Are you happy?

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With what you have? Who you are? What you are? Who you have?
I am happy, I'm not a good person, or super wealthy, or rich in friends, but I do have a very nice life, and I'm not gonna waste it chasing after something else, I'm gonna stay right here and be happy.
 
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Yes. Doesn’t mean I can’t get better and be happier. I notice that settling halts a lot of processes in life including happiness but more importantly: growth. Can’t be happy if you don’t grow. I want to grow more. I want to be a bigger and better me by any means and that will help me on my road to happiness.
 

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Not happy. I was doing so well and got cucked by medical sht that doesnt even run in my family. Who the fok did black magic on me eeeèeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeee
I dont have a good relationship with my brothers and I found someone who I treated like a brother and he foked me over smh. Not happy am I, happy am I not. I found q reddit page though for people who have le condition and they depressed af.
 

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I like that you gave some context for the term, big as it is.

Still, there is room for more clarity. Happiness vs satisfaction, vs Love, vs contentment, in the context of possibility, of potential and so on.

Generally, i am happy that the world is not a total wreck, i am displeased that it is not the utopia we are capable of making it. I am happy/satisfied with the foundations of this existence, but i am not happy with what has been built upon said foundations.

It's a big word, difficult to put down to definite conclusion.
 

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I don't know. I think I am. For the most part I am. But, sometimes I feel like I have been more unhappy than I have been happy especially this past while despite having so many things in my life that I am grateful for. And there are definitely things that I look forward to as well. But I have also been feeling more stressed, anxious, down, etc. and the pandemic has been taking its toll. I'm tired and sometimes I just feel so crummy. On my worst days, I lose confidence in both myself and others and just feel like I'm not good enough to the people I love... And I wonder if that's why... Never mind.

Change is inevitable as someone had pointed out. Learning how to cope with change/stress helps us grow, be more resilient and preform better. But change can be scary and I don't usually welcome it as I am a creature of habit (I guess it also depends on the nature of the change I suppose). Still, without change or the drive to improve, we would just be stuck. And honestly, I think complacency can be a pretty scary thing too. So I think it's important to be balanced: to be grateful for all the good we have and to learn to accept things that are beyond our control, but to also figure out what we do have control over and things that we can do to improve a situation. As another person said, unhappiness and negative experiences are temporary. We just need to remind ourselves of that, and to ride it out while doing whatever we can to take care of ourselves and each other until it passes.

Not happy. I was doing so well and got cucked by medical sht that doesnt even run in my family. Who the fok did black magic on me eeeèeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeee
I dont have a good relationship with my brothers and I found someone who I treated like a brother and he foked me over smh. Not happy am I, happy am I not. I found q reddit page though for people who have le condition and they depressed af.
^I'm sorry to hear, that sounds rough T.T All the best and hope things get better soon.
 
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Not happy. I was doing so well and got cucked by medical sht that doesnt even run in my family. Who the fok did black magic on me eeeèeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeee
I dont have a good relationship with my brothers and I found someone who I treated like a brother and he foked me over smh. Not happy am I, happy am I not. I found q reddit page though for people who have le condition and they depressed af.

And what condition would that be, if I may ask?
 

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Some of this might be obvious already, but feel free to check it out if you want:




A short video. Kind of old, definitely cheesy, and not entirely clear on the validity of the experiment, but others have since continued to study the concept of gratitude and its relationship to the emotional experience of happiness and have drawn similar conclusions:
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^I'm sorry to hear, that sounds rough T.T All the best and hope things get better soon.
Thanks for the kind words :)
And what condition would that be, if I may ask?
Sorry it's too personal.

I have a found a reddit page with people with the same condition. Always good to hear other peoples stories. I've calmed down now I was losing my sht that day I posed it hue.
 
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