I don't think there is an objective answer, for different people it's different if it's good or bad. There is no correcnt answer.
ALSO I still hold on to my theory that athests trying to prove religion wrong are just joking without realizing it and nothing they say is actually true.
When me an my little brother lived with out mom, at one point he stopped eating meat, he didn't say why at the time but it was because he had been visiting a farmer nearby and witnessed a slaughter.
What I mean is that, sometimes people "aspire" to be like really awesome people.
But they fail because the are not as capable as they think think they are.
It's sad.
Like, lets say someone put a camera on you 24 hours every day.
And then judged you. Even if they asked and you would say "yes...