[Discussion] Attention all women of the base, need help.

[Natsu Shazneel]

Women are hard to understand? Women are IMPOSSIBLE to understand .... The current girl with whom I was getting close suddenly stopped talking (She always says she doesnt like me ..... but never damn rejected or friendzoned me either, it like a weekly routine), then finally said that my extra special caring nature towards her annoys her .... then accused me of saying thing I never did (things that annoy her the most .... but they can be considered romantic in a sense) .... Then she insisted that she wold return the things i lent her (very forcefully cos I was too pissed to take them back) .... Now I sitting clueless for 2 weeks now. You tell me how we are supposed to understand women? My best advice would be to wait a while and then try to make proper contact.

In order to understand women. Understand your mother.

 

[FranklinGTAV]

Hey most of us doesnt understand how the machines in a car works but that doesnt mean we cant drive it .... It just means when its acting up or broken it is harder or impossible to fix without expert help.

Plus do you think my case is normal?

PS I was exaggerating a bit ... its not impossible but its really hard.

she was in a period xD.

 

[Anorien16]

she was in a period xD.

Possible ..... Still its so messed up. I dont know if we wld get back together again, even as just friends. Though there may be good chance when we meet.

In order to understand women. Understand your mother.

Moms are not hard to understand .... cos they love us already. (Well at least in most cases)

 

[Black Mamba]

it looks like she likes you to me, call her or summin.

 

[Revyy]

Maybe she just isn't Mature enough for you? I dunno after me and husband divorced I dated a younger guy and had pretty much the same problem. I just find that kids younger than you are just more immature when it comes to relationships and the whole dynamic all together. (Not saying everyone is, just what I noted in my years of dating)

Speaking as a woman with 100% honesty I would say give her time. The worst thing in the world is waiting to see if hes gonna text you. Sometimes I wait and see just how interested a guy is in me so I won't text back, if he keeps texting then I know he generally wants me and not just to use me. But it could just be she needs space. If she is as Christan as you say, she could feel embarrassed that she is having those kinda thoughts and if her up bringing was like that she might feel really guilty inside for having said thoughts. One of my friends is like this. When she likes a guy and tries to make moves she remembers how wrong it is, what would her family say etc. (Now I can't speak for all girls). Give it a day or two

Just my two cents though.

 

[trick master]

she is using you to achieve power. the more you seem to like her, the more she will hesitate. she wants to have control over you.

you can however get this kind of girl truly easily if you convey her that she's not exactly important to you. if you convey her you are not one of her options, but rather, she is one of yours.. act like you don't give a **** at all, because if you give, you'll be just doing her game, because again, this kind of girl gives attention to guys who are dumb and clueless, who will try to do everything to get her because she wants to be in a position of power. she doesn't have boyfriends, she's got toyboys. hence the term gives attention to, because again the kind of boy she'll marry with is the one that doesn't need her more than she needs him. so act like you don't give a **** at all. even in bed: the moment you're sleeping with her, try to not even let her touch you, by throwing her at the bed or a wall (yes, this girl will prolly like spanking). note: do not understand this as "act like you're a badass". if you're cocky she'll be turned off.

 

[Amantius]

First thing, fix the grammar in the paragraph.(was hard reading). Two, i think the whole space thing doesn't always work in you're favor. Honestly, relax and just keep your options open, make room for disappointment. My advice would be, don't try to seem desperate because you sound like you are, maybe she knows this and it's the cause for all this problem. Girls like guys who are serious about what they want, if you want this girl be more aggressive in the words you choose to say.( Most people might think what the hell am i saying, others will know what i'm talking about.) Be smart, don't let this girl turn you in an idiot because they're some out there would take advantage of you wanting them. (not all girls though, only the dramatic ones) Anyways, try taking her out again and be more aggressive with the words, like tell her shit that would knock her off your feet, (not things that would get her horny cause then you would sound thirsty)

 

[Fireplay]

Dont text her for like a week or so. She'll be wondering where you are and eventually she's gonna come and talk to you. And stop being such a sissy. She's the one supposed to be morning texting and drooling over you. You've given her the control of your little "relationship" and she likes the attention and knows you're always gonna stay there no matter what bs she pulls off. Which is why she feels like she can do anything she wants. Your the man so take control. Also, enough with the poems.

 

[Jessika Uzumaki]

If she doesn't respond in the next couple of days then you should let her go, don't worry you'll find someone else.

 

[Hexuze]

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[Jazzy Stardust]

You need a female your age man, that's the issue. Or at least 21 or something, women at 19 are going through wanting to become adults and all kinds of other stuff. When your 19 it's cool because you're kind of going through the same stuff, but when you're 24 you think of life more as an adult with responsibility.

 

[Lightbringer]

Don't think about it too much. If you start counting how long she texts you back you'll get paranoid and potentially ruin your chances with her.

If she likes you she'll text you back in time. Sending a hundred texts her way is just going to make your case worse so be patient. Give her time like others have said.

Usually when a girl texts me I would not always respond immediately either because I might be busy or just might not have seen the text. Not everyone enjoys conversing through texts everyday.

There were times I texted girls about seeing a movie or hanging out and didn't hear from them a few days later, but they still texted me back and apologized for not responding earlier. So as long as they do, you know you're in the clear because they could always have just ignored it completely.

She obviously likes you, and if she teases with you, tease her back; some women like that sort of thing. If you really like her, then don't worry about when you'll get physical with her because you will eventually as long as you play your cards right.

If it doesn't work out, then there is really nothing you could have done, it's up to her. In that case, take your losses and move on.

Also many women like more decisive men rather than shy. Be the man in the relationship and seize the moment from time to time. When you appear strong, they'll cling on to you because they feel more secure and comfortable around you.

But like I said, most important thing is being patient, and not coming off as desperate or clingy.

 

[Jin Hayami]

She's 19. Too damn old for that kind of shit. You're 24. Also too old for that kind of shit. At this stage if you're really into her I suggest being very blunt and straight up asking if she's into you or not. If you aren't feeling her hard then move along.

 

[ultraChalk]

Force your mouth inside of her mouth and use typhoon swirl with your tung around her throat

 

[Sica]

Well, I think you should go meet her and clear everything up. I can understand how you feel, but who knows .. maybe she's just waiting for you to make the proper move.

 

[a banned cartoon]

It's alright guys I got this shit. Didn't text her for a few days now she's sending me text floods. Thanks for the advice, but that was my original plan. I think it's safe to say she wants the D!

EDIT: wanted to say that I've never encountered a chick like this. Most girls are easy, or loose, and I never had problems like this in the past. I can usually read people really easily. I can read her easily aswell, but I needed the advice, because I've never been with a super Christian girl. I guess you handle them just like any other women though, except add patience.