[Discussion] ~ Cyber Love

[Maina Deah]

Well for me, there's a big risk when you have met someone over the internet. You're lucky if it turned okay but maybe not.

Even if both doesnt see each other, you can fall to someone over the internet when the time comes both are comfortable with each other. I know a friend who fall on someone she met in the internet. They've talk almost everyday for a year. Until the time comes she can open personal matters on him and he gives advices and completely provides her the care and attention she wanted when she need it the most. (I think the guy is really nice). She let herself fall on that guy though she knew the guy is already committed and now its hard for her to forget the guy since talking to him become a habit of her.

There's nothing wrong if someone met the right person just by chatting but its better getting to know him/her personally.

 

[Nyanmaru]

I dont think it's retarded. But yeah, it's going to be really painful because you're far from each other. And I think that tmezones are gonna be a huge pain in the ass.

 

[Ghostofthewind]

When I was in jr high I had an e-relationship. We had no money and no way of meeting or anyway of knowing if the other was being honest; as it turns out she wasn't. Years after we broke up she told me what she had lied about (almost everything) and I was fine with it, after all we had broken up. If she had been honest with me at the time I'd have dumped her without a second thought.

I was insecure when I was that age. Later I found out I had no reason to be and girls aren't as hard to meet as I thought. I'm still not good at meeting new people but that has nothing to do with girls, I'm just not social in general or a good conversationalist.

It just isn't safe to have an e-relationship. Online the other person can censor what they don't want you to know and make up what they do want you to know. I've dated a 5ult, a crazy *****, a pathological liar and several others IRL and I'd do it again before I e-dated again. Girls (if they're girls) online are that crazy.

Guys don't date online because:
1) She's probably a dude.
2) She's probably not the age she told you
3) She'll want you to buy her things ( I used to know a girl who seduced guys online and convinced them to buy her things. I refuse to talk to her).
4)

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Don't risk it. You can do better than some girl you met online.

 

[Sabuto Hayashi]

Despite all the negatives that are associated with it (paedophiles, fakes, it is frowned upon in favor of physical relationships), I don't have any problems with cyber-love.
Of course, if two parties are committed to each other, they need to do much more than just 'chat' via instant messaging or whatever.
If they're prepared to communicate over the phone, or even through webcam, then I don't see any problem with it.

Love has no boundaries.

 

[-S-]

I was on someone elses profile once here, and he and some other girl (no usernames mentioned ^_^) were having roleplay ***, and I was like WTH so creepy

but I don't really give a shit tbh

 

[Yerrina]

I was on someone elses profile once here, and he and some other girl (no usernames mentioned ^_^) were having roleplay ***, and I was like WTH so creepy

but I don't really give a shit tbh

Not PMing ? How Bold ~ Perhaps they were requested to provide entertainment for other members as well. Thank you for the insight.

 

[gaaraisuberbadass]

its not for me...

 

[Strata Uchiha]

Cyber love is real love too, unless you're dating a bot....or a person who lies about there gender. >_>

 

[Rokku Ri]

To be honest unless if they're are both serious about eachother and plan to meet up then it's fine, otherwise it'll always go bad.
o.o

 

[Chidoriissocool]

My honest opinion it's only RP. If you find love then hey good for you. Through cyber love you can tell how a person idea of love what it really with. I join NB because of the guy i dating at the time was on NB. We sort of just carried out our RL relationship on here. So pretty much cyber love is what you make it xd

 

[Chojuro Sama Kun]

No..Get a real one

 

[Husky]

Honestly speaking this question really deals with your own philosophical perspectives regarding love. At first I didn't really want to get all Aristotle on anyone, but considering this is my first post here, why not (goes for toga, fake white long beard, and scrolls). :scorps:
With regards to love, I'd say love can really amount to any personal, close connection you attain with any person you come into contact with. Meaning, friends, relatives, your cat, or a random Joe/Jane you encounter can all be loved. Whether it be sexual or not though doesn't define love, where instead (for me anyway) it just adds an extra element to the equation.
So if anyone can love, I can't imagine why people on-line can't love. Is it considered creepy by some peoples standards? Yea, I'd say, but it doesn't take away from the fact that you can still love.
Now whether cyber love proves fleeting (brief) or lasting really depends on the people involved.

Oh and btw don't have *** with your cats.

 

[Maina Deah]

I was on someone elses profile once here, and he and some other girl (no usernames mentioned ^_^) were having roleplay ***, and I was like WTH so creepy

but I don't really give a shit tbh

haha, it is quite amusing.

 

[-Lionheart-]

why is everyone so pessimistic these days


you know, ive studied the flow of time, and i ive realized something...., People are losing more and more Hope inside their souls with each passing year....and have no room in heart to Dream and Believe anymore

 

[Tosen]

Cyber love/dating is a joke, I need to feel and to be able to hold the girl, and there isn't a 100% way of knowing if your actually talking with the person you think your talking to (unless of course web cams etc etc) but then again there is that former reason of mine.

 

[ItachiG]

Cyber Love does work and sometimes help.

after i met my girlfriend at a party, she reached me through facebook, we even have that date as an important date bc its when we first started talking....after a while we went from online chatting to on the phone, then i made her my girlfriend after dating her. We now live to gether and are waiting on a baby, we still dont know what its gonna be xd

Point is, you can start an online relationship and it can lead to big things...