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does anyone have any tips for getting over a girlfriend that you just want to forget about. i just got out of a serious relationship and all i want to do is forget.

thanks but, to make it worst she ws trying to get with my best friend.
Depends on how you broke up, if he's your best friend he would say no to her unless you let him.
Do not continue to give the breakup ‘life’. Speaking negatively of a person or situation binds you to that person or past relationship so you can’t move on to future love. You will never be able to love another freely when you are still bound to your ex.
When you are specific with the person you are breaking up with, you give a sense of closure. The other person may not be hearing you, but be very detailed and do not leave a sense of false hope… such as hope there may a reconciliation. That’s not fair to the other party. Let them go completely so they can continue their own evolution in the world.