What is love =\

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When you rather care more about a person than yourself then you can experience true love..In my opinion Love is to trust the special one to you and give him/her what you believe is more valuable to you..In my case-my heart.When you are putting *** above a hug or a kiss then you can't say that you are in love..Sometimes only a smile can makes you the happiest human on earth.
I want to ask a girl's opinion about this so i would prefer not to see any childish comments!
I am in love with a girl but she keeps telling me that she wants only an open relationship with me..But when she feels the need to talk and open her heart at someone she always phone me and in the end she says that she loves me..However, the next day is telling me that she is not sure if she is indeed in love with me..My question: Is she afraid to let herself fall in love or she is only using me to feel that she is loved by someone?
Btw, I am 21 and she is 20..
 

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When you rather care more about a person than yourself then you can experience true love..In my opinion Love is to trust the special one to you and give him/her what you believe is more valuable to you..In my case-my heart.When you are putting *** above a hug or a kiss then you can't say that you are in love..Sometimes only a smile can makes you the happiest human on earth.
I want to ask a girl's opinion about this so i would prefer not to see any childish comments!
I am in love with a girl but she keeps telling me that she wants only an open relationship with me..But when she feels the need to talk and open her heart at someone she always phone me and in the end she says that she loves me..However, the next day is telling me that she is not sure if she is indeed in love with me..My question: Is she afraid to let herself fall in love or she is only using me to feel that she is loved by someone?
Btw, I am 21 and she is 20..
honestly, an open relationship either means, she's confused or there is someone else. if there is someone else dont wait around, you will end up being a rebound. you should always feel number 1, not number 2.

if shes confused, give it time and still be there for her. if you feel that your role is resorted to being a friend, then let it be coz soul mates are the bestest of friends. soon she will come around. patience is a virtue my friend.
 

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xd I know this may seem like a silly title but I really wanna know what people think xD

I remember back in my younger days when people use to love people for who they are but that's not the case anymore :/

most people love people for what they have **cough** what's in their bank account xd looks ~ height, hair type, eye color, ect..

and some people have gone as far to love people for what race they are (I had a boy love me for this before :/ )

I'm not saying its anything wrong with having preferences, but what is love really these days?¿


All men and women are created equal theirs really no difference. When a man or women is in love no matter what someone says a about the man/woman in their eyes their an angel. Women and men go to extremes to keep the relationship's running smooth because that what love causes you to do.

Real love is when you stop what ever your doing for the person/stranger/lover to admire and let them know your their for them no matter what happens you build a wall of trust and love to protect them.

Lust is nothing more than a sexual innuendo that you fantasied about the person or stranger you would like to see more than just naked . No real connection was ever made so the relationship will be over quickly!!!

Fact: Some of us have already either passed up or missed are soul mate because we never acknowledged them to begin with. it happens a lot because we're always altering your way of life.

I was in love with a beautiful girl from my spanish class and i let her know how i feel. We talked night and day never ending. I thought perfect she loves me and i also get along well with her friends and family. Than one of her friends told me rite in front of her that she has a man and that point i was speechless .

But no matter what i was still in love with her and i realized that i had to let her go. Because i couldn't bare being the guy who breaks up another persons relationship . So we just became friends and that's was all.

No matter what i still lover her and think about her religiously even tho she has a man. I'm not in to relationships for *** and also not racist/prejudice towards any woman of color I'm dating. For me it's all about what's inside your heart. And that's the power of love:kiss:!!!

Everyone experiences love differently but the end result is always the same.
You need to be willing to tell the person how you feel up front no sand bagging it or you become that aka... Stalker:eek:!!

Hope your all having a wonderful day. Peace
 

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All men and women are created equal theirs really no difference. When a man or women is in love no matter what someone says a about the man/woman in their eyes their an angel. Women and men go to extremes to keep the relationship's running smooth because that what love causes you to do.

Real love is when you stop what ever your doing for the person/stranger/lover to admire and let them know your their for them no matter what happens you build a wall of trust and love to protect them.

Lust is nothing more than a sexual innuendo that you fantasied about the person or stranger you would like to see more than just naked . No real connection was ever made so the relationship will be over quickly!!!

Fact: Some of us have already either passed up or missed are soul mate because we never acknowledged them to begin with. it happens a lot because we're always altering your way of life.

I was in love with a beautiful girl from my spanish class and i let her know how i feel. We talked night and day never ending. I thought perfect she loves me and i also get along well with her friends and family. Than one of her friends told me rite in front of her that she has a man and that point i was speechless .

But no matter what i was still in love with her and i realized that i had to let her go. Because i couldn't bare being the guy who breaks up another persons relationship . So we just became friends and that's was all.

No matter what i still lover her and think about her religiously even tho she has a man. I'm not in to relationships for *** and also not racist/prejudice towards any woman of color I'm dating. For me it's all about what's inside your heart. And that's the power of love:kiss:!!!

Everyone experiences love differently but the end result is always the same.
You need to be willing to tell the person how you feel up front no sand bagging it or you become that aka... Stalker:eek:!!

Hope your all having a wonderful day. Peace
i think its time to change your avatar. lol
 

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Love is when you love someone for who they are and not what they look like. No matter how many times they **** up you can still forgive because in truth you can't see yourself living without that one person
 

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People now a days care more about looks and materialistic things rather than the person themselves. Love can't truly be explained if it's real
 

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You've ****ing with the wrong girls and you've given up.

If you find yourself a good looking girl, you break into whats in her heart through various ways to find out if you like her.

Also, it's not always great to ask girls for girl advice. Girls oftentimes tell you what they "think" a relationship should be like.

I was raised by my mother, and my mother always told me (in layabout terms, not directly like this) to treat girls like princesses. Likely this was due to my dads treatment of her. The problem with that is, if a girl senses that a guy is OVERLY sensitive, then she'll throw you in the friend zone. You have to be firm, especially with young girls. I guess when you're older it doesn't matter as much, but consider the age you are now. Girls want to date men, not other girls. If you start simpering after her, she'll be turned off.

Have I fell in love? Yes. I also feel that if you love somebody, or you "love" somebody, the feeling never goes away in certain aspects. You can fall in love, love each other faithfully, get into a big fight, break up, then see her date another man. You STILL feel something because you're looking at her and all of a sudden you remember how you USED to feel. We just have to learn to shelve our feelings under certain aspects so we are allowed to move on.

For all you rap fans, here's something that will explain it to you xD

 
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Love is when u care for a person deeply and would give your life for them........... it's mainly love for who they really are as a human being not what they do or have etc.
 

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Love is just a word. One person saying "i love you" may be differnt to the next theres no real definition for love and it can't really be explained. the consensus of what love is, is a level of affection for someone, and affection cannot be measured. It doesn't matter what "love" iis it's how you feel
 

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xd I know this may seem like a silly title but I really wanna know what people think xD

I remember back in my younger days when people use to love people for who they are but that's not the case anymore :/

most people love people for what they have **cough** what's in their bank account xd looks ~ height, hair type, eye color, ect..

and some people have gone as far to love people for what race they are (I had a boy love me for this before :/ )

I'm not saying its anything wrong with having preferences, but what is love really these days?¿
Love is impossible to fully describe, but this is how I describe it. "Love is the selfless sacrifice for another persons well being. It has nothing to do with being with someone, but everything to do not being with them. It is giving up what you WANT most, because it's what they NEED most. It's going out of your way when it's impossible, but doing it all the same. Love isn't physical, but mental."

True love comes with a lot of pain and sacrifice. The thing is, in today's world it's usually only one person that is actively pursuing the other. So one person feels great for a while, and the other one is sacrificing themselves for the other. That doesn't last... it has to be a two way street.

*** also is the worst thing to do early in a relationship. It distorts everything. The relationship will revolve around it, and eventually fall apart after one of the lovers realize they don't have enough in common to stay together when the other person becomes tired of ***.
 

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When you rather care more about a person than yourself then you can experience true love..In my opinion Love is to trust the special one to you and give him/her what you believe is more valuable to you..In my case-my heart.When you are putting *** above a hug or a kiss then you can't say that you are in love..Sometimes only a smile can makes you the happiest human on earth.
I want to ask a girl's opinion about this so i would prefer not to see any childish comments!
I am in love with a girl but she keeps telling me that she wants only an open relationship with me..But when she feels the need to talk and open her heart at someone she always phone me and in the end she says that she loves me..However, the next day is telling me that she is not sure if she is indeed in love with me..My question: Is she afraid to let herself fall in love or she is only using me to feel that she is loved by someone?
Btw, I am 21 and she is 20..
It could be many things. To be honest, the majority of people in there low 20s (I was one of them) have no, and I mean NO idea what they want. She is probably seeing what is out there. If you really love her you will let her figure it out at her own pace. I hate to say it though... you will be hurt by her in some way, shape, or form most likely. She may never come around too. Love is an ability that fewer and fewer people are grasping these days.

We live in a selfish world, and so many people are in love with what makes them feel good. Love does not only "feel good" all the time... in fact I would say that the feel good is the thing that happens the least in a long relationship, but it is what you hold onto the longest.

I think she really does like talking to you but, also I don't think when she says she "loves" you it's the true meaning of love. When I hear people say they love someone in today's society I just shrug it off to "I like you a lot". The word is used too loosely in my opinion.

Hang in there buddy!! =)
 

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There is no such thing as love in my opinion. It is just an idiotic idea that people use to fool each other and explain what their body is telling them. It is an evolutionary response to be attracted to a potential mate and act on those responses to engage in procreation. Eventually these people fool themselves into a relationship they can't get themselves out of. They make excuses for each other's flaws when it is obvious they dislike each other. They use pity excuses to get married and have children and then fool themselves they are together for the sake of the children. To me there is no such thing as love. We are all just merely tools. We use and get used. U_U
You need a hug...

I feel so bad for you. Don't let other peoples lives and the way they lived them ruin it for you.
 
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1 Corinthians 13

the meaning of love and its true definition will never change...

It's how we as individuals perceive it through experience, beliefs, norms, etc... Just like anything else that we all go through in life.
 
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If you find yourself not wanting to hurt them, shut them up, despite that ignorant comment or that annoying thing they did/do/say; it's love. :D

When you rather care more about a person than yourself then you can experience true love..In my opinion Love is to trust the special one to you and give him/her what you believe is more valuable to you..In my case-my heart.When you are putting *** above a hug or a kiss then you can't say that you are in love..Sometimes only a smile can makes you the happiest human on earth.
I want to ask a girl's opinion about this so i would prefer not to see any childish comments!
I am in love with a girl but she keeps telling me that she wants only an open relationship with me..But when she feels the need to talk and open her heart at someone she always phone me and in the end she says that she loves me..However, the next day is telling me that she is not sure if she is indeed in love with me..My question: Is she afraid to let herself fall in love or she is only using me to feel that she is loved by someone?
Btw, I am 21 and she is 20..
She might be using you for attention. Some girls do that. It's annoying, especially when there's another girl out there that will have no problem giving her heart to you and is not a psycho bitch. That or she's truly is afraid of the demand of a monogynous relationship. Ask her.
 
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The Love Is Reason To Live In This ******* World... Because Love Give you Everything What Every, Young And Old, Want... (I Mean Everything. Started With S.E.X .. Ended with Family)
 

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I find it hard to believe in love. Every time I find myself thinking about love all I equate it to is ***. I have never understood it as something else. I am sure when you are deeply in love it is a wonderful feeling but for me that ship already sailed.
 
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