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i won't tell is just a joke 
i have a friend who is doing that right now and she won't stop she really hurts people and does not care
i have a friend who is doing that right now and she won't stop she really hurts people and does not care ive found that women are more vicious than men about things like thati won't tell is just a joke
seriously in my group of friends the women tend to be more vicious that why when i leave for uni in about 1 1/2 im not gona leave an address and change my phone number a new start with new friends ^^
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it wasnt partially it was fully his fault but its cool cause i realized im single again i can do watever i want without getting nagged
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no im saying cause in a relationship i man up and take on responsibilities and i act right but if im single i can u know look for different girls and stuff
Online: no relationship
IRL: Best boyfriend ever award goes to me, for rejecting advances by 2 other women when I was taken, knowing I could 100% get away with it. my ex at the time was losing interest in me anyways and it was bound to be a breakup, but I held my morals.
IRL: Best boyfriend ever award goes to me, for rejecting advances by 2 other women when I was taken, knowing I could 100% get away with it. my ex at the time was losing interest in me anyways and it was bound to be a breakup, but I held my morals.
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so many stereotypes here already >.<
being with someone and wanting someone else is not immoral or anything, it just happens and it doesn't mean you don't love your bf/gf.
It happens, cause we are people with instincts and sometimes our hormones are having a party within our body.
Also i am that type of a person who thinks that for whatever someone feels there is a reason behind it, no matter if we can understand it or not.
i find it immoral and stupid not listen to myself.
Of course all that in case the cheating happens for once or twice..more than that, you just have to break up and move on.
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being with someone and wanting someone else is not immoral or anything, it just happens and it doesn't mean you don't love your bf/gf.
It happens, cause we are people with instincts and sometimes our hormones are having a party within our body.
Also i am that type of a person who thinks that for whatever someone feels there is a reason behind it, no matter if we can understand it or not.
i find it immoral and stupid not listen to myself.
Of course all that in case the cheating happens for once or twice..more than that, you just have to break up and move on.
I think i answered with this
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I get you 100%, but that is a short term view on things. Sure, you cheat, get pleasure but not for long. If you do lose interest in you bf/gf and you are infatuated with someone else, be honest to the person that may still have feelings for you and break up. Not easy to do, but it's the best thing to do, it'd be more wrong to lie about your feelings than breakup.so many stereotypes here already >.<
being with someone and wanting someone else is not immoral or anything, it just happens and it doesn't mean you don't love your bf/gf.
It happens, cause we are people with instincts and sometimes our hormones are having a party within our body.
Also i am that type of a person who thinks that for whatever someone feels there is a reason behind it, no matter if we can understand it or not.
i find it immoral and stupid not listen to myself.
Of course all that in case the cheating happens for once or twice..more than that, you just have to break up and move on.
I think i answered with this
In the long term when encountered with this situation, it is wise to tell the person to wait till they officially finished the previous relationship. If they say no, then what's the point with being with someone who is using you? If yes, then you will feel good karma on having self-control over strong temptations as well as later on you can get with the special someone
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Well i have kind of a unique view about this...I get you 100%, but that is a short term view on things. Sure, you cheat, get pleasure but not for long. If you do lose interest in you bf/gf and you are infatuated with someone else, be honest to the person that may still have feelings for you and break up. Not easy to do, but it's the best thing to do, it'd be more wrong to lie about your feelings than breakup.
In the long term when encountered with this situation, it is wise to tell the person to wait till they officially finished the previous relationship. If they say no, then what's the point with being with someone who is using you? If yes, then you will feel good karma on having self-control over strong temptations as well as later on you can get with the special someone
I don't feel used for something i wanted to do. Therefor no one can ever really use me...
And hm, i think it better to just don't say anything if it was just hormones.
I know I have done that and I don't regret it.
Also good karma comes when you are true to yourself and accepting the person who you really are. For me that's one of the most important lessons i have learned in my life.
That's why i think that the quote "if you love someone you don't cheat on them" is silly, no mean to disrespect anyone. Love is there, but love can't last forever, especially the feeling of being in love. It's natural to fade after a while.
Once again Rei, you bring a valid view. I see this not as an argument, but a constructive discussion on varying views and philosophical as well as moral norms and means that a soul possesses.
I did not state the difference between hormonal urges and actual love interest, I wouldn't go to my gf and be like... I <3 this celebrity, we must breakup.
"use" is a strong term that denotes being taken advantage of. The act would be mutual, but the person in question would not have any further need or want of you other than for fulfillment of their pleasures. That is what I meant.
Karma is a tricky business, I can agree with being true to yourself and finding your true dharma in life as it's main principle. To do so, you must learn who you really are, accept it and go on your life in that role. Good karma also derives from making difficult choices that deprive oneself of a desire, a temptation of sorts. This abstinence from desire is a moral route in itself that many Monks and Bhodisattvas take. As I am no expert in both Hindu or Buddhist traditions, I will not act like I know the ways of karma and leading a good life.
On a more personal note: I was being true to myself as a man of honor, to not cheat with another girl when I was still affiliated with my gf. It also deproved me of a clear pleasure so that in the long term, others as well as myself can share a deeper respect in my self-control, maturity and discipline.
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Yes, I also enjoy this talk very very much.
If the "fulfillment of the pleasure", comes for both sides i am totally fine with it. Cause unlike most women, i don't need promises, nor a commitment to do a beautiful, normal thing, also i don't need to feel that it must lead to something. It can be whole as it is ^^
Oh yeah...Karma & Dharma...i am no expert either, but i am studying them for quite some years now.
I think i know already what my dharma is...as for my karma i have no clue xD Yeah, deprive oneself of a desire could be a way to call good things, but i believe that the best way is to be true to yourself and not be ashamed for your needs and desires.
On a more personal note: I am still a regular woman, when i cheated no one found out.
