A question to any who have cheated on there partner

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It just works out that one or the other isnt happy, if they are, cheating happens emotionally with someone or if they arent happy, cheating is awesome ^^
 

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As for the question, I have cheated in my life and I don't regret it. I also believe that you can't make norms about it nor assumptions in general, cause each situation & relationship is unique. For example, even though it sounds ridiculous, if I hadn't cheated on my ex-ex I would have had to break up with him and he wouldn't be able to bare it at that time. Also, if I hadn't cheat I would still be obsessed with that other guy and I get really creepy when I am obsessed.

I also don't think that love and *** should go together, I think that's restricting our nature. Science has proved that humans aren't monogamous mammals although society & religion has forced us to believe else.

Finally, I find it natural for my bf to cheat on me after some years cause humans also get bored easily. I prefer not to know about it of course.
 

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It just works out that one or the other isnt happy, if they are, cheating happens emotionally with someone or if they arent happy, cheating is awesome ^^
Dude i dont see how its awesome, i hate being cheated on an lied to


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★ Rei ★;1982780 said:
spammers ><

As for the question, I have cheated in my life and I don't regret it. I also believe that you can't make norms about it nor assumptions in general, cause each situation & relationship is unique. For example, even though it sounds ridiculous, if I hadn't cheated on my ex-ex I would have had to break up with him and he wouldn't be able to bare it at that time. Also, if I hadn't cheat I would still be obsessed with that other guy and I get really creepy when I am obsessed.

I also don't think that love and *** should go together, I think that's restricting our nature. Science has proved that humans aren't monogamous mammals although society & religion has forced us to believe else.

Finally, I find it natural for my bf to cheat on me after some years cause humans also get bored easily. I prefer not to know about it of course.
hmmm, i dont think you can get bored of someone if you love them.... but fair enough in your case, i dunno...
 

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hmmm, i dont think you can get bored of someone if you love them.... but fair enough in your case, i dunno...
That's a very romantic thing to say; sadly doesn't apply to adult relationships that last more than 3 years.
Sure commitment as Faceless said, is a way to overcome your nature. But what's the point in that? If you can't be yourself why "be" at all?
 

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★ Rei ★;1982804 said:
That's a very romantic thing to say; sadly doesn't apply to adult relationships that last more than 3 years.
Sure commitment as Faceless said, is a way to overcome your nature. But what's the point in that? If you can't be yourself why "be" at all?
You can be yourself, but if youself needs to sleep with other women/men why are you in a relationship with that person to start with?
 

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★ Rei ★;1982804 said:
That's a very romantic thing to say; sadly doesn't apply to adult relationships that last more than 3 years.
Sure commitment as Faceless said, is a way to overcome your nature. But what's the point in that? If you can't be yourself why "be" at all?
Hayy... Relationships are too darn complicated. That's why I avoided them until I'm old enough to deal with a migraine >_<
 

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You can be yourself, but if youself needs to sleep with other women/men why are you in a relationship with that person to start with?
Because you love your partner. But love is not the only magical ingredient needed to have ***; and enjoy it.

Hayy... Relationships are too darn complicated. That's why I avoided them until I'm old enough to deal with a migraine >_<
lol xD Fair enough :p
 

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★ Rei ★;1982810 said:
Because you love your partner. But love is not the only magical ingredient needed to have ***; and enjoy it.
But Isnt love enough to stay faithful?
Dont you get more from feeling love than just *** with someone else?


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But Isnt love enough to stay faithful?
Dont you get more from feeling love than just *** with someone else?

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It is enough, with the right person. Unfortunately, in most cases, you don't find that right person soon or ever.

About the bolded part, that's what I am talking about. Why should I need to choose between feelings and pleasure since as a person I want both?
Love is love, no definition needed.
*** however is not just passion and not just love, *** is art. You need the right canvas, the right colors, the inspiration, the drive to do some magic.
Every one of us, needs both; love & ***.
 

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★ Rei ★;1982825 said:
It is enough, with the right person. Unfortunately, in most cases, you don't find that right person soon or ever.

About the bolded part, that's what I am talking about. Why should I need to choose between feelings and pleasure since as a person I want both?
Love is love, no definition needed.
*** however is not just passion and not just love, *** is art. You need the right canvas, the right colors, the inspiration, the drive to do some magic.
Every one of us, needs both; love & ***.
Must be just me that brings the 2 together then xd

Anyway i feel love draws you to your other half and perfect match, and dont see why you would need create "art" with someone else....
 

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★ Rei ★;1982780 said:
spammers ><

As for the question, I have cheated in my life and I don't regret it. I also believe that you can't make norms about it nor assumptions in general, cause each situation & relationship is unique. For example, even though it sounds ridiculous, if I hadn't cheated on my ex-ex I would have had to break up with him and he wouldn't be able to bare it at that time. Also, if I hadn't cheat I would still be obsessed with that other guy and I get really creepy when I am obsessed.

I also don't think that love and *** should go together, I think that's restricting our nature. Science has proved that humans aren't monogamous mammals although society & religion has forced us to believe else.

Finally, I find it natural for my bf to cheat on me after some years cause humans also get bored easily. I prefer not to know about it of course.
mhm ">_>

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Nuh-uh >.<

and I'm stopping now U_U
 
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