A defense mechanism probably but we can't deny that there is a predominant sexual orientation. I am hetero, i don't feel sexually attracted to men but i can say if a man is pretty or not.
All I know is, sexuality isn't that complicated to figure out.People make it complicated because they REFUSE to acknowledge the truth, and that REFUSAL turns into something else.So much self-denial.
People just love to distort sexuality.
You'll notice that many claiming heterosexual have a "prejudice" when it comes to the same ***, and choose the opposite because it's socially acceptable.Some of em will engage with the same-*** behind closed doors, but not claim or own up to it, cause they just want their cake and eat it too.They're so prejudice and ashamed of their sexuality.All cause it isn't as socially acceptable as heterosexuality.
The furthest, or my limit, with the same *** is possibly a "bromance"...I can't go any further.That's just what a male is, a male understands another male(most are sworn to secrecy, cause they're actually prejudice, and they're hypocrites).As a female understands another female(some are out there, then you have prejudice hypocrite females).That's how it's always gonna be, and if you DON'T feel that way you're very insecure and uncomfortable with yourself.Especially if you do MORE than a close "bond", but hide it.
Some of you like to scribble out your issues like they aren't there. Don't avoid it.
And, between, I've never had a bromance, just giving an example.I'm too incompatible with males.But, yes, I embrace sexuality in it's healthiest authentic state...not a bunch of false pretenses.
As for women, there attraction towards males are very questionable. Is it genuine, or is it "imagination" based?...are you just sticking to it out of moral obligation and because it's the most socially acceptable?And If that wasn't the way society was built, I GUARANTEE you wouldn't be claiming "heterosexual"...people claim it cause it's convenient.
I have no sexual desire, cause it's all just infantile. Whatever happens is just a
natural phenomenon,that sparks on it's own, as heterosexuality SHOULD BE, between two adults.No forcing it, or ENTITLING myself to it...cause that's just interference, it's not genuine. A lot of what you see today is just a form of reverse psychology.
No one's strictly heterosexual, though.Just avoidance. In fact, you
can't be, that's
not real.
Imagine being very attractive, and not being able to reciprocate those feelings back to the next person. I have no sexual chemistry with anyone, because their attractions are too "imagination-based". Not real.
Being with the opposite *** based off of a rule or principle is just a facade and incredibly out-dated.Get over it.
Nothing but Pride and Prejudice.
