Why do girls love bad boys?!

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(( Not all girls are like this, which is why its up to us guys to find a ride and die chick, you know a real woman who except you for who are you as well as you do the same. a girl that doesn't run like a little girl when problems strike, because lets faces it........no one really gets along until they take the time to work it out that is if they love each other enough.
 
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Because with bad boys or just boys out of the normal norm for them, makes them get more attention towards them self from family friends etc. Girls these days seem to be all about the attention, and once they see someone that could pull more attention or drama towards them they either go after that fellow or leave the person they with to go out with that fellow. I think there is a word for that......"gold diggers" if i am not mistaken. or con artist.

(( Not all girls are like this, which is why its up to us guys to fine a ride and die chick, you know a real woman who except you for who are you as well as you do the same. a girl that doesn't run like a little girl when problems strike, because lets faces it........no one really gets a lot until they take the time to work it out that is if they love each other enough.
Don't generalize girls.. You're referring to those who don't know how to stand for themselves U_U or they have low emotional quotient. Every action has a reason. :)
 

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Don't generalize girls.. You're referring to those who don't know how to stand for themselves U_U or they have low emotional quotient. Every action has a reason. :)
U_U Interesting, because i wasn't really trying to generalize girls. I was speaking more so about the girls who boys would say are over the top "hot" And the quiet ones i cant see doing this simply because i always thought quiet women are more so considered real woman. But gotta take the time to get to know them as well as the quiet boys vise versa.
 

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Because with bad boys or just boys out of the normal norm for them, makes them get more attention towards them self from family friends etc. Girls these days seem to be all about the attention, and once they see someone that could pull more attention or drama towards them they either go after that fellow or leave the person they with to go out with that fellow. I think there is a word for that......"gold diggers" if i am not mistaken. or con artist.

(( Not all girls are like this, which is why its up to us guys to find a ride and die chick, you know a real woman who except you for who are you as well as you do the same. a girl that doesn't run like a little girl when problems strike, because lets faces it........no one really gets along until they take the time to work it out that is if they love each other enough.
First of all to have a ride and die chick, a real woman as you call it. A man cant have the attitude towards woman the way you do. You post about what you think about woman shows that you have little to know respect for a woman.
 

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U_U Interesting, because i wasn't really trying to generalize girls. I was speaking more so about the girls who boys would say are over the top "hot" And the quiet ones i cant see doing this simply because i always thought quiet women are more so considered real woman. But gotta take the time to get to know them as well as the quiet boys vise versa.
I respect your opinion, that's based on your experience so I don't have the right to judge you. That was my opinion as well, so thanks for respecting. I wasn't offended since I'm not like that :) Every girl has their on personality based on their individual experiences. I was able to encounter like those, and you were as well. That's it. :)
 

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First of all to have a ride and die chick, a real woman as you call it. A man cant have the attitude towards woman the way you do. You post about what you think about woman shows that you have little to know respect for a woman.
Exactly what word did you seen in my post that indicated i have an attitude? guy ask why girls go for bad boys, in which i completely answered his question base on my opinion. how in anyway you seen an attitude in this text god one knows. Which is why i wont touch upon this response, i really don't like where its going nor do i have the patient for any internet fighting out of a ridiculous responses..
 
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well.... this all kind of depends on what a "bad boy" is or what a "nice guy" is... How exactly are we defining a badboy/niceguy?
Are we talking about abusive "badboys," or "badboy" attitudes, or a "badboy" style of dress?


To be honest I really, really don't like the whole goodguy v.s. badboy debate. There are a lot of creepy faux "niceguys" who believe themselves entitled to *** and ruin it for all the niceguys who are just genuinely nice people. I should probably refrain from ranting (even if I would like to) but the resulting mindset of the concept is really creepy to me.

Also, "badboys" are unattainable. Chasing them is no different than trying to hang with the popular clique, or a guy who tries to date a girl "out of his league" (which is yet another unfortunate stereotype.) People are just obsessed with what they think they can't have.

...unless your talking about girls who are in actual abusive relationships, in which case we're opening a big ugly can of psychological issues.
 

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:sigh: Girls don't just like bad boys, if they're straight then they just like boys, not necessarily "bad" ones. It depends on the person. Believe me, there's a girl out there for everyone; there's even girls out there for guys that just play video games all day. The sad thing is, they have more trouble getting together since both of them never go out and find each other...unless it's Comic-Con, lol.

There's no black and white, some quiet girls will like "bad boys" simply because they bring a side out of them they want to feel; and if their roles were switched it would be a similar reason. The part that's really lame is that most guys think they'll just automatically be the dominant in any relationship... :facepalm: and when the girl's dominant that means the dudes just "whipped" :doublefacepalm:...when really what happened is that ones in more control than the other, in some cases neither one is superior really.

What I want to know is why every dude and every chick has to think that it's a black and white world...jeez...add some color, would ya'? :D
 

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its all about the ***, just like dudes either want bad experienced girls for good *** or virgins who tight. girls want a dude they'll *** em rough or a good dude that cant at all.

#thetruth
 

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It's not about necessarily bad or good.
It's just that you are attracted to something you can't have...
It's general thing for women as well as for men..
 

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The last thing I want is someone pretending to be a bad boy...
I think the thing some women see in bad boy's is there cheekiness, I love that quality haha. Makes things in a relationship more amusing.

I'd rather a funny, nice guy who's a tad perverted at times...but won't push it.
 
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