Those are pure lies on your part, that or you didn't read the manga properly/forgot what you read. Madara clearly admitted that he was controlling the Kiri shinobi that kidnapped Rin, so quoting that Kiri ploy as a shitty/dirty deed is invalid, it was not a Kiri deed, it was a Madara deed. Same with Suna, Orochimaru killed the Kazekage and impersonated him, the sand shinobi were taking instructions from their Kazekage, whom they didn't know was actually Orochimaru, so that's also an Orochimaru deed. And guess what, both Orochimaru and Madara are Konoha rogue nin, so it all goes back to Konoha, like every shitty thing that happened in the manga. Lastly, even if Suna had not been deceived by Oro, even if the Kazekage willingly attacked Konoha, would you have blamed him? Remember that the reason was that the Wind Nation's daimyo was sending missions (hence money as well) to Konoha instead of Suna. Why would the wind daimyo do that though? Have you wondered why? I know you gonna write this off as speculation since it wasn't expressly stated in the manga, but don't you thin Kotoamatsukami had anything to do with this (ie. Danzo)?