Girls are told to be girly and boys are told to be boyish in every aspect. From birth, kids are told who they are to be and how they are to act. It's ridiculous. What makes a woman a woman? motherly instincts? what about the woman to smothered her kids and put them in the river because her mother insulted her? does biology make women women? so because we are bilogocally different means we have to do different things and act differently? Our society has always been this way and people are constantly harassed for being who they were taught to be from when they were born. It's ridiculous.
What's wring with being sensitive? If everyone was insensitive, the world would probably cease to exsist because no one cares. I see insensitivity as being ruthless and cold. And honestly it sometimes disgusts me. For instance, you talk about how your mom talks about how stressed she is and doesn't have a husband. What;s wring with that? you're bitching about her bitching. Why should we care? You're doing the same as her, just different topics. Some things have more importance to people. Are you also saying that if someone is stressed that they should just get over it? that they should just move on and not bother? then how would anything ever change? What's wrong with wanting something better than what you have? As long as people have hope and dreams, they will always complain when they feel like they should have and want better. There's nothing wrong with it, it's just humanity.
If anyone wants to go into a deeper discussion about this, pm me or find me on msn. I can go on and on. I'm a psychology major and am taking a Psychology of Women class.
