Sakura Michiko
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This is a long post. I tried to condense it as much as possible.
My ex had a lot of issues. We were in a three year relationship and he was insecure the whole time. On top of that he would quit/lose every single job he would get. I was trying to wait to see if he changed but I got really tired of it. He completely killed my emotion connection with him while he stared persistently bothering me while I was studying for my nursing final exams about a minor disagreement I got into with a friend. He kept trying to make me stop being friends with all of my male friends.. He even harrassed some of them.Right before I dumped him he started stalking my house. I ended up dumping him and I made it clear it was being he was extremely insecure and kept losing/quitting his jobs and he wasn't trying to change.
After I dumped him I went home and changed my passwords for everything(so I thought). He started calling me every day and messaging me online everyday asking me to talk to him and he was liking all of the photos of us on my facebook. Then he started messaging my friends all around 3 am borthering them about me. He was passing around my house and stalking me. My friends were sending me screenshots of his messages because they started to worry about me and my safety. I told my job about what was happening and I filed a threat claim at work. They don't let me walk outside of the job at night alone. My ex called the cops to my house to take my computer he brought me as a gift but he couldn't take it because it's not legal to take away gifts. One day I was on the phone with a friend and my friend asked me why I was sending him weird messages. I told him I wasn't then I went check my facebook. My ex had hacked my account and was sending several of my close friends fraudulent and slanderous things about me. Some of my friends knew it was him and started arguing with him. A few blocked him. I figured out he got in through my email and I changed the password on it. (He use to fix my computer so I thinks that why he knew my email password). I blocked him on facebook and I blocked his number.
He stole my steam account then returned it after he mailed me a letter with a suspectious flash drive(I never used). The letter was some fake apologize and him asking to be friends. After that he started making alt accounts and using other people's phones to call me. I was screenshotting everything he was doing. Eventually I got a new boyfriend (a childhood friend of 14 years). My ex messaged him by lying and saying I was pregnant for him but my boyfriend didn't believe him. A few days later he messaged my boyfriend telling him he was sorry and how I was a good person and to take care of me. A few more days later I got more odd messages from my ex and several from friends who were being bother by my ex. One of my friend's sent me screenshots of him sharing stuff on valetineday about some guy who killed his ex. I called the cops but they said because my ex didn't threaten me and wasn't stalking me on my property they couldn't do anything. They even told me they couldn't do anything about me hacking me because they didn't know if it was him.
He persistently bothered me until 3 weeks ago. The last time he bothered me he came to my house. I opened the door with my phone camera on recorded.I know it was risky but I needed proof to show the cops. He was asking to be friends and said he was sorry. I asked him why he hacked me and stalked me. I'm currently recovering from a tonsillectomy but after I fully heal up I'm showing that video to the cops.
My ex had a lot of issues. We were in a three year relationship and he was insecure the whole time. On top of that he would quit/lose every single job he would get. I was trying to wait to see if he changed but I got really tired of it. He completely killed my emotion connection with him while he stared persistently bothering me while I was studying for my nursing final exams about a minor disagreement I got into with a friend. He kept trying to make me stop being friends with all of my male friends.. He even harrassed some of them.Right before I dumped him he started stalking my house. I ended up dumping him and I made it clear it was being he was extremely insecure and kept losing/quitting his jobs and he wasn't trying to change.
After I dumped him I went home and changed my passwords for everything(so I thought). He started calling me every day and messaging me online everyday asking me to talk to him and he was liking all of the photos of us on my facebook. Then he started messaging my friends all around 3 am borthering them about me. He was passing around my house and stalking me. My friends were sending me screenshots of his messages because they started to worry about me and my safety. I told my job about what was happening and I filed a threat claim at work. They don't let me walk outside of the job at night alone. My ex called the cops to my house to take my computer he brought me as a gift but he couldn't take it because it's not legal to take away gifts. One day I was on the phone with a friend and my friend asked me why I was sending him weird messages. I told him I wasn't then I went check my facebook. My ex had hacked my account and was sending several of my close friends fraudulent and slanderous things about me. Some of my friends knew it was him and started arguing with him. A few blocked him. I figured out he got in through my email and I changed the password on it. (He use to fix my computer so I thinks that why he knew my email password). I blocked him on facebook and I blocked his number.
He stole my steam account then returned it after he mailed me a letter with a suspectious flash drive(I never used). The letter was some fake apologize and him asking to be friends. After that he started making alt accounts and using other people's phones to call me. I was screenshotting everything he was doing. Eventually I got a new boyfriend (a childhood friend of 14 years). My ex messaged him by lying and saying I was pregnant for him but my boyfriend didn't believe him. A few days later he messaged my boyfriend telling him he was sorry and how I was a good person and to take care of me. A few more days later I got more odd messages from my ex and several from friends who were being bother by my ex. One of my friend's sent me screenshots of him sharing stuff on valetineday about some guy who killed his ex. I called the cops but they said because my ex didn't threaten me and wasn't stalking me on my property they couldn't do anything. They even told me they couldn't do anything about me hacking me because they didn't know if it was him.
He persistently bothered me until 3 weeks ago. The last time he bothered me he came to my house. I opened the door with my phone camera on recorded.I know it was risky but I needed proof to show the cops. He was asking to be friends and said he was sorry. I asked him why he hacked me and stalked me. I'm currently recovering from a tonsillectomy but after I fully heal up I'm showing that video to the cops.
