abortion your thoughts on it.

[Dupa]

Have you ever been raped, then impregnated with your rapists seed?
I'm going to assume you don't. I don't either. In fact the only one who would know would be the woman. And since we don't know her pain, how can we tell her to keep the child or not?

This is a difficult subject to argue and I'm just staying my opinion. Even though she may hate the rapest, the child is also a piece of her. If she doesn't want to provide for it just give it to adoption.

I'm fine with abortion if a person/couple is not ready to have a child in their life and/or would not be able to provide for the child.

They chose to have ***. If they can't provide then give it to adoption.

wrong? almost every one in this thread agrees with me that it's wrong.

Ya I'm agreeing as well. By writing wrong I meant that I agree that abortion is wrong.

 

[MandraRules]

I'm fine with abortion if a person/couple is not ready to have a child in their life and/or would not be able to provide for the child.

It's just Inhuman either way you put it.

 

[Morteus]

Lets say someone in ur family had been raped and now shes pregnant.... she has the right to abort... its HER life... u can judge her if u want but its her choice nonetheless....

If the baby shes carrying.. is dangerous to the pregnant woman (due to health issues or whatever... She can abort if she wants

 

[-Haku Yuki-]

I agree and all but... One has to think of the child, y'know? It's innocent... Aborting it is murder in a way. It's not the child's fault... should it have to die? Then again... I'm sure the mother would've treated the baby badly because it reminds her of the rapist... egh, I don't know.

So I guess I'll just say whatever the woman, who is pregnant, decides to do is right in her eyes.

read my last post about the story i'll sum it up in one sentence the women got raped wanted an abortion didn't get one had a male child it didn't remind her of the rapiest at all and she had great times with the child.

women who get abortion get mental issues some commit suside because they know what they did. they killed their own child.

 

[Jae Dong180]

It's just Inhuman either way you put it.

I guess u can argue that anytime u wank it or ejaculate your killing potential life too...

 

[-Haku Yuki-]

Lets say someone in ur family had been raped and now shes pregnant.... she has the right to abort... its HER life... u can judge her if u want but its her choice nonetheless....

If the baby shes carrying.. is dangerous to the pregnant woman (due to health issues or whatever... She can abort if she wants

maybe if health issues are involed but it's not just her life it's the life of her child regradless of how it was made the baby gets no say in wither it lives or dies? that seems unfair evey one has a right to life.

 

[Amanwithnoplan]

This is a difficult subject to argue and I'm just staying my opinion. Even though she may hate the rapest, the child is also a piece of her. If she doesn't want to provide for it just give it to adoption.

I agree it is a tough subject to argue. And I'm not opposed to the adoption idea, however consider the medical expenses that go along with having a child. Sometimes it's just not possible.

 

[C WET]

Abortion isn't a good thing. However only two things can top it to where it makes it understandable. If the woman's life is in danger of carrying it, like they both will be killed if carrying full term. Second is rape, something out of the control of the woman's hands. As a means of birth control is common and low and wrong. Use pills, don't take a life. thats what I believe anyways.

i say use pills in general.. they aren't hard to take and if ur a young lady i'm sure *** has been a thought in ur mind and rape is always possible.. always be prepared... that's what i think.. but don't take a life...

I'm fine with abortion if a person/couple is not ready to have a child in their life and/or would not be able to provide for the child.

your an idiot.. and again.. we find ourselves back at the topic of adoption...

 

[C WET]

I guess u can argue that anytime u wank it or ejaculate your killing potential life too...

negative.. sperm isn't developing or breathing.. it's not technically alive... only when it hits the egg and starts developing is it alive... soo you are wrong.

 

[-Haku Yuki-]

negative.. sperm isn't developing or breathing.. it's not technically alive... only when it hits the egg and starts developing is it alive... soo you are wrong.

yup i think your right about that.

 

[Dupa]

I agree it is a tough subject to argue. And I'm not opposed to the adoption idea, however consider the medical expenses that go along with having a child. Sometimes it's just not possible.

Sad but trueU_U

 

[C WET]

yup i think your right about that.

lol i know all this cuz i'm old enough to and i'm a father and a husband... and i love my life... i wouldn't be with my wife if she wanted adoption.. which thank god she is the same as all of us who are against it...

 

[Jack Spicer]

yes it's her choice but the people doing the abortion nenver tell the women the side effects they want the monay they get the side effects can mentally ruin a women and some times the women will commint suside because she know's she killed a real liveing human

no offense, but its not her body, its the baby's life. the only thing that affects her body is that she avoids getting bigger. if she dont want the baby, give it up to adoption. if not, dont get pregnant

I agree with both of you.

I even said if my wife wanted an abortion, I'd be against it. I don't care when it's other people's decisions, but when it involves me, I care because my opinion is usually important in a situation involving me. So, I'd be against. However, you can't make someone have a baby. If my wife doesn't want it after I gave my opinion, I wouldn't be mad. It's her decision. All of it is her choice. All I can do, as a husband, is give my input. Like I said, you can't make someone have a baby.

 

[-Haku Yuki-]

I agree with both of you.

I even said if my wife wanted an abortion, I'd be against it. I don't care when it's other people's decisions, but when it involves me, I care because my opinion is usually important in a situation involving me. So, I'd be against. However, you can't make someone have a baby. If my wife doesn't want it after I gave my opinion, I wouldn't be mad. It's her decision. All of it is her choice. All I can do, as a husband, is give my input. Like I said, you can't make someone have a baby.

as her husband she should think that marrage is a partner ship if one doesn't agree then one shouldn't act on their own if i told my wife she shouldn't have an abortion but she went behind my back and did it anyway what kind of a wife is that? i wouldn't be able to trust her if i was her husband as her partner she should consider your opinion and not act on her own couples have to make discetions together and not make actions with the aproval of the other.

 

[Avani]

There are so many things that may go wrong and a woman can end up getting pregnanat with a child which is better aborted- for one the medical resons. The baby itself may be suffering from some incurable deformity/lack of proper growth etc.

Rape victims/mother's life in danger/her health/ her circumstances...

Simply, if it's not your body, it's not your choice.

Note: Such a thread was made and got deleted just a few weeks ago because of rampant flaming and arguments over this issue.. I just hope that it doesn't happent to this one..

 

[Jack Spicer]

as her husband she should think that marrage is a partner ship if one doesn't agree then one shouldn't act on their own if i told my wife she shouldn't have an abortion but she went behind my back and did it anyway what kind of a wife is that? i wouldn't be able to trust her if i was her husband as her partner she should consider your opinion and not act on her own couples have to make discetions together and not make actions with the aproval of the other.

True. Then we would talk it out. My no VS her yes.


Honestly, no matter what I say, sadly it's her final opinion. Her body. Her choice. It's a two-way relationship, and I would hope it would be. But in the end, with this situation, it's her final choice to have the child or not. Her body goes through the pain. Would I be mad? I said no, but I take it back. I'd be sad.


However, sometimes you have no other choice. What if your poor or live in a bad place, or both? I would recommend, have the baby and put it up for adoption (I'd also recommend it with the wife situationt too)



What I'm saying is, it's the carrier of the babies final choice. You can't force someone to have one.

It's complicated xd

 

[-Haku Yuki-]

There are so many things that may go wrong and a woman can end up getting pregnanat with a child which is better aborted- for one the medical resons. The baby itself may be suffering from some incurable deformity/lack of proper growth etc.

Rape victims/mother's life in danger/her health/ her circumstances...

Simply, if it's not your body, it's not your choice.

Note: Such a thread was made and got deleted just a few weeks ago because of rampant flaming and arguments over this issue.. I just hope that it doesn't happent to this one..

read my post on page two some where about the women who got raped had the kid and had no regerts

True. Then we would talk it out. My no VS her yes.


Honestly, no matter what I say, sadly it's her final opinion. Her body. Her choice. It's a two-way relationship, and I would hope it would be. But in the end, with this situation, it's her final choice to have the child or not. Her body goes through the pain. Would I be mad? I said no, but I take it back. I'd be sad.


However, sometimes you have no other choice. What if your poor or live in a bad place, or both? I would recommend, have the baby and put it up for adoption (I'd also recommend it with the wife situationt too)



What I'm saying is, it's the carrier of the babies final choice. You can't force someone to have one.

It's complicated xd

still in the end it should be a choice bwteen the two the wife and the husband if both can't come to an agreement and one just decides to go behind the back of the other there is no trust the wife should honer your choice and think it and if you hink she shouldn't then the best choice is adoption if the two can't agree because there's no trust if the women does something the husband was strongly against and if the women doesn't want the baby adoption should alwats be the choice in the end.

 

[Seffy]

ok some times there is a choice of life and death bwteen the two the baby and the women so i can't agrue for some reason on that one but i have an arguement for the rape one. i heard a stoy of a women getting raped she wanted to get rid of the babay her friend convined her to have the baby she did and gave it up for adoption even aftewr doing so she got to see the child she had goof times with the child and it was a boy didn't remind of of the raper at all if she had gone threw with the abortion she would have mental issues and would have never had those good times with her son.

Ok if a woman is raped and wants to keep the baby or put up for adoption, wonderful. However not all women are the same. If a woman becomes to mentally unstable because of the tramatic experience, then I say abort before they both are killed. It's easy to judge a person for what they did, but being in their shoes is a different story. Not all rapes have a happy ending and some women are driven into suicide on the thought alone and experiencing it without throwing a baby in the mix! It all boils down to if the woman is able to live with it and not every woman, as sad as it maybe can be helped.

 

[-Haku Yuki-]

Ok if a woman is raped and wants to keep the baby or put up for adoption, wonderful. However not all women are the same. If a woman becomes to mentally unstable because of the tramatic experience, then I say abort before they both are killed. It's easy to judge a person for what they did, but being in their shoes is a different story. Not all rapes have a happy ending and some women are driven into suicide on the thought alone and experiencing it without throwing a baby in the mix! It all boils down to if the woman is able to live with it and not every woman, as sad as it maybe can be helped.

in the case that the baby causes mental issues to adoption is always a choice that way the baby can live and she doesn't have to rise it plus she will have less suidiely feeling if she doesn't abort the baby. the baby should have the right to live the women can always give it up for adoption.

 

[Avani]

read my post on page two some where about the women who got raped had the kid and had no regerts

The population of the women on the earth is not restricted to those particular women. They don't even count in such a large pool.

I don't know what women you are referring to but, probably someone in USA?
In many places of the erath the kid will simply be declared a bastard and probably end up some errand boy for a pimp while mother would be in the brothel of the pimp. That's just one scenario but, I hope you get my point. Here many girls just commit suicide.

still in the end it should be a choice bwteen the two the wife and the husband if both can't come to an agreement and one just decides to go behind the back of the other there is no trust the wife should honer your choice and think it and if you hink she shouldn't then the best choice is adoption if the two can't agree because there's no trust if the women does something the husband was strongly against and if the women doesn't want the baby adoption should alwats be the choice in the end.

How come carrying a baby for nine months and then give it up for adoption is a better choice for a married couple? That's plain silly. Women ususally want kids if married because it not only cements their marriage, they want a child usually either way.

Most women who want to abvoid or delay it do that because of their career etc- because getting pregnant and going on leave because of that ends in missing that upcoming promotion chances or loss of job or carreer advancement etc.

If husband wants the kid that bad and wife is ready to carry it for the whole term- then the best would be that such a child loving caring husband takes responsibiliy of the kid and starts learning how to change diapers instead of giving it up for adoption because his wife doesn't want to do it. Otherwise the hypocrite husband should keep his mouth shut.

Edit:

Also as someone above said about raped woman carrying the child for full term and then giving it up- so how many times have you been pregnant , carried a chiled, given a birth and know the complications, permanant changes the body goes through this all and damages a mother's body takes in the process etc? And to be kept reminded that she is going through this all because some bastard wanted his fun and treated her in the worst manner possible and now she is going to give birth to someone who may be a reminder of her worst nightmere forever?

Not every Rape falls in the same category you know- some girls can recover from some cases- while others are hard to get over from..