The 1st time your gf didnt say "I love you" back

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look at the bold bro, that is a big mistake, i learned that the hard way lmao. if you tell a girl you love her, then she automatically expects you to be in love with her, meaning you only want to be with her forever :rolleyes: then if you are really not in love with her , but you do have love for her, it will become confusing, and you will get constant calls and text messages for weeks or more. happened to me, because i told her i loved her, but i asked myself and i know i wasn't truly in love with her, or else i would get that warm feeling when i seen her, which i didn't . the only feeling i got was nothing..

lmao!! tag and release :cool: unless you know you can make it work 100% no doubt. falling in love at such a young age is risky.. tbh i have only been in love once.. the other two, i didn't understand how i felt.
(bold is for you the rest for whoever it pertains to.)
I try but doesn't always work. :p There are a lot of crazy girls out there.
Luckily for me all that high school adolescent bs that comes with a relation ship is over. Girls my age pretty much know what they want, so if your having relationship issues by the time your my age. I would check what side of the leash your on, or find a WOMAN!

For those of you who don't know there is a difference between a girl and a woman.
 

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LOL!!!!
i only told ONE!!!! girl i was inlove with her
and i think i told u about that
i aint tell no body else

one girl at the end of the night always said "Good night baby. i like you"
then one day i said
Wtf are you saying when you say "I like you" she got quiet
i said "If u wanna say it that bad. just say it. ill say it back"

she became my gf cause she said i comforted her cause she was scared a ghost was in her house. and said im very sweet.
=DD
 

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Yeah it's like that sometimes welcome to the u.s. of a lmao



Well it's not about who use it first it's just truely meaning it I find it crazy that girls & guys after a week be talking about I love you but can't even name each other favorite foods lol

bold, exactly bro. people get caught up in the moment, but on down the road, that feeling goes away.. it is all about controlling the emotion, because you can fool yourself. everything changes when you live with that person :rolleyes: your whole perspective is tainted!!
 

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bold, exactly bro. people get caught up in the moment, but on down the road, that feeling goes away.. it is all about controlling the emotion, because you can fool yourself. everything changes when you live with that person :rolleyes: your whole perspective is tainted!!

LMAO!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!1
True SHIT!
ima ask my gf
whats my fav food
@__@
 

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Hell yea
ima be like

"baby *In my deep voice* whats my fav food"

"Umm. What?"

"It was as vague as it can be.. what is my favorite food"

"Ummm.... Idkk you never told me"

"What the (Bleep) you mean i didnt tell you (Bleep) i (bleep) say im cooking it all the (Bleep) time. How the (Bleep) can you say you love me and your (Bleep) (Bleep) dont even know my Got (Bleep) fav food. i bet you know which one of my nut sacks are bigger. (Bleep) this,. *Click*
 

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That guy with the spiderman pics had me rolling!!! Spiderman out of fuqqin nowhere!!!

N the its not too bad when you say i love you and dont get a response compared to when a girl tells you i love you for the first time. Cuz they expect you to say it back n your response to it seals your fate with that girl forever!!!
 

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bold, exactly bro. people get caught up in the moment, but on down the road, that feeling goes away.. it is all about controlling the emotion, because you can fool yourself. everything changes when you live with that person :rolleyes: your whole perspective is tainted!!
You can say that again!
Been there, done that... and won't do it again. No thanks!!!

Most of the time we mistake passion for love.
But i guess that's normal. It is different for everyone.
We guys must think with the heart instead of our balls.
Girls...i don't know, i'm not one, obviously.

After all, no one can really define what the feel when they love because it's not possible.. It's one of those things you can't put in words... you just know!
 
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That guy with the spiderman pics had me rolling!!! Spiderman out of fuqqin nowhere!!!

N the its not too bad when you say i love you and dont get a response compared to when a girl tells you i love you for the first time. Cuz they expect you to say it back n your response to it seals your fate with that girl forever!!!
lmao you can say that again!!!! that one word could change the whole direction of your life :eek:
You can say that again!
Been there, done that... and won't do it again. No thanks!!!

Most of the time we mistake passion for love.
But i guess that's normal. It is different for everyone.
We guys must think with the heart instead of our balls.
Girls...i don't know, i'm not one, obviously.

After all, no one can really define what the feel when they love because it's not possible.. It's one of those things you can't put in words... you just know!
the bold!!! that explains how i felt!! when we get those two mixed up, it is hard to decipher which is which!
 

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lmao you can say that again!!!! that one word could change the whole direction of your life :eek:

the bold!!! that explains how i felt!! when we get those two mixed up, it is hard to decipher which is which!
lol agreed!! and not only that but the lack of words or lack of a response could be a huge mistake as well lol!!
 

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he wasn't my bf but...
it was 4 years ago :( I thought I made a new friend so after 4 weeks I stayed at her house for a sleep over

like all girls know at sleep overs we always ask the question "so who do you have a rush on"

well this girl who I thought was my friend asked me and I told her U_U very stupid of me but then both her and her friends started agreeing with me and each one of them said "imma ask him out"

so the next day I tried to beat them to it but mrs.Backstaber got to him before me :( Though I still told him how I felt that I had the biggest crush on him for 3 months and I loved him *crying* he told me he was sorry because she already asked him out and walked away

now with my bf we were on the phone all night till 4am :) we were both getting sleepy so we were waiting on who will drop first

we both were just talking about random things and for the first time I told him I loved him... he fell asleep on me and his grandma had picked up the phone to hang it up at the same time I said it :( she told me if I break her grandchilds heart she would break my head
 
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the bold!!! that explains how i felt!! when we get those two mixed up, it is hard to decipher which is which!

I thought i love that girl, i did lots of things for her, but in the end i saw that i never loved her, it was only passion and you know that when the feeling goes up or down...

When it's all about the passion who are always horny, want to make out all the time, those kind of stuff.
If you love, you'll just want to be with her, in silence (silence is a magical moment and very revealing)... don't get me wrong, you'll still want to be in her panties :p...

In the end, if we keep our head in it's place it comes down something like this: first comes passion, that fire burning. When it starts to change, you need to evaluate how you feel. Is it loving emerging? Or just the passion fading and nothing is left?


lol agreed!! and not only that but the lack of words or lack of a response could be a huge mistake as well lol!!
Yeah, we have to be more than geniuses to understand girls.Their instruction manual is like the bible!!!

he wasn't my bf but...
it was 4 years ago :( I thought I made a new friend so after 4 weeks I stayed at her house for a sleep over

like all girls know at sleep overs we always ask the question "so who do you have a rush on"

well this girl who I thought was my friend asked me and I told her U_U very stupid of me but then both her and her friends started agreeing with me and each one of them said "imma ask him out"

so the next day I tried to beat them to it but mrs.Backstaber got to him before me :( Though I still told him how I felt that I had the biggest crush on him for 3 months and I loved him *crying* he told me he was sorry because she already asked him out and walked away

now with my bf we were on the phone all night till 4am :) we were both getting sleepy so we were waiting on who will drop first

we both were just talking about random things and for the first time I told him I loved him... he fell asleep on me and his grandma had picked up the phone to hang it up at the same time I said it :( she told me if I break her grandchilds heart she would break my head
That was tough... but let me tell you that a 3 month crush is nothing compared to a 2 year big time crush and hearing: "oh, i like you very much... like a brother!!!!

Tell me, why do you need to be up late phoning each other?!
My brother does the same... that is damn annoying! I don't really like talking on the phone... but that's me ;)
 
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sandy sennin , nobody can touch you on the base, when it comes to understanding bro.. what you said made perfect sense, and explained everything how i felt about this chick. passion makes you wanna be around that person, kiss, ***, etc.. but it can go from a great feeling, to nothing instantly. love makes you wanna just hold that person an never let go..

everyone take notes , a true sannin has spoken ^.^
 
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I thought i love that girl, i did lots of things for her, but in the end i saw that i never loved her, it was only passion and you know that when the feeling goes up or down...

When it's all about the passion who are always horny, want to make out all the time, those kind of stuff.
If you love, you'll just want to be with her, in silence (silence is a magical moment and very revealing)... don't get me wrong, you'll still want to be in her panties :p...

In the end, if we keep our head in it's place it comes down something like this: first comes passion, that fire burning. When it starts to change, you need to evaluate how you feel. Is it loving emerging? Or just the passion fading and nothing is left?





Yeah, we have to be more than geniuses to understand girls.Their instruction manual is like the bible!!!



That was tough... but let me tell you that a 3 month crush is nothing compared to a 2 year big time crush and hearing: "oh, i like you very much... like a brother!!!!

Tell me, why do you need to be up late phoning each other?!
My brother does the same... that is damn annoying! I don't really like talking on the phone... but that's me ;)

BRO! U AINT LYING!
3yrs for me. Saying im just "Her bestfriend" and she emphasize it

Also
a girl i crushed on for about 4yrs. one day she finally said yes
i was happy af
then the next day she dumped me
my 1st and ONLY heart broke
i was DONE
 
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BRO! U AINT LYING!
3yrs for me. Saying im just "Her bestfriend" and she emphasize it

Also
a girl i crushed on for about 4yrs. one day she finally said yes
i was happy af
then the next day she dumped me
my 1st and ONLY heart broke
i was DONE
Dude...compared to you i was such a blessed teen!!! :eek:

And as a teen (from 14 to 19) i had 3 crushes... and i was a best friend to the 3!
The first one, once went for a walk with me instead of her boyfriend... who she spent a few months chasing?! :confused:
The third one, would be with me till 6pm, then go home and text me till late... hell i was her BEST FRIEND right?

But have faith.. fortunately they are not all like that!

sandy sennin , nobody can touch you on the base, when it comes to understanding bro.. what you said made perfect sense, and explained everything how i felt about this chick. passion makes you wanna be around that person, kiss, ***, etc.. but it can go from a great feeling, to nothing instantly. love makes you wanna just hold that person an never let go..

everyone take notes , a true sannin has spoken ^.^
Instantly, that's the key word. To build a relationship around Love his a billion times harder than building the damn Pyramids!
 
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Dude...compared to you i was such a blessed teen!!! :eek:

And as a teen (from 14 to 19) i had 3 crushes... and i was a best friend to the 3!
The first one, once went for a walk with me instead of her boyfriend... who she spent a few months chasing?! :confused:
The third one, would be with me till 6pm, then go home and text me till late... hell i was her BEST FRIEND right?

But have faith.. fortunately they are not all like that!




Instantly, that's the key word. To build a relationship around Love his a billion times harder than building the damn Pyramids!

Lmao
bro
heres how it goes for me

1.Bestfriend. She used to ALWAYS be on mere. never let me go in skool. Until i moved. she cried her ass off the whole week. but i didnt realized i liked her till i moved. =/ so iono

2.Bestfriend. We dated at first but she Played me. Played me hard. so then she came back to me. then we started becoming real close. she was suprised when i told her i still liked her. so then.... yea. we dont even talk no more. her head is to swole now

3.Bestfriend. OMG!. im not gonna liie. its pure lust. i would Screw the hell outta her xd she always said i can touch them. OMG! Boobs were PERFECT .. and her smile. and i actually did like her till she became a hoe. now i just want that ass

4.The one who dumped me right afterwards. U_U

5. The one i have now. She lead me on for abotu 1yr str8. just to tell me no smh. She told me she likes me. but she not going to give in. i pray. OMG. i do that one day she will say yes. Cause shes the reason i been single for a while. or dont "Like" girls like i want to.
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all my bestfriends have a story behind them. but i guess thats what makes them so special
 

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lol, I broke away with my bf
cuz he said "Baby, I love you". I felt bad cuz I hadn't the same feeling towards him. So, when he said "I love you" I got back with a kiss and "Oh, that's so sweet". But then I just thought it was not fair and the day after I called him and broke.​
 
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