[Discussion] Is It Right For Women To Withold *** In A Relationship?

[Dannie]

It sounds like you are begging really hard. "Oh no, I give her everything but she just refuses to repay me. Mimimi."
Maybe she just doesn't like ***? Maybe she is busy with personal problems? Ask her. Talk to her. And if you can't live with the explanation she gives you and can't love her without doing sports in bed, then leave and look for a woman that fits your "needs".

You have no right to "demand" ***.

Oh gawd, this post is even worse than the first one

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[ComplexCity]

Why don't you just show it to us?

Because I don't feel like it, plus it's already been said. What's the point? All you do is wait for your saviors to come. You're incapable of debating anyway

 

[DominiqueX]

Then tell me, what is the reward for "being a good boy." What would the man have to do for you to have *** with them?

The "reward" that you get for being a kind person is making friends who appreciate your actions and sometimes even a partner that falls in love with you, based on your personality. But don't use being kind as a "tool" to achieve the results that you expect. If you act kind, then fuqing do it because you want to treat other people good, without expecting something in return. If you need a reason to be a good person, you simply are not a good person.

No, *** is not a "reward" or some type of trophy that you get for pampering your ego-inflated ass.

Then why do you defend OP's post where he is just whining about how evil the woman is that she doesn't sleep with him as a result of his actions? OP specifically accociated his "doing everything for her" with *** being a reward for that.

*** is supposed to be issued during marriage [...]

Who says so? You? *** is a part of life, not only a part of marriage. Maybe I just misunderstood that statement, correct me please if you didn't mean it this way.

[...] so that both parties can feel happy and realize that they are still in love with each other. *** might not be everything to you, but unfulfilled *** during marriage can cause giant frustration in the relationship and thus ends up being divorced or separated because the other party didn't treat them like they were being loved.

@the bold parts:
Do you think *** is the only noteworthy way to express love? If so, then I'm sorry. Love means much more than having ***. Taking care of the partner in sickness and health, laughing together and supporting each other in troublesome times, smaller things in daily life like just spending time with each other, talking with each other or small kisses and hugs.. there are uncountable ways to express love other than having ***.

I'm well aware of the fact that a bad ***-life can cause a partnership to break apart. That's why both sides need to have an open conversation with each other. A partner in love is also your best friend, you should be able to speak about everything with each other. If you can't, then there is definitely something wrong in this relationship.

If you get so much frustrated for not getting enough ***, then that is YOUR problem. You can't expect the partner to give you everything you want. That's not how life and love work.

Of course women being women will never understand the desires that a man wants, so I don't see how women can get off with this idea that men should "find women that want to have a lot of ***" as if the only thing we think about is ***.

Oh, so now women are the evil demons? As I said, life is not about getting everything you want. Neither is love. In a partnership, both sides need to make compromises. If both parties can't figure out a middle course that satisfies both, then the relationship is not right and supposed to fail. Easy as that. Move on until you find the right person.

And well, some people here act as if *** was the only thing they thought about. *** isn't equally important to everyone, some people even think it's not important at all. If your partner does not fit your needs, you either make compromises or leave, since the relationship probably won't work out.

You don't want to have *** all the time? Cool, good for you, but don't sit here and act like married couples can only have *** when the "woman feels like it". That is obviously not an equal relationship.

You want to have *** all the time? Cool, good for you, but don't sit here and act like couples must have *** when the "man feels like it". That is obviously not an equal relationship either.

If a woman or a man does not want to have ***, then so be it. What do you think how it should be? Should the woman/man say "okay, I really don't want to have ***, but my partner wants to, so I have to spread my legs"? That's pretty much rape. Neither is it a healthy, nor an equal relationship. You can't "demand" *** whenever you want. At least not in a regular partnership. There are brothels for that reason.

What's their reason for not wanting to have ***? Too tired? Too busy? Don't feel like having *** because of his hygiene? Did he piss you off? Are you cheating and don't care for him anymore.? This is supposed to be an equal adventure. If you are not willing to give my man what he wants when he went heel for toe for your ass then why are you even married? You obviously are not fit to be married if you are insisting on being that selfish.

What the fuq. Your view on what a marriage should be is worrisome. The bold reasons are legit ones, don't know where your problems are. The underlined one is obviously a reason for both sides to end the relationship, since faithfulness is one of the key factors of a partnership. The man is obviously not fit to be married either if he is insisting on having *** whenever he wants.

 

[ComplexCity]

Must....spread......neg...... rep

 

[Awkward Linguist]

If a girl did that to me she'd be out of my house within 5 secs.​

 

[JStar King]

The "reward" that you get for being a kind person is making friends who appreciate your actions and sometimes even a partner that falls in love with you, based on your personality. But don't use being kind as a "tool" to achieve the results that you expect. If you act kind, then fuqing do it because you want to treat other people good, without expecting something in return. If you need a reason to be a good person, you simply are not a good person.


Then why do you defend OP's post where he is just whining about how evil the woman is that she doesn't sleep with him as a result of his actions? OP specifically accociated his "doing everything for her" with *** being a reward for that.


Who says so? You? *** is a part of life, not only a part of marriage. Maybe I just misunderstood that statement, correct me please if you didn't mean it this way.


@the bold parts:
Do you think *** is the only noteworthy way to express love? If so, then I'm sorry. Love means much more than having ***. Taking care of the partner in sickness and health, laughing together and supporting each other in troublesome times, smaller things in daily life like just spending time with each other, talking with each other or small kisses and hugs.. there are uncountable ways to express love other than having ***.

I'm well aware of the fact that a bad ***-life can cause a partnership to break apart. That's why both sides need to have an open conversation with each other. A partner in love is also your best friend, you should be able to speak about everything with each other. If you can't, then there is definitely something wrong in this relationship.

If you get so much frustrated for not getting enough ***, then that is YOUR problem. You can't expect the partner to give you everything you want. That's not how life and love work.


Oh, so now women are the evil demons? As I said, life is not about getting everything you want. Neither is love. In a partnership, both sides need to make compromises. If both parties can't figure out a middle course that satisfies both, then the relationship is not right and supposed to fail. Easy as that. Move on until you find the right person.

And well, some people here act as if *** was the only thing they thought about. *** isn't equally important to everyone, some people even think it's not important at all. If your partner does not fit your needs, you either make compromises or leave, since the relationship probably won't work out.


You want to have *** all the time? Cool, good for you, but don't sit here and act like couples must have *** when the "man feels like it". That is obviously not an equal relationship either.

If a woman or a man does not want to have ***, then so be it. What do you think how it should be? Should the woman/man say "okay, I really don't want to have ***, but my partner wants to, so I have to spread my legs"? That's pretty much rape. Neither is it a healthy, nor an equal relationship. You can't "demand" *** whenever you want. At least not in a regular partnership. There are brothels for that reason.


What the fuq. Your view on what a marriage should be is worrisome. The bold reasons are legit ones, don't know where your problems are. The underlined one is obviously a reason for both sides to end the relationship, since faithfulness is one of the key factors of a partnership. The man is obviously not fit to be married either if he is insisting on having *** whenever he wants.

Feminist at best! Good luck in your future relationship.

 

[Jazzy Stardust]

well something clearly is wrong and the person is not doing everything right in that scenario. i mean if your wife isnt putting out theres a huge problem and the sign couldnt be more obvious

withholding *** in general is petty egotistical love fued bullshit for a male or female imo. unless the interest genuinely isnt there

 

[Dannie]

Yeah I pretty much just skimmed through this, but from what I can tell, you're going with this idea that women are sweet little victims, and if they don't want to have *** then they don't have to, without focusing on the fact that most relationships where women don't show the same affection that the man is showing ends badly.

You're also most likely pro-woman and disagree with anything that has to do with going against a womans wishes. Typical feminist.

The "reward" that you get for being a kind person is making friends who appreciate your actions and sometimes even a partner that falls in love with you, based on your personality.

That's some cringe level horse-shit right there.

You realize this is about having a better *** life right? Not your disney level kindness tomfoolery.

I'm already being a kind person by showing my partner that I care about her, so I'm sure that kindness is not the issue here.

If you act kind, then fuqing do it because you want to treat other people good, without expecting something in return.

I'm sure I'm already doing that. Did I not buy you that nice diamond ring on your finger?
Why is it that when I ask for something, it needs to be validated but when you ask for something it is an automatic "yes".

You're using my kindness as a tool because you know I will give you what you ask for.

It seems that I am not receiving that same thing. Obviously women don't crave *** on the same level as men, so why is it so hard for women to understand this?

Then why do you defend OP's post

It was humor more or less, and I'm not arguing with the OP. I'm arguing with you.

Who says so? You? *** is a part of life, not only a part of marriage. Maybe I just misunderstood that statement, correct me please if you didn't mean it this way.

It's still related to marriage which was my original point. You can't use "*** is a part of life" as an excuse to not use it in marriage.

If you are not showing your partner a good *** life then obviously there is something wrong there.

@the bold parts:
Do you think *** is the only noteworthy way to express love? If so, then I'm sorry. Love means much more than having ***. Taking care of the partner in sickness and health, laughing together and supporting each other in troublesome times, smaller things in daily life like just spending time with each other, talking with each other or small kisses and hugs.. there are uncountable ways to express love other than having ***.

Again, with this cringe level horse-shit.

You should know by now that *** is not the only way to express love, but that is not what we are discussing. We are discussing why she won't have *** with her partner.

If you get so much frustrated for not getting enough ***, then that is YOUR problem. You can't expect the partner to give you everything you want. That's not how life and love work.

If I'm not getting enough *** from my OWN partner then yeah, that surely is A problem. It's not necessarily my problem. I'm not asking to have *** everyday but when I ask for it and don't receive it after months on end then clearly that's a problem.

Oh, so now women are the evil demons?

LMAO, and when did I ever imply such a thing?

For someone who keeps claiming "humanity is a waste of life and would be better off without them" I don't necessarily think you should be getting aroused from something like that, sweetheart.

As I said, life is not about getting everything you want. Neither is love. In a partnership, both sides need to make compromises. If both parties can't figure out a middle course that satisfies both, then the relationship is not right and supposed to fail. Easy as that. Move on until you find the right person.

BLAH BLAH BLAH I heard this all before.

And well, some people here act as if *** was the only thing they thought about.

You're welcome to show me a post.

You want to have *** all the time?

Stopped you right there since you obviously haven't been paying attention to anything this whole time. I'm not claiming that men want to have *** all the time.

If a woman or a man does not want to have ***, then so be it.

LMAO, and 8 times out of 10 it's the women who feels that way.

What do you think how it should be? Should the woman/man say "okay, I really don't want to have ***, but my partner wants to, so I have to spread my legs"? That's pretty much rape.

Remind me never to take you seriously again.

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Neither is it a healthy, nor an equal relationship. You can't "demand" *** whenever you want. At least not in a regular partnership. There are brothels for that reason.


What the fuq. Your view on what a marriage should be is worrisome. The bold reasons are legit ones, don't know where your problems are. The underlined one is obviously a reason for both sides to end the relationship, since faithfulness is one of the key factors of a partnership. The man is obviously not fit to be married either if he is insisting on having *** whenever he wants.

There can't possibly be any other reasons for why you won't have *** with your partner other than the ones I mentioned.

 

[DominiqueX]

Your reply is just stupid as fuq Dannie. Good luck with finding a partner that stays with you more than a few years.

 

[Venomous Cobra]

If a woman or a man does not want to have ***, then so be it. What do you think how it should be? Should the woman/man say "okay, I really don't want to have ***, but my partner wants to, so I have to spread my legs"? That's pretty much rape.

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[Dannie]

Your reply is just stupid as fuq Dannie. Good luck with finding a partner that stays with you more than a few years.

So is you always dickriding Riker's posts.

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Your original posts were fckign retarded so it's no surprise that you can't come up with better material than this.

 

[Dannie]

If you have to throw out the "rape" card that easily then you are clearly a feminist, lmao.

 

[The Work]

Yeah she can hold out on you, but she will let you smash when she wants to.

Simple as that.

If she not trying to smash move on and don't try to force her.

 

[Awkward Linguist]

The "reward" that you get for being a kind person is making friends who appreciate your actions and sometimes even a partner that falls in love with you, based on your personality. But don't use being kind as a "tool" to achieve the results that you expect. If you act kind, then fuqing do it because you want to treat other people good, without expecting something in return. If you need a reason to be a good person, you simply are not a good person.


Then why do you defend OP's post where he is just whining about how evil the woman is that she doesn't sleep with him as a result of his actions? OP specifically accociated his "doing everything for her" with *** being a reward for that.


Who says so? You? *** is a part of life, not only a part of marriage. Maybe I just misunderstood that statement, correct me please if you didn't mean it this way.


@the bold parts:
Do you think *** is the only noteworthy way to express love? If so, then I'm sorry. Love means much more than having ***. Taking care of the partner in sickness and health, laughing together and supporting each other in troublesome times, smaller things in daily life like just spending time with each other, talking with each other or small kisses and hugs.. there are uncountable ways to express love other than having ***.

I'm well aware of the fact that a bad ***-life can cause a partnership to break apart. That's why both sides need to have an open conversation with each other. A partner in love is also your best friend, you should be able to speak about everything with each other. If you can't, then there is definitely something wrong in this relationship.

If you get so much frustrated for not getting enough ***, then that is YOUR problem. You can't expect the partner to give you everything you want. That's not how life and love work.


Oh, so now women are the evil demons? As I said, life is not about getting everything you want. Neither is love. In a partnership, both sides need to make compromises. If both parties can't figure out a middle course that satisfies both, then the relationship is not right and supposed to fail. Easy as that. Move on until you find the right person.

And well, some people here act as if *** was the only thing they thought about. *** isn't equally important to everyone, some people even think it's not important at all. If your partner does not fit your needs, you either make compromises or leave, since the relationship probably won't work out.


You want to have *** all the time? Cool, good for you, but don't sit here and act like couples must have *** when the "man feels like it". That is obviously not an equal relationship either.

If a woman or a man does not want to have ***, then so be it. What do you think how it should be? Should the woman/man say "okay, I really don't want to have ***, but my partner wants to, so I have to spread my legs"? That's pretty much rape. Neither is it a healthy, nor an equal relationship. You can't "demand" *** whenever you want. At least not in a regular partnership. There are brothels for that reason.


What the fuq. Your view on what a marriage should be is worrisome. The bold reasons are legit ones, don't know where your problems are. The underlined one is obviously a reason for both sides to end the relationship, since faithfulness is one of the key factors of a partnership. The man is obviously not fit to be married either if he is insisting on having *** whenever he wants.

You have just mind-f*cked me with that post without my consent - does that count as rape?​

 

[ComplexCity]

I feel a block coming :lol

 

[Natsu Shazneel]

That rape comment was hilarious. Lmfao!!! Hahaha

 

[ComplexCity]

That rape comment was hilarious. Lmfao!!! Hahaha

That's headline for a feminist argument. What did you expect? :lol

 

[Natsu Shazneel]

That's headline for a feminist argument. What did you expect? :lol

Expected something intelligent besides this.

 

[Ansatsuken]

Brace yourself, Winter is coming.

 

[Natsu Shazneel]

Brace yourself, Winter is coming.

Next time your gf says no its rape ok?