lol same here.. well dont report..send me a negative rep..
to me cheating requires the use of brain.use it as long as u can to keep people thinking that ur playing fair... making people fool isnt easy u know....
[Discussion] Cheating
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But whats the point of it? Its the easier way? Makes you weak willed, Its fun? Makes you a jerk, Sometimes there's a need to cheat? Makes you a fool cause sometimes if you use your head properly there may be a way out whilst playing it fair.
I was in relationship with a girl for more than 4-5 years. (4 years 8 months to be precise.) Then she cheated me, for a guy who looked like a guerilla back then. >_> I was shocked at that time, after two months of suffering I decided to kill myself, (yes, you heard me.) I then committed it, I was such a low-lifer to attempt such thing, somehow, I din't die. <_< now two years have been past, And I now, laugh at my foolishness.
The point is, Never cheat in any relationship. It hurts, badly. T_T
The point is, Never cheat in any relationship. It hurts, badly. T_T
I am not giving you negative rep- asking forn it against rules whether it's green or red.
I don't understand why do you think going red is cool.. Is it your way of fasting for Ramazan- fast on green?
Cheating- I get what you are saying but I do not agree with it applying in relationships.
Wildtangent
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there are to many posts for me to quote so I'm not going too. So.... For those that say cheating is fun, ok, etc. I will use part of a quote from Kakashi himself. " In the ninja world, those that do not follow the rules are called trash." (this may not be word for word but you get the point) I believe this goes for cheating on your partner as well(and for our world if anyone who wants to get smart). Cheating is breaking an unwritten rule- therefore you are trash U_U For all those that have been cheated on I am sorry to hear that, but I am with you, and we will find someone that isnt trash because we deserve better then that.
Like how you pre-emptively emphasized the fact that he was a pakistani.
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Cheating is wrong, but it doesn't always mean you're a bad person by heart. People make that mistake all the time, without actually aiming for it. If you're in a serious (or only partially serious for that matter) relationship, and you betray your partner, then you've done something wrong. If you can't reserve your feelings for your girlfriend/boyfriend, then you obviously don't belong together and ought to free yourself and her/him of it before you **** up and end up cheating.
The only problem is how to define cheating. The only genuine definition of cheating to me is having ***, or anything close to sexual (say kissing beyond what's a regular nip on the lips). If you've flirted with another girl with motive of trying to hook up with her, then you're cheating. If you have romantic feelings for another girl, then you should try and get rid of them, or consider what's best for you - cause the worst way out is definitely cheating and keeping each other in the dark. It'll just leave you with a lot of guilt, bad reputation, and worst of all the trust people give you.
For instance... masturbating to pornography isn't cheating - yet some people insist that it is. Sure, if you masturbate to a picture of somebody you know, or somebody you're interested in (again with the motive part), then you ARE cheating, cause you're thinking about somebody else than the person you've chosen to share a bond with. If you look at the anatomically perfect body of a pornstar with sole motive of bumping up your *** drive so you can finish the job, there aren't any romantic feelings involved, cause you can never get that intimate (though if a pornstar presentet herself in your room and you were to star in that kinda movie, then you'd be cheating). You have to commit yourself and let go of urges to 'have something else on the side', cause despite the fact that it's not wrong to give another girl or potential partner attention, keep in mind that you have to honor your bond, and that any sexual or romantic feelings are strictly reserved for your partner.
I've known guys that have a tendency to give in to their lust and end up in the sack with somebody else than their girlfriend. It's a shit thing to do, and it deserves to be despised. The sad thing about it is that it's not always easy to show that kind of restraint when you're drunk and whatnot. The guys I truly respect in that scenario are the ones that come forward in regret the first chance they get, respecting their girlfriend enough to give her the choice to forgive and forget, or separate. And to be fair, it's better she hears it from you than from someone else. If you love a girl, and she loves you, then none of you wants to break up. Having been cheated on sucks, and it's hard to accept - but most things are forgivable.
I've never cheated before, but I'll admit I've so damn close more times than I can justify. I'm not a relationship kind of guy, but I have had a few girlfriends. I've broken up because I haven't felt anything, I've broken up because I've been interested in another person. Nobody has ever broken up with me, cause I usually figure out that there's no interest left from either her or my part, and just save her the trouble.
I know a lot of people, and I know several couples that are still together despite not feeling anything for each other. All sexual, making out with other people, cheating on each other, breaking up on and off all the time. Then on the other hand; one of my best friends cheated on his girlfriend, but told her the day after. They're still together because they love each other.
...these are my 2 cents.
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Wildtangent
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I agree with you. I guess in some cases like your friends there are times where you can forgive eachother and then it not happen again. It sounds to me like your best friend wont cheat ever again. But there are some guys/girls that despit saying they are sorrying and it wont happen again it still does- cuz either they really aren't sorry or just haven't learned from there mistakes...yet. In my opinion when someone says they are sorry- it is essentially saying that it was a mistake and will do what they can so it wont happen again. But as I said there are some people who really maybe aren't sorry. U_U
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possible, I, however don't give second chances. maybe I didn't love him enough to forgive and forget or I just couldn't make it to work once the TRUST is gone. It's really hard. I would be paranoid forever, since I'm the jealous type.
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It's amazing how most of the guys who posted here and believe that Cheating is Wrong. I reckon in all aspects of cheating, it is wrong. Whether be on an examination, in sports etc etc.
Somehow, it makes it a whole different story when people's emotions are involved. Because people get hurt.
I don't know if there's any excuse to it... but sometimes I think, it happens when they're provoked/seduced. Men mostly are weak when it comes to that. Even women, maybe...? Temptations are everywhere. It's easy to be tempted and hard to get out of it, because of what we are. If you are strong enough to fight it, then great! If not..? then, too bad..?
For example, if a guy, got tempted and did it and felt so horribly wrong then confessed to his loved one about it... is he still a bad person? should he be forgiven?
I don't know the answer to that, honestly. It's easy to say YES but if I'm caught up in that position, I wouldn't be able to because I am not that open-minded. Just like I said earlier, it is hard when that TRUST is gone.
Some people manage to live their lives with it.. some don't. As for me, I try to stay honest so I can receive the same treatment. If not, well, that's LIFE. =/
no no..after what he did after that...told everyone that this is britanias true nature and blah blah... .
ramazan? dont bring that in.....I am not giving you negative rep- asking forn it against rules whether it's green or red.
I don't understand why do you think going red is cool.. Is it your way of fasting for Ramazan- fast on green?
Cheating- I get what you are saying but I do not agree with it applying in relationships.
i lost my 5 green bars so i now want red..
cheating:in relation.. dont do it...only in relation.. other than that, go cheating
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That was a JK and not even that bad. Please do not take it negatively when it wasn't intended so.
Don't be silly. You are nice and funny. I don't know why did you lose that but, I'm sure you will gain it back with time.
lol.. Looks like Chunin exam first test impressed you too much.
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All cheating is immoral and when people have a good reason just means they have a ridiculous excuse. If anyone thinks cheating is alright, you need a reality check
Well put.
I can understand the admission of failure but attempts to justify it- that's a lie. the cheater is not only lying to the person one cheated on but to oneself as well if one really believe it.
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