can, then

1.make her like you as a person
2.show her the possibility of you two being more than friends
3.when you feel the time is right, make your move, tell her directly that you like her, and dont leave without an answer from her
4.be confident, it is the key to everything.

but as i said, dont follow mine or anyone elses advice, if you think you can get her, then what are you waiting for, go get her!
 

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It's guys like you that make it easier for guys like me. :cool:
 

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That douche could have High self esteem, but could care less about the girl...And that's why i don't understand girls. Treats the girl like ****, yet she remains. At least to what i have seen...Always on the Omg He's such a ****. I wish he could appreciate me more. :shrug:

Hey I almost totally agree with her!! And You are getting it wrong,what she said!!
 

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You gotta learn how to crawl before you can walk, bro. Try talking & flirting w/ other girls, you need practice. For the love of God, NEVER write a girl a note telling them how you feel, unless you're joking. #lostcause
 

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Hmm...the best way to catch her attention is to just make yourself less available to her. Stop hanging out around her and just stop talking to her. Either that will get her to wonder what is going on, and notice you more than she would with just a friend, or it might just show you how much she might not care about you. If she ends up being fine without you being around, then you should try and move on. Obviously she only cares about you as a friend, and sometimes that is all you will stay. However, if she takes interest in your absence then you should just tell her that is just becoming to hard to be just her friend. That you really like her, have liked her for a long time.
If you can not seem to distance yourself from her, then just tell her that you like her too much to be "just friends." That if there is no chance for you to be with her, that she should tell you now. To be upfront about your feelings is the best approach, no matter how shy you are. If you are rejected, it will not be the first time in your life that you will be. At least you tried. That is all that matters.
 
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man forget your friends all that matters is that she won't leave you bacause of them. besides it won't last forever it'll end soon.
 
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If you get shy you can always trust in imagining people in their underwear. Take a chance and go for it if it works then great you got yourself a date if it

doesn't then i am sure there are nice girls who would like to hang out with you she just was not for you but luckily someone else out there is. If you don't

risk it you will never find out so do not be afraid to be outgoing, girls like confident guys.
 

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If she friendzoned you don't push yourself too much to her, she may get sick of you..try to be there for her but at the same time surprise her, show her that theres a lot more to you. show her your fun side. She might fall for you, and if it doesn't work well...the maybe she wasn't the one for you.
 

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i would help if i could but I'm a solo-player myself not into that stuff really
 

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Listen man don't force it if you do want to tell her how you feel great go and do it don't be scared many people have told me the same but i didn't listen and i will always regret that but if you are like me and you just can't then don't get upset just try and spend more time with this girl and then after a while maybe you will feel comfortable enough to tell her or maybe there will be a special moment in that time together but my friend i say to you as a man of love, good luck and if you ever need a friend to turn to i'm always here mate.
 

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Bro, you have 6 options:

1- Ask her out and say you want to be more than friends and you wanna *cough* *cough* her, if you know what i mean. e_e

2- Jump out of the dark alley and rape her then.

3- Get a girlfriend to make her jealous.

4- Ask her to marry you.

5- If all the above don't work, just commit suicide.

6- Don't do number 5.

7. By all means, completely ignore 6.
 
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