But, what does it mean to exist? Imagine someone dying somewhere. He existed. How many knew he lived and died? How does it make his existence a matter of objective perspective when only few would know he existed and died? When you have subjective beings, gauging subjective experiences ... how does it make that Reality objective? Kind of a contradiction, don't you think?
It appears we have a misunderstanding. I'm not talking about a objective perspective. As if such a thing could exist, regardless of what worldview one holds. (The very definition of a perspective claims it to be a subjective property unique to each individual). No, what I find necessary is an objective/absolute reality. A medium for all of us to observe and based on which we can arrive at our subjective conclusions. Before tackling your example, I'm gonna lay out mine.
We're currently talking to each other through the magic of internet right? Using electric sygnals to exchange information through a comlex continuous transfer of data packets processed accordingly to a certain group of algorythms, no? Well, imagine a hypothetical scenario in which these sygnals would be actual beings (planktons of a sort). These beings would not be able to percieve the reality that surrounds them, they wouldn't be able to understand how they're moving through the internet, how these protocols and algorythms work, where they are coming from and what is their destination etc. They wouldn't know any of those things.
They'd only observe travelling at fast speeds and transforming to a binary format upon arriving at their destination. Every sygnal would see this road differently. Now, comes the question. Does their inability to percieve the reality surrounds them do anything to render that reality non-existent? The answer is a clear no. And I'm not talking here about their idea of reality, I'm talking about a reality they aren't/can't comprehend. A reality that exists regardless of their perceptions.
Same thing applies to us. Our simple inability to percieve reality as it is (in an objective consistent manner) speaks nothing for the objective reality itself. The very fact that we're here debating a reality means the reality exists. Us not being able to agree on it's undeniable existence means little to the existence on its own.
Your example of a dying man in much the same fashion speaks nothing about the reality but our perceptions of the reality. Wether we know he died or not doesn't change the fact that he really died. Reality isn't formed of subjective perspectives. It's formed of beings which aren't capable of objective perspectives and thus have to rely on subjective experiences.
I see no contradiction here.
Everything is relative. Whether it is experience, vision, perspective and so on. This inconsistency in views is what is, probably, the only Truth in human existence. But is it absolute? I highly doubt it. That is the best way I can summarize it. The term "Turth" isn't some greater or lesser truth; it can exist for simplest of things. Death is truth, finality is truth, our own subjective existence is a small truth of our own, despite it being a paradox in regards to objectivity. Paradoxes arise when you widen the scope. How can one vouch for everyone's existence? You have numbers, but is it possible to share their experiences? Is it possible to collecticely experience them? Is it possible to develop an objective, absolute truth out of the simple notion that they exist? It isn't. You can't. It is "objectively" impossible.
Ah, but how can something be true, yet not objective? The mere definition of the word "true" calls for an objective/absolute footing in an actual reality - a fact.
"being in accordance with the actual state or conditions; conforming to reality or fact; not false"
For something to be true it must be absolute. Otherwise we would ignore the meaning of the word true. A thing that puzzles me about your further statements is that you call occurances such as death (even tho you just said that death of a man is not a real thing/truth) true stating that simple things can be true but complex can't. Why is that? Surely death is just as compromising to the idea that there are no absolute truths as is any other notion that would imply absolute truthfullness. As I said above, if a man is to die then he has absolutely, undeniably died regardless of what one may think. His death is a fact.
The only thing you can do when faced with such things is expand the scope of absolute truths to all simple things, but this again begs the question, why? On what grounds do we choose what is allowed to exist as an absolute truth in a worldview permitting no absolute truths. The very question is a contradiction.
^ You see? The more one delves into this, the more complicated it gets. If one concept is antithetical to Truth, then how can one say for certain that everything is abolustely False? Then you have conclusion yourself, that is there, really, an absolute truth? I don't believe it even exists.
Indeed, the more I think about this the more contradictive it seems. There is really no way to make a point that this worldview is right as it would undermine the very worldview. The only thing you can say is that you think this worldview is right, but by doing so you concede that that very belief is no more than your own relative stance. Just one of many possible opinions which one could embrace but really has no valid reason to.
I don't see how any of this successfully answers the dilemma I proposed.