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(Sorry this might be kinda long but I tried to sum it up) My neighbor. I felt like we kinda had a bond because we are the same age and we would often talk and normally get along. She was dealing with depression because of traumatic events that happened it her life and one that just happened.My mom and I would often check on her and see how she was doing and watch her kids for her sometimes. Her big sister(a friend of mine since I was younger) did warn be about my neighbor and how she can sometimes get "outta hand", but I shrugged it off because my neighbor mentioned she has family issues. The weird thing is that this last past month she has be avoiding my mom and I. She wouldn't talk to us much and just stopped all together . So I though it was just her being depressed but my mom noticed her looking angry at us or slamming the door when my mom would try talking to her. My mom told me she notice this behavior after she got a new guy friend because she would pull him in the house when she saw us outside but I didn't wanna just assume that was the reason but a few days ago my boyfriend's sister talked to talk to my mom and I about our neighbor( she was friends with my neighbor up until all this stuff happened).
She was telling us the girl was upset at us but she never told my boyfriend's sister any valid reason. My boyfriend's sister told us she was going to fight our neighbor because she didn't like the girl talking bad about me but my mom told her no and stated that she was just going to ask the girl what was wrong. My mom did so and the girl got piss and started cursing at my mom than said "That's why I put your daughter's tires on a flat last month." This greatly pissed me off because I couldn't believe she would do that and I didn't understand why. We got into a mini fuss and my mom called the cops to file a report. Her ex boyfriend, whom she use to fight all the time for god knows what reason told us that she would just flip out on people for no apparent reason. We would see her fighting and she would do this in front of her two little kids.
Today she was tampering with stuff on our porch and my mom told me to go video the tampered stuff. So our neighbor was kinda watching me and I told my mom that someone was watching me. 30 minutes later the girl called the cops and said we was videoing her than she came outside cursing and fussing and we got into another argument but the cop told us stop so I stopped. He looked at my video and saw she wasn't in it and he left. After that she came outside talking about she was going to cut me and all kinds of other crazy stuff. She's also been texting/threatening my boyfriend's sister about fighting her and me but she still never tried anything yet. I currently have to walk outside all the time with a pocket knife...Geez this is annoying. :kk:
-I was talking to a co worker about this and she told me to contact her sister about this because she thinks my neighbor needs mental help and how this is not good for her kids. Should I get her sister involved or no?
She was telling us the girl was upset at us but she never told my boyfriend's sister any valid reason. My boyfriend's sister told us she was going to fight our neighbor because she didn't like the girl talking bad about me but my mom told her no and stated that she was just going to ask the girl what was wrong. My mom did so and the girl got piss and started cursing at my mom than said "That's why I put your daughter's tires on a flat last month." This greatly pissed me off because I couldn't believe she would do that and I didn't understand why. We got into a mini fuss and my mom called the cops to file a report. Her ex boyfriend, whom she use to fight all the time for god knows what reason told us that she would just flip out on people for no apparent reason. We would see her fighting and she would do this in front of her two little kids.
Today she was tampering with stuff on our porch and my mom told me to go video the tampered stuff. So our neighbor was kinda watching me and I told my mom that someone was watching me. 30 minutes later the girl called the cops and said we was videoing her than she came outside cursing and fussing and we got into another argument but the cop told us stop so I stopped. He looked at my video and saw she wasn't in it and he left. After that she came outside talking about she was going to cut me and all kinds of other crazy stuff. She's also been texting/threatening my boyfriend's sister about fighting her and me but she still never tried anything yet. I currently have to walk outside all the time with a pocket knife...Geez this is annoying. :kk:
-I was talking to a co worker about this and she told me to contact her sister about this because she thinks my neighbor needs mental help and how this is not good for her kids. Should I get her sister involved or no?
