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This is not about heroism. It's about having the possibility to protect everyone and not doing it due to a caprice.
You spouted a very well sounding nonsense that can be summarized in one single word: cowardice. What a shame...
It's again a societal concept. If I ask you to define cowardice without language or your cultural perceptions you won’t be able to. So, tell me; where do your own opinions lie in this? No where.

I did say I will gladly protect my family. Anyone beyond them would never concern me. Also, it's very easy to sing accolades of self-proclaimed heroism and it's very different to actually choose death when faced with it. One is a fictaional mental schema and the other is very much based on your own primal instincts. Let's not go that far.
 

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It's again a societal concept. If I ask you to define cowardice without language or your cultural perceptions you won’t be able to. So, tell me; where do your own opinions lie in this? No where.

I did say I will gladly protect my family. Anyone beyond them would never concern me. Also, it's very easy to sing accolades of self-proclaimed heroism and it's very different to actually choose death when faced with it. One is a fictaional mental schema and the other is very much based on your own primal instincts. Let's not go that far.
Societal concept? So more or less are you saying the whole morality for you is just a mere societal concept, or just this opposition heroism/cowardice?
Anyway you cannot come here laughing at "societal concepts" and then speaking about how much you love and care about your family, that is the very beginning and the root of every society. To me, it seems a contradiction.
Anyway, you've yet to explain me why if a concept is shared by the most of the people, then it's wrong.

Also, if you don't give shit to heroism and those things, would you maybe like to explain me what would you do if someone out of your family gives his life in order to save yours?
 

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Societal concept? So more or less are you saying the whole morality for you is just a mere societal concept, or just this opposition heroism/cowardice?
Anyway you cannot come here laughing at "societal concepts" and then speaking about how much you love and care about your family, that is the very beginning and the root of every society. To me, it seems a contradiction.
Anyway, you've yet to explain me why if a concept is shared by the most of the people, then it's wrong.

Also, if you don't give shit to heroism and those things, would you maybe like to explain me what would you do if someone out of your family gives his life in order to save yours?

Morality IS a social construct. Unless you are foolish enough to believe otherwise; because if that was not the case, you wouldn't have "diachronic progression of morals" in any culture. They are concepts that are always subject to “change.” So, what are you talking about with this "mere morality?"

This has nothing to do with heroism, but blood relationships that exist at biological level. For instance, animals are biologically programmed to protect their brood and others create groups to ensure their own survival. I, similarly, have formed such a bond that has definite roots in biological notions of survival.

Is it over-written with social schema? Absolutely. But it has biology at its root as well. Killing yourself for the mass public you have no feasible way of knowing is stupidity, and I laugh at this concept. It has been so ingrained in the public’s mind through Jingoism and other societal mores that it engenders nothing but mass-public adoration without any logical reasoning at its core; it petty indoctrination, nothing more.
 
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Morality IS a social construct. Unless you are foolish enough to believe otherwise; because if that was not the case, you wouldn't have "diachronic progression of morals" in any culture. They are concepts that are always subject to “change.” So, what are you talking about with this "mere morality?"
It was just to see if I had to do with a Nihilist

This has nothing to do with heroism, but blood relationships that exists at biological level. For instance, animals are biologically programmed to protect their brood and other creates groups to ensure their own survival. I, similarly, have formed such a bond that has definite roots in biological notions of survival.
The same identical thing can work for relation between humans who don't share the same blood. Not even a family has always shared the same blood, since in our culture you cannot have a relationship with a relative (despite the word game). So, if it's possible to love someone who doesn't share your same blood, where is your point?
Also, the kind of survival you're talking about in our society is long gone, you don't need a group of people around you for a defence against predators or other groups of people anymore. This love you claim to feel for your family is not that different than the love one can feel for his society at this point, since they're both based on a residual instinct towards the primordial patriarchal family.

Is it over-written with social schema? Absolutely. But it has biology at its root as well. Killing yourself for the mass public you are no feasible way of knowing is stupidity and I laugh at this concept. It has been so ingrained in the public’s mind through Jingoism and other societal mores that it engenders nothing but mass-public adoration without any logical reasoning at its core; it petty indoctrination, nothing more.
Bro, you can laugh at whatever you want, but it doesn't change the fact that even you can't forbear from proving sort of respect when someone does the same. It's certain because everyone works this way. Yes, one can say the opposite and say he doesn't give anything about it, but his feelings tell another thing.
The part about indoctrination is true when the concept of heroism is exploited and leads to people who die for things that are not worth dying for, I mean those who blow themselves away in the name of religion, democracy, freedom of morals or whatever else comes to your mind. Yeah, the word "heroism" is so manipulated that thesedays it makes even laugh.
But is this enough to say the whole altruism and spirit of sacrifice are a spawned bullshit? Not at all. If there weren't people ready for sacrificing themselves we wouldn't be where we are now. That is undeniable.

Anyway, I asked you two questions in my previous reply, but you didn't answer yet.
 
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It was just to see if I had to do with a Nihilist

The same identical thing can work for relation between humans who don't share the same blood. Not even a family has always shared the same blood, since in our culture you cannot have a relationship with a relative (despite the word game). So, if it's possible to love someone who doesn't share your same blood, where is your point?
Also, the kind of survival you're talking about in our society is long gone, you don't need a group of people around you for a defence against predators or other groups of people anymore. This love you claim to feel for your family is not that different than the love one can feel for his society at this point, since they're both based on a residual instinct towards the primordial patriarchal family.

Bro, you can laugh at whatever you want, but it doesn't change the fact that even you can't forbear from proving sort of respect when someone does the same. It's certain because everyone works this way. Yes, one can say the opposite and say he doesn't give anything about it, but his feelings tell another thing.
The part about indoctrination is true when the concept of heroism is exploited and leads to people who die for things that are not worth dying for, I mean those who blow themselves away in the name of religion, democracy, freedom of morals or whatever else comes to your mind. Yeah, the word "heroism" is so manipulated that thesedays it makes even laugh.
But is this enough to say the whole altruism and spirit of sacrifice are a spawned bullshit? Not at all. If there weren't people ready for sacrificing themselves we wouldn't be where we are now. That is undeniable.

Anyway, I asked you two questions in my previous reply, but you didn't answer yet.
I absolutely believe in nihilism; a philosophy that presents the actual nature of life.

Which is not an objective truth. You believe in such relations; I do not. Which is why your entire argument loses steam there as it is a subjective perception. What makes something a possibility does make it an absolute Truth, not does it give it an absolute Truth value. Are those relationships possible? Absolutely. Do they work on grounds of universality? Absolutely not. How many such relations can you juggle? 4 or 5 at max who would seem worthy to you to sacrifice your life or do you feel like a dare-devil all the time with your life just sitting at the palm of your hand, ready to be spent for every passerby? If this is your thinking, this gushing adoration for people you will never know, then I would question your sense of Self as you don’t seem like a person who values your own life at all.

Also, how is that (your life for a handful of people) analogous with the entire world’s population? The sample size alone to justify this notion is pint-sized; worthless to form any kind of objective hypotheses.

Respect is a personal idea. What is respectful to one man, isn’t to the next. Consider sexual relations. A lot of women consider certain sexual acts disrespectful, others do not. Should those that fund those disrespectful be forcefully converted? Sexual ties are just another mode of human relations. You create a bigger nexus and the dynamics remains the same. In a society of thieves, thievery is respectful. In African communities in the olden times, cannibalism was common; especially when the captives in small scales wars were devoured. It was not a disrespectful act.

Your question? Wants to give her life or has given it? I already accepted the fact that I will gladly give my life for my family and they feel the same way. I would be devastated though. However, if they haven’t done it yet, then I would stop them.
 

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I absolutely believe in nihilism; a philosophy that presents the actual nature of life.
Very well, now let me show where your argumentations fail:

1)the most obvious: you just stated to absolutely believe in Nihilism, and early stated that you care about your family, and that you love only goes to your family. Now, Nihilism is in substance a complete refute of every value and morality: it's to think that there's nothing worth fighting for. Does Nihilism "spare" love towards one's family or society? Not at all. So you can't be Nihilist while loving your family, 'cause it would be a contradiction in a last stance. Unless you changed your mind between your two last comments.

2)Nihilism, as already said, lifts you up from caring about morality and things of this genre. So what's left to care about? Just primary needs like sleeping, eating, drinking, having *** etc. So then, why is it necessary to show that you don't think that there's any value, if this action itself doesn't have value? One that really could only care about his body needs wouldn't waste his time explaining to the other people that there's nothing worth something, because it wouldn't be worth it. Even to invent a new word for describing himself would be a waste of time a this point.
So why does a Nihilist do such a thing? Because of pride. He strives to demolishes others' argumentations because he feels a winner when he does. The same pride that affects who struggles for achieving a "noble death", in glory and heroism.

3) Nihilism doesn't explain nature of life at all. Only men can claim to be Nihilists, and no man could really be a Nihilist at all. That's why Nihilism is like an impregnable fortress from which you cannot escape. You can call yourself "Nihilist" and speak like a Nihilist in a philosophical debate, but in every day's life you can't be like that. When you're bored standing in your car waiting for the traffic to unblock, do you think that it's a pain in the ass or you're calm as usual because your destination isn't worth anything and fun and boredom don't matter?

Which is not an objective truth. You believe in such relations; I do not. Which is why your entire argument loses steam there as it is a subjective perception. What makes something a possibility does make it an absolute Truth, not does it give it an absolute Truth value. Are those relationships possible? Absolutely. Do they work on grounds of universality? Absolutely not. How many such relations can you juggle? 4 or 5 at max who would seem worthy to you to sacrifice your life or do you feel like a dare-devil all the time with your life just sitting at the palm of your hand, ready to be spent for every passerby? If this is your thinking, this gushing adoration for people you will never know, then I would question your sense of Self as you don’t seem like a person who values your own life at all.
You're exactly pointing what I meant when talking about pride, above.
I care about my life as everybody (non suicidal nor depressed) else. But if I love and care for a person, I probably know that person enough to find in her some characteristics that allows me to consider him/her a person who's worth dying for.
The fact is that everybody in this planet is loved or has been loved by someone else, who found those characteristics in him/her that allows that person to the "worth dying for club". So it really doesn't matter if the one who finds those characteristics is me or someone else: everybody is worth dying for, and if the number of people who I can save with my life is higher, then it's a better motivation I'm doing just fine.

Also, how is that (your life for a handful of people) analogous with the entire world’s population? The sample size alone to justify this notion is pint-sized; worthless to form any kind of objective hypotheses.
Truthfully, my reasons were more logical than hypothetical. Even mathematical I'd say. Simply what's my life compared to billions of others? Would you prefer a dollar or billions of dollars? Even if you should discard your favorite banknote in order to gain billions of equals, I don't think you would last much time thinking about what to do.

Respect is a personal idea. What is respectful to one man, isn’t to the next. Consider sexual relations. A lot of women consider certain sexual acts disrespectful, others do not. Should those that fund those disrespectful be forcefully converted? Sexual ties are just another mode of human relations. You create a bigger nexus and the dynamics remains the same. In a society of thieves, thievery is respectful. In African communities in the olden times, cannibalism was common; especially when the captives in small scales wars were devoured. It was not a disrespectful act.
But you aren't allowed to respect someone while claiming to be a Nihilist.
Also, you always point that things like heroism and respect are just society-made. But you eventually opposed an idea of you living alone on the planet with your family rather than dying in order to save others.
Well, this idea of "us alone in the World" is not outside the schemes of some societies. Rather, it sounds like a very Romantic concept.
So the points you're talking about aren't impregnable by "society vision" and aren't impregnable from "chronic changing of society ideologies" either

Your question? Wants to give her life or has given it? I already accepted the fact that I will gladly give my life for my family and they feel the same way. I would be devastated though. However, if they haven’t done it yet, then I would stop them.
I said that the person isn't a member of your family. That person just gave his/her life in order to save yours right before your eyes.
I just would like to know what your reaction would be. Or rather, what you think it would be.
 

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Very well, now let me show where your argumentations fail:

1)the most obvious: you just stated to absolutely believe in Nihilism, and early stated that you care about your family, and that you love only goes to your family. Now, Nihilism is in substance a complete refute of every value and morality: it's to think that there's nothing worth fighting for. Does Nihilism "spare" love towards one's family or society? Not at all. So you can't be Nihilist while loving your family, 'cause it would be a contradiction in a last stance. Unless you changed your mind between your two last comments.

2)Nihilism, as already said, lifts you up from caring about morality and things of this genre. So what's left to care about? Just primary needs like sleeping, eating, drinking, having *** etc. So then, why is it necessary to show that you don't think that there's any value, if this action itself doesn't have value? One that really could only care about his body needs wouldn't waste his time explaining to the other people that there's nothing worth something, because it wouldn't be worth it. Even to invent a new word for describing himself would be a waste of time a this point.
So why does a Nihilist do such a thing? Because of pride. He strives to demolishes others' argumentations because he feels a winner when he does. The same pride that affects who struggles for achieving a "noble death", in glory and heroism.

3) Nihilism doesn't explain nature of life at all. Only men can claim to be Nihilists, and no man could really be a Nihilist at all. That's why Nihilism is like an impregnable fortress from which you cannot escape. You can call yourself "Nihilist" and speak like a Nihilist in a philosophical debate, but in every day's life you can't be like that. When you're bored standing in your car waiting for the traffic to unblock, do you think that it's a pain in the ass or you're calm as usual because your destination isn't worth anything and fun and boredom don't matter?

You're exactly pointing what I meant when talking about pride, above.
I care about my life as everybody (non suicidal nor depressed) else. But if I love and care for a person, I probably know that person enough to find in her some characteristics that allows me to consider him/her a person who's worth dying for.
The fact is that everybody in this planet is loved or has been loved by someone else, who found those characteristics in him/her that allows that person to the "worth dying for club". So it really doesn't matter if the one who finds those characteristics is me or someone else: everybody is worth dying for, and if the number of people who I can save with my life is higher, then it's a better motivation I'm doing just fine.

Truthfully, my reasons were more logical than hypothetical. Even mathematical I'd say. Simply what's my life compared to billions of others? Would you prefer a dollar or billions of dollars? Even if you should discard your favorite banknote in order to gain billions of equals, I don't think you would last much time thinking about what to do.

But you aren't allowed to respect someone while claiming to be a Nihilist.
Also, you always point that things like heroism and respect are just society-made. But you eventually opposed an idea of you living alone on the planet with your family rather than dying in order to save others.
Well, this idea of "us alone in the World" is not outside the schemes of some societies. Rather, it sounds like a very Romantic concept.
So the points you're talking about aren't impregnable by "society vision" and aren't impregnable from "chronic changing of society ideologies" either

I said that the person isn't a member of your family. That person just gave his/her life in order to save yours right before your eyes.
I just would like to know what your reaction would be. Or rather, what you think it would be.
Where did I claim that I practice it down to the last T? I never claimed it. I absolutely believe in Zen Buddhism as well. I don’t necessarily practice it. This also goes to my personal life domain, so it would be better if you kept it impersonal. But nihilism? It does make a lot of sense, hence the reason I absolutely believe in its precepts. Do those beliefs dictate my life? No. Sorry, I tend to operate differently than most.

Love isn’t a part of morality. Why are you putting that in the basket of morals? Morality also isn’t a genre. It’s simply a “mode of conduct” that is social and cultural based for the supposed betterment of the majority.

I am sorry, but human life really is … completely pointless. What will you and I exactly accomplish? Nothing in the long run. How are jobs and careers and social relations in anyway some sort of gauges that determine our worth in this universe? They really do not as even locally (earth) a single human life has a worthless orbit. Our lives are pitifully short. If you take our prime out, then they are shorter still.

We do not have any effect on the grand scheme of things. We are a part of repetitive biological cycle. Our perceptions and worlds are tiny. We cannot get out of these barriers biologically alone, let alone on any other grounds. Which is why human exceptionalism exists. Why do you think when people are about to die they look back? You should read on the accounts of nurses who take care of old people on their death beds. It will tell you a lot on life in general and its complete pointlessness.

We simply create an “illusion” of meaning through social relations; human exceptionalism is one such laughable illusion. Heroism would be another one; people believing that dying a heroic death matters. Really, it doesn’t. And anyone who claims otherwise is called a party-pooping pessimist. I am not a pessimist by nature; I am a realist. And placing any sort of faith in this logic is laughable. Human life, like biological life is a part of a repetitive cycle.

For instance, what do you think of, let’s say, a Hen? It hatches out of an egg. It grows up, reaches its youth and then lays eggs. Afterwards, it grows old and dies. Tell me something, how are human beings any different? The basic process remains the same; it’s cyclic in nature. And it’s in our “biological nature” to have ***. Why? Because the cells need to survive in the future offspring. Our genetic code is, probably, the only thing that even matters in our lives. And that, ironically, is a far cry from the social tales we fill our heads with.

Do you really want to talk stats? How, for instance, is the life of billions of intellectually inept people better than a single man with superior intelligence? By the way, only less than 2 percent of the world’s population has a decent IQ; 130 and above. The rest are worthless cow-fodder.

So, your stats take a slip there as the sole reason we even value ourselves is because of intelligence. So, why should I sacrifice myself for people with average or less intelligence? Logic tells me it’s wrong to do so. It would be biologically wrong as well, as these people will only procreate and produce more inept offspring in regards to the genepool. Hence, logically and rationally, only the ones with intellectual worth should be saved in such a scenario.

I don’t know any such person. Therefore, it’s fiction at this point. Anyhow, this has gone off long enough. This is my last reply on the subject as I have work to do and the replies are taking a lot of time for my liking.

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Where did I claim that I practice it down to the last T? I never claimed it. I absolutely believe in Zen Buddhism as well. I don’t necessarily practice it. This also goes to my personal life domain, so it would be better if you kept it impersonal. But nihilism? It does make a lot of sense, hence the reason I absolutely believe in its precepts. Do those beliefs dictate my life? No. Sorry, I tend to operate differently than most.
So it's possible to absolutely believe in Nihilism without going "too Nihilist". It would be like to say that one is Christian without believing in God. It'snot about dictating the life, but if you use an ideology as a shelter you're expected to have a consequent behavior.
Sorry, but if you really cared about keeping things impersonal you shouldn't have commented on this thread, since it's one of the most personal questions that have been asked in Narutobase.

Love isn’t a part of morality. Why are you putting that in the basket of morals? Morality also isn’t a genre. It’s simply a “mode of conduct” that is social and cultural based for the supposed betterment of the majority.
I'm losing this passage. Where did I claim the opposite? It would make more sense to build morality upon love than the opposite. Really I didn't understand what you're reproving here.

I am sorry, but human life really is … completely pointless. What will you and I exactly accomplish? Nothing in the long run. How are jobs and careers and social relations in anyway some sort of gauges that determine our worth in this universe? They really do not as even locally (earth) a single human life has a worthless orbit. Our lives are pitifully short. If you take our prime out, then they are shorter still.
Human life is pointless. Is this a fact or an opinion? No, don't answer me, I know what's the answer: It's an opinion. It's the easiest opinion, since if you deny all values of human life, nobody can accuse you about anything, since you don't have to face any justification about this.
What if instead I say you that this life is a test meant to decide your destiny after death? Or that life can even lack a meaning, but we don't lack it, so our persons' meaning gives life a meaning?
Those are other hypotheses, that can't be "proven", of course, but not even your one can, in a last stance.


We do not have any effect on the grand scheme of things. We are a part of repetitive biological cycle. Our perceptions and worlds are tiny. We cannot get out of these barriers biologically alone, let alone on any other grounds. Which is why human exceptionalism exists. Why do you think when people are about to die they look back? You should read on the accounts of nurses who take care of old people on their death beds. It will tell you a lot on life in general and its complete pointlessness.
Thanks for the advice, but I have even better: I saw my grandfather just about dying. I've seen what kind of sorrow and pain an old, sick and moribund man can prove, but in the middle of all the feelings I can have felt during that time, the one that life is just pointless never appeared to me. I believe it's a subjective thing.

We simply create an “illusion” of meaning through social relations; human exceptionalism is one such laughable illusion. Heroism would be another one; people believing that dying a heroic death matters. Really, it doesn’t. And anyone who claims otherwise is called a party-pooping pessimist. I am not a pessimist by nature; I am a realist. And placing any sort of faith in this logic is laughable. Human life, like biological life is a part of a repetitive cycle.
Ok I got the concept. But at this point the question flows out spontaneously: if our life is so pointless, why do you want to stick to it that much?
I mean, life is pointless, life and death have no value so who cares? What changes? Isn't it better to die right now, since I even know what kind of death it's gonna happen to me?
It's just fear of death, right? But even this is an instinctive concept empowered by our society. Back in the centuries, fear of death wasn't that scary as it is now in our society. Here is another point where your argumentations fail.

For instance, what do you think of, let’s say, a Hen? It hatches out of an egg. It grows up, reaches its youth and then lays eggs. Afterwards, it grows old and dies. Tell me something, how are human beings any different? The basic process remains the same; it’s cyclic in nature. And it’s in our “biological nature” to have ***. Why? Because the cells need to survive in the future offspring. Our genetic code is, probably, the only thing that even matters in our lives. And that, ironically, is a far cry from the social tales we fill our heads with.
A Hen is not an human and "reasons" in a completely different way. A Hen that lives in normal conditions is way happier than the average adult human being, because in its head there aren't the concept of "time flow" and "pain", Hens do serenely what they do from their first to their last day without thinking about death, for the simple reason the can't realize what death really is. Yes, they can see a carcass, but they haven't the concept of "death" in their head.

Do you really want to talk stats? How, for instance, is the life of billions of intellectually inept people better than a single man with superior intelligence? By the way, only less than 2 percent of the world’s population has a decent IQ; 130 and above. The rest are worthless cow-fodder.

So, your stats take a slip there as the sole reason we even value ourselves is because of intelligence. So, why should I sacrifice myself for people with average or less intelligence? Logic tells me it’s wrong to do so. It would be biologically wrong as well, as these people will only procreate and produce more inept offspring in regards to the genepool. Hence, logically and rationally, only the ones with intellectual worth should be saved in such a scenario.
Is this supposed to be a somewhat racist comment? lol anyway you don't seem to be very well versed about this field of study, so you'll let me give you a little lesson about intelligence. The one you call I.Q. is absolutely not a fair method for calculating the overall intelligence of each one of us. In fact, it only measures the logical.mathematical intelligence. Obviously you can understand yourself that there are millions of kinds of intelligence besides that. Strategic, affective, tactical intelligence are some, and I don't even know if there is a method for measuring them. Guess what it means? It means that the gap between one and another's intelligences isn't that deep as you want it to be. Proof is that there are people that in a certain environment are geniuses, and in another are complete losers. It works for everyone, truthfully. Not to mention that anyone consider himself to be more intelligent than others, so this is not the exact way to decide who deserve to be saved and who does not.

I don’t know any such person. Therefore, it’s fiction at this point. Anyhow, this has gone off long enough. This is my last reply on the subject as I have work to do and the replies are taking a lot of time for my liking.
Frankly, it has gone that long because you brought in always new argumentations and unhesitatingly abandoned them when I answered them properly. If you limited to answer the question I asked to you, thing that you still haven't done, you would have saved lot of times without writing much and going butthurt as you seem to be in this last paragraph.

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What the hell, I guess I joined a day late or something. Anyway, I like pretty much everyone who posted in this thread, and it's not every day that I see such consistently lengthy posts, and such detailed expressions of personal philosophies, and it doesn't sit alright with me that I didn't get to participate, so I come bearing:

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My take on this:

1. Scenario:
You don't know if your beloved person would be willing to give up his/her own life in order to save mankind and you can't ask the person (for example because of a coma). Would you sacrifice him/her and could you please explain why/why not?
I wouldn't sacrifice them even if they'd never wake up, unless I'd had a conversation with them about it prior.

I think that when I consider someone to be beloved to me, then I'm kind of promising myself that I won't put others above their intrinsic needs. But other people have different desires about what they'd want in this situation, so I'd try to heed those desires instead. For example, there are people who check off "Do Not Resuscitate" on medical/legal forms for the circumstance that they'd go into a coma. It's their life, and it's their right to decide what they'd want done with it in a given scenario. So if they'd told me "in this situation, sacrifice me," I'd do it. It's essentially their dying wish.

I feel like emotional bonds need to come with this kind of assurance. That you don't just betray someone when it suits your convenience. I'd try to uphold that belief to the highest degree, because it's the basis upon which I form any of my relationships. Even if the other person would never know my decision, I would still try to maintain my integrity on their behalf. Consistency isn't a must in everybody, nor do I think it needs to be, but it's important to me and the way I live my life.

EDIT: After reading through what I said in the rest of this, I'm realizing that none of my choices were really based on the idea of sacrifice. XD Here it's more about trust, honesty, and integrity.

2. Scenario:
You know that your beloved person would be willing to give up his/her own life in order to save mankind. Would you let it happen if you had the chance to stop it and could you please explain why/why not?
I'd let it happen, and ideally, I'd let it happen with no hesitation.

Like I said above, people should have the right to do with their lives what they think is best, so long as they're not hurting anybody while doing it (to a reasonable extent; things like emotional and physical abuse are wrong obviously). This is just another example of that. Besides, if I stopped them, that person would have to live with having that decision taken away from them. Never mind that they probably wouldn't be too happy with me for stopping them. This one isn't about sacrifices, this one's about people's agency.

3. Scenario:
It turns out that >you< carry the key to a vaccine within your body. Would you give up your own life to save what is left of mankind? And again, I would like to know the reasoning behind your choice too.
I'd do it. Probably no hesitation (I'd feel bad about the consequences of leaving people who care about me behind, and how that would affect them).

I've read books like The Road, I've played Telltale's The Walking Dead, I've played The Last of Us, and what frustrates me about all of them is this massive importance that people place on survival, at the expense of all else. Not only in the sense that the characters place such an importance on it (thankfully, The Road is more nuanced), but that the writers themselves think survival should matter so much. An unquestioned human imperative. Your dignity, your integrity, your sense of self - all gone for the sake of survival. I find it loathsome, it's not worth it. The importance placed on self-preservation eventually becomes self-defeating.

Specifically, why did Joel keep himself alive all those years? He'd fallen out with his brother, his daughter was dead, his thing with Tess wasn't really committed, and I don't know how long it lasted or when it started - so what was this man thinking while he was robbing and killing and assaulting? The quandary that Joel presents is understated, but it's there. And it's what resonated with me the most - there was nothing to live for, and when he found that thing, he latched onto it.

If we're honest with ourselves, we're only alive so long as we can do the things we want to do and feel like the person we want to be. Never mind the intrinsic "meaning" of human life, whether it exists or not, never mind whether or not "God" exists, never mind how we relate to the people around us or how we conceive of good or evil. Nobody's here to just "exist." We're here because we choose to be, because there are things that we want out of life. Maybe in this apocalyptic setting we can still get those things, and so we shirk the idea of sacrificing ourselves for others. The things I want from life don't really mesh well with a world that I sacrifice for my own gain, though, so I'd go through with self-sacrifice. Regardless of whether or not the world itself is worth saving.

It's not about heroism, or Jingoism, or morality or social responsibility, like Shelke and deadlift are arguing about up above. I agree that sacrificing yourself due to some perceived duty to a society you'll never know and that consists of people who mostly don't care about you, and a fair portion of whom would even try to hurt you - a massive portion of whom would condone killing you, depending on where you live - is short-sighted and fallacious.

I think a flaw in my logic is that if survival doesn't matter, why should anyone else's? But what I'm getting at is that the choice itself is what matters, and it's going to differ from person to person. You choose what you believe in, and in making that choice, you make what you believe in real. But I don't believe in survival for survival's sake, and that's what this choice seems like to me. So it's no contest, let them have the vaccine. If it ever comes down to this, where one person's death is required for the salvation of mankind, the world's not worth living in anyway.

TL;DR: I agree with Shelke:

I am sorry, but human life really is … completely pointless.
But with this premise, my conclusions for what should be done in these scenarios are almost entirely opposite. XD
 
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So, lately I was thinking about the wonderful game "The Last of Us" again. In case you didn't know, it's a story-driven game that pulls us into a post-apocalyptic scenario. As the player, we accompany the grown man and smuggler "Joel", as well as the young teenage-girl called "Ellie". To make a long story short, the world was destroyed by a global disease and there is no cure. Most of the people who were not infected yet, became bandits or live in small safety zones that are controlled by the military. Then it turns out that the young girl contains the key to a vaccine within her body.

I don't want to talk about the game here. Otherwise I would've posted a thread in the gaming-section. I would rather like to talk about the "message", the central point of the story of this game in general.
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Now imagine that you were in the post-apocalyptic situation that I described above. The world as you know it, is gone. Most of your family and friends died and are still dying because of this global disease. Then it turns out that the person that you love the most (could be one of your parents, your own child, your partner in love, your best friend etc.) contains the key to a vaccine in her/his body that could save mankind from extinction, but the person would have to die to give the last remaining scientists what they need.

1. Scenario:
You don't know if your beloved person would be willing to give up his/her own life in order to save mankind and you can't ask the person (for example because of a coma). Would you sacrifice him/her and could you please explain why/why not?

2. Scenario:
You know that your beloved person would be willing to give up his/her own life in order to save mankind. Would you let it happen if you had the chance to stop it and could you please explain why/why not?

3. Scenario:
It turns out that >you< carry the key to a vaccine within your body. Would you give up your own life to save what is left of mankind? And again, I would like to know the reasoning behind your choice too.
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Sorry mate, with all those bad choices I will surely make a bad decision. I will blew-up the heads of all the remaining survivors to kingdom come before I will sacrifice any of my kin.
 

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What the hell, I guess I joined a day late or something. Anyway, I like pretty much everyone who posted in this thread, and it's not every day that I see such consistently lengthy posts, and such detailed expressions of personal philosophies, and it doesn't sit alright with me that I didn't get to participate, so I come bearing:

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Yes I definitely loved to discuss in this thread. I don't always write such long replies, but when I do.... Replies are long, I guess.

My take on this:



I wouldn't sacrifice them even if they'd never wake up, unless I'd had a conversation with them about it prior.

I think that when I consider someone to be beloved to me, then I'm kind of promising myself that I won't put others above their intrinsic needs. But other people have different desires about what they'd want in this situation, so I'd try to heed those desires instead. For example, there are people who check off "Do Not Resuscitate" on medical/legal forms for the circumstance that they'd go into a coma. It's their life, and it's their right to decide what they'd want done with it in a given scenario. So if they'd told me "in this situation, sacrifice me," I'd do it. It's essentially their dying wish.

I feel like emotional bonds need to come with this kind of assurance. That you don't just betray someone when it suits your convenience. I'd try to uphold that belief to the highest degree, because it's the basis upon which I form any of my relationships. Even if the other person would never know my decision, I would still try to maintain my integrity on their behalf. Consistency isn't a must in everybody, nor do I think it needs to be, but it's important to me and the way I live my life.
I kinda understand your point, more than you may expect me to do if you have read my previous answers.
Anyway, let me ask you a question: if you decide to sacrifice the whole mankind in oreder to save just your beloved person, how do you think he/she would react? I don't think there's anyone who can bear such a weight. That person would very likely end up hating both you and itself for the massive catastrophe that has been caused because of him/her.
If you go reading about the survivors of ship, airplane or bus accidents, you will find how many of those "last survivor" committed suicide. It's like they couldn't accept to be alive while dozens of people in their own condition died.
We can just figure what such a feeling would become in a person who survived to the whole human race.

EDIT: After reading through what I said in the rest of this, I'm realizing that none of my choices were really based on the idea of sacrifice. XD Here it's more about trust, honesty, and integrity.



I'd let it happen, and ideally, I'd let it happen with no hesitation.

Like I said above, people should have the right to do with their lives what they think is best, so long as they're not hurting anybody while doing it (to a reasonable extent; things like emotional and physical abuse are wrong obviously). This is just another example of that. Besides, if I stopped them, that person would have to live with having that decision taken away from them. Never mind that they probably wouldn't be too happy with me for stopping them. This one isn't about sacrifices, this one's about people's agency.



I'd do it. Probably no hesitation (I'd feel bad about the consequences of leaving people who care about me behind, and how that would affect them).

I've read books like The Road, I've played Telltale's The Walking Dead, I've played The Last of Us, and what frustrates me about all of them is this massive importance that people place on survival, at the expense of all else. Not only in the sense that the characters place such an importance on it (thankfully, The Road is more nuanced), but that the writers themselves think survival should matter so much. An unquestioned human imperative. Your dignity, your integrity, your sense of self - all gone for the sake of survival. I find it loathsome, it's not worth it. The importance placed on self-preservation eventually becomes self-defeating.

Specifically, why did Joel keep himself alive all those years? He'd fallen out with his brother, his daughter was dead, his thing with Tess wasn't really committed, and I don't know how long it lasted or when it started - so what was this man thinking while he was robbing and killing and assaulting? The quandary that Joel presents is understated, but it's there. And it's what resonated with me the most - there was nothing to live for, and when he found that thing, he latched onto it.

If we're honest with ourselves, we're only alive so long as we can do the things we want to do and feel like the person we want to be. Never mind the intrinsic "meaning" of human life, whether it exists or not, never mind whether or not "God" exists, never mind how we relate to the people around us or how we conceive of good or evil. Nobody's here to just "exist." We're here because we choose to be, because there are things that we want out of life. Maybe in this apocalyptic setting we can still get those things, and so we shirk the idea of sacrificing ourselves for others. The things I want from life don't really mesh well with a world that I sacrifice for my own gain, though, so I'd go through with self-sacrifice. Regardless of whether or not the world itself is worth saving.

It's not about heroism, or Jingoism, or morality or social responsibility, like Shelke and deadlift are arguing about up above. I agree that sacrificing yourself due to some perceived duty to a society you'll never know and that consists of people who mostly don't care about you, and a fair portion of whom would even try to hurt you - a massive portion of whom would condone killing you, depending on where you live - is short-sighted and fallacious.

I think a flaw in my logic is that if survival doesn't matter, why should anyone else's? But what I'm getting at is that the choice itself is what matters, and it's going to differ from person to person. You choose what you believe in, and in making that choice, you make what you believe in real. But I don't believe in survival for survival's sake, and that's what this choice seems like to me. So it's no contest, let them have the vaccine. If it ever comes down to this, where one person's death is required for the salvation of mankind, the world's not worth living in anyway.
Oh sorry I didn't read all this paragraph xd
To answer your final stance, in such a scenario you would have not only to face the value of life, but the importance of the species to go on.
It's, sadly, one of those things where we're not allowed to have an opinion. If you die, it's bad for you and it's even a bigger pain for those who love you, but mankind is not threatened by your death. Thousands of people die everyday, it's the biological cycle of life. Exactly as thousands of people are born every day. Life continues and everyone lives his own life.
But the end of mankind it's completely another thing. It's the worst scenario ever, and we're supposed to do everything to let it be just a scenario.
One cannot live without people around us, and I'm not only talking about the fact he would starve very soon, but also that we're, by definition, social animals.
You're right, a world in which the whole mankind is threatened is not a world worth living. It's our job to prevent our world to become like that.

TL;DR: I agree with Shelke:



But with this premise, my conclusions for what should be done in these scenarios are almost entirely opposite. XD
But I've been better at making examples in our debate :elmo:
 

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Yes I definitely loved to discuss in this thread. I don't always write such long replies, but when I do.... Replies are long, I guess.
Wall-of-text-ers unite :dafq:

Anyway, let me ask you a question: if you decide to sacrifice the whole mankind in oreder to save just your beloved person, how do you think he/she would react? I don't think there's anyone who can bear such a weight. That person would very likely end up hating both you and itself for the massive catastrophe that has been caused because of him/her.
If you go reading about the survivors of ship, airplane or bus accidents, you will find how many of those "last survivor" committed suicide. It's like they couldn't accept to be alive while dozens of people in their own condition died.
We can just figure what such a feeling would become in a person who survived to the whole human race.
I'm assuming I don't need to respond to this based on the fact that you said this, but if I need to elaborate more, feel free to tell me:

Oh sorry I didn't read all this paragraph xd
As for the rest of what you said:

To answer your final stance, in such a scenario you would have not only to face the value of life, but the importance of the species to go on.
It's, sadly, one of those things where we're not allowed to have an opinion. If you die, it's bad for you and it's even a bigger pain for those who love you, but mankind is not threatened by your death. Thousands of people die everyday, it's the biological cycle of life. Exactly as thousands of people are born every day. Life continues and everyone lives his own life.
But the end of mankind it's completely another thing. It's the worst scenario ever, and we're supposed to do everything to let it be just a scenario.
One cannot live without people around us, and I'm not only talking about the fact he would starve very soon, but also that we're, by definition, social animals.
You're right, a world in which the whole mankind is threatened is not a world worth living. It's our job to prevent our world to become like that.
I'm not really going to respond directly to this, 'cause it doesn't really contradict the point I made. However, as far the continuation of mankind being something upon which we're not really allowed to have an opinion goes, I'd like to expand on what I said:

I don't think it should be taboo to question why we place such a high value on the continuation of life.

People do a lot of things based on this idea, that one's kin, one's country, one's culture should continue on. Some of those things lead to marginalization of other kin, countries, cultures. Some of those things lead to violent conflict. I'm not getting into specifics because I want to emphasize the idea - that people's unquestioned drive to survive and continue leads them to do things, even in, and especially in, the modern world that they might not be so quick to do if they didn't believe survival and propagation were the fundamental purposes of human life. In any case, I think people having an opinion on mankind's continuation is healthier than simply upholding the ideal of life steadfastly.

A secondary, and equally if not more controversial take I have on this, is that people generally have too kneejerk a reaction to the idea of suicide (which is a phenomenon that this topic does indirectly address; arguably the OP is asking us in what circumstances we would be willing to commit suicide or allow suicide).

I don't believe we can really understand or help people who have suicidal thoughts or who attempt to commit suicide unless we acknowledge that life isn't fundamentally required, nor is it necessary to uphold the continuation of life. People are fully capable of coming to the understanding that life is not intrinsically worth living, and acting upon that, for reasons other than the world being in an apocalyptic state. If we treat their feelings and decisions as alien, and not really belonging to the set of ideas that society upholds about life and death, then all we do is alienate those people more. In order to help people, you need to follow them into those dark places that they themselves visit.

Just like Naruto. XD
 

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I'm not really going to respond directly to this, 'cause it doesn't really contradict the point I made. However, as far the continuation of mankind being something upon which we're not really allowed to have an opinion goes, I'd like to expand on what I said:

I don't think it should be taboo to question why we place such a high value on the continuation of life.

People do a lot of things based on this idea, that one's kin, one's country, one's culture should continue on. Some of those things lead to marginalization of other kin, countries, cultures. Some of those things lead to violent conflict. I'm not getting into specifics because I want to emphasize the idea - that people's unquestioned drive to survive and continue leads them to do things, even in, and especially in, the modern world that they might not be so quick to do if they didn't believe survival and propagation were the fundamental purposes of human life. In any case, I think people having an opinion on mankind's continuation is healthier than simply upholding the ideal of life steadfastly.

Well, this is a different instinctive behaviour. I mean, it's very important for every human being to feel a part of a group. It's I believe, a "memory" of when the first men needed to stay united in order to protect themselves from predators and other groups of people. After, this group evolved and became a society, in which everyone had his own rights, his own properties, his own duties and so on.
It obviously was the prototype of our modern nations and countries.
But think about it. Thesedays, we're used to be indoctrinated to think our lives are only into the country we're born in. We're filled with nationalisms, educated to find strange those who speak another language, and even to consider other nations as enemies. The best example that comes to my mind is Pakistan. Well, lots of Eaastern States end their names with "stan". It should mean "the land of". You then have Afghanistan, which is the land of Afghans, Uzbekistan, which is the land of Uzbekhs, and so on. But why Pakistan is not "the state of the Paki? Because that name is just an abbreviation of some historical regions fused in one, for a single reason: To create a state inhabited by Indians of Muslim religion. Just this.
Now then, was it so important to create a state for that? Wouldn't it be better if people stop dividing themselves for stupid reasons?
We're used to think just for our country because we're educated to think it is the only world.

A secondary, and equally if not more controversial take I have on this, is that people generally have too kneejerk a reaction to the idea of suicide (which is a phenomenon that this topic does indirectly address; arguably the OP is asking us in what circumstances we would be willing to commit suicide or allow suicide).
Uhm I don't think it has much much to do with suicide. Or better, for what suicide is in the most cases.
You usually have people who commit suicide because they're unhappy. They find their life is so painful that is not worth living anymore.
Suicide is born by a very negative vision of human life, who suicides somewhat disrespects life.
Not to mention it is amenable to the first point I made in my first reply to you, the one about feeling guilty for the death of someone else. People who love you will surely get undermined if you commit suicide, they will feel it's their fault, they will miss you, they will ask themselves where they did fail. This perspective is arguably even worse than death itself, since the latter is supposed to last a mere instant while the first consumes you through time.
Who suicides doesn't care about this point, suicide is, in a last stance, pretty egoistical.
A scenario in which one gives his life in order to save many others is the exact opposite, isn't it?

I don't believe we can really understand or help people who have suicidal thoughts or who attempt to commit suicide unless we acknowledge that life isn't fundamentally required, nor is it necessary to uphold the continuation of life. People are fully capable of coming to the understanding that life is not intrinsically worth living, and acting upon that, for reasons other than the world being in an apocalyptic state. If we treat their feelings and decisions as alien, and not really belonging to the set of ideas that society upholds about life and death, then all we do is alienate those people more. In order to help people, you need to follow them into those dark places that they themselves visit.
I'm missing the passage between the understanding of a suicidal individual and the lack of fundamental of life.
Life is not meaningless. Yes, I know, it's just up to everyone of us to intend our own life, but I would like to ask you what you exactly mean with "life is not intrinsically worth living".
But if life isn't worth living, what are you and me doing right now? Why do you feel like to care about one with suicidal tendencies if life is not worth living?
And if life isn't worth living, what is worth doing something?
One who thinks life is meaningless and delusional shouldn't be that scared of his own death, going by this logic. But if you notice, usually Nihilists keep themselves pretty far from suicide. How is that possible? Because they're scared by death, I'd suggest.
But struggling between a meaningless life and a scary death, well, that is not worth living!
You can say life is pointless, but what if I say we aren't? I give sense to my life because I have a sense. This life is useful to me because I need some time to achieve my goals and bring some joy to the next, and this is not meaningless at all.

Just like Naruto. XD
Well, you wouldn't deny Naruto would agree with me here XD
 

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Well, this is a different instinctive behaviour. I mean, it's very important for every human being to feel a part of a group.

It's I believe, a "memory" of when the first men needed to stay united in order to protect themselves from predators and other groups of people. After, this group evolved and became a society, in which everyone had his own rights, his own properties, his own duties and so on.
It obviously was the prototype of our modern nations and countries.
I hate analyzing human history and trying to draw grandiose conclusions from it, but I'll say that I always felt like this was a chicken and egg problem. In the modern world, it isn't as necessary to feel part of a group, but prior to the information era, groups dominated individual life, so if you didn't belong to a group, you were highly disadvantaged. Today, you can get on on your own if you want to, to some extent (see my response to the next quote; it's more necessary to identify with groups for some people than others). Just my opinion though.

But think about it. Thesedays, we're used to be indoctrinated to think our lives are only into the country we're born in. We're filled with nationalisms, educated to find strange those who speak another language, and even to consider other nations as enemies. The best example that comes to my mind is Pakistan. Well, lots of Eaastern States end their names with "stan". It should mean "the land of". You then have Afghanistan, which is the land of Afghans, Uzbekistan, which is the land of Uzbekhs, and so on. But why Pakistan is not "the state of the Paki? Because that name is just an abbreviation of some historical regions fused in one, for a single reason: To create a state inhabited by Indians of Muslim religion. Just this.

Now then, was it so important to create a state for that? Wouldn't it be better if people stop dividing themselves for stupid reasons?
We're used to think just for our country because we're educated to think it is the only world.
I can't really agree with the way you've described history here. XD A lot of these "-stan" countries don't identify as much with a national identity as much as with descrete tribal/ethnic identites. The necessity to have a nation is a product of the Washington Consensus; they wouldn't organize this way necessarily if it wasn't the only way to compete in a global world.

Again, the circumstances we live in define how necessary it is to some kind of group/society. It's about survival. If these countries didn't exist, they'd be erased or othered (Pakistan was created because Indian persecution of muslim populations was in fact a thing, even if it wasn't a perfect solution and border conflicts continue today). In sum: Yeah, it was very necessary. Life and death-type necessary.

I don't wanna speak for Shelke and put words into his mouth, because he's more than capable of expressing himself without my input, but I will say that I understand his viewpoint based on the course of human history.

Uhm I don't think it has much much to do with suicide. Or better, for what suicide is in the most cases.
You usually have people who commit suicide because they're unhappy. They find their life is so painful that is not worth living anymore.
Suicide is born by a very negative vision of human life, who suicides somewhat disrespects life.
Not to mention it is amenable to the first point I made in my first reply to you, the one about feeling guilty for the death of someone else. People who love you will surely get undermined if you commit suicide, they will feel it's their fault, they will miss you, they will ask themselves where they did fail. This perspective is arguably even worse than death itself, since the latter is supposed to last a mere instant while the first consumes you through time.
Who suicides doesn't care about this point, suicide is, in a last stance, pretty egoistical.
A scenario in which one gives his life in order to save many others is the exact opposite, isn't it?
I fundamentally disagree here, and I don't know if we can come to an agreement.

In the eyes of someone who commits suicide, and I'm generalizing here, there is no point to continue living. In the scenario described by OP (Sorry, KonanX, I made your thread the darkest thread on the base XD), if one chooses to sacrifice oneself for others, it is because there is no point in continuing one's own life at the expense of the lives of others. It's just a different sense of meaninglessness, except that generally we consider dying so that others might live to be more noble. And I mean, I know we emphasize the impact that suicide will have on the living, because, well, we're alive - but that's also in itself a form of egoism. It's all the same to me, really.

I'm missing the passage between the understanding of a suicidal individual and the lack of fundamental of life.
Life is not meaningless. Yes, I know, it's just up to everyone of us to intend our own life, but I would like to ask you what you exactly mean with "life is not intrinsically worth living".
But if life isn't worth living, what are you and me doing right now? Why do you feel like to care about one with suicidal tendencies if life is not worth living?
And if life isn't worth living, what is worth doing something?
One who thinks life is meaningless and delusional shouldn't be that scared of his own death, going by this logic. But if you notice, usually Nihilists keep themselves pretty far from suicide. How is that possible? Because they're scared by death, I'd suggest.
But struggling between a meaningless life and a scary death, well, that is not worth living!
You can say life is pointless, but what if I say we aren't? I give sense to my life because I have a sense. This life is useful to me because I need some time to achieve my goals and bring some joy to the next, and this is not meaningless at all.
Never claimed to be a nihilist. But my understanding of nihilism isn't that it's this negative force that you're portraying it as. All it means is that nothing is given, and everything is constructed ("Nothing is true, everything is permitted" XD). When I say "life is not intrinsically worth living," I mean that "I am alive" is not a statement that has any value or meaning. Life is given meaning solely by the features surrounding life, whether it's your relationships or your goals or whatever else you give meaning. If you lose all those things, and all you are is alive, what's the value in that?

Again, not a nihilist. But nihilism doesn't mean that life is pointless. It just means you are born into this world with no given truths or obligations beyond those which you choose for yourself. Which is freeing, in a sense, and can actually enhance the value of life as you select those things you believe matter. But it's important to acknowledge that all those things can be taken away from you - nothing can be taken for granted.

If I valued life such that it was fundamental ideal above all else, how would I ever rationalize an altruistic act like sacrificing myself for even one person? I would have to say that one life is valued more than the other, or I have to rely on other ideals. So the value of life itself is ultimately irrelevant, or at least highly subjective.

I'm not encouraging suicide or saying we should all just kill ourselves. I don't think nihilists are hypocrites either. Life is an opportunity to create meaning; that meaning isn't given to you. But we need to understand that the world oftentimes takes meaning away from people, and puts them in a position where they might consider things like suicide. People aren't obligated to uphold the same meanings upon things like family and friendship like everyone else does.

You say your life is meaningful and useful to you because you get time to achieve your goals and bring joy to others, but not everyone necessarily sees or even has that opportunity, for example. The capacity to enjoy life is something that is learned - we're taught what we should hold important and to what we should aspire - and those who are unable to, for various reasons, and who therefore reject life, are not egotistical. Understanding this is key to sympathizing with those people and helping them to heal.
 

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F*ck sacrifice if it's only for people I don't know. 99% of the same people wouldn't do it for me alone so why should I do it for all of them? Call me a coward all you want, it's not like I'll be able to hear your praise if I'm dead anyways.

I didn't know sticking to your main and most basic of instincts made you a coward. I understand altruism but I don't have too much love for strangers.
 
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I hate analyzing human history and trying to draw grandiose conclusions from it, but I'll say that I always felt like this was a chicken and egg problem. In the modern world, it isn't as necessary to feel part of a group, but prior to the information era, groups dominated individual life, so if you didn't belong to a group, you were highly disadvantaged. Today, you can get on on your own if you want to, to some extent (see my response to the next quote; it's more necessary to identify with groups for some people than others). Just my opinion though.
In modern world we still need the help of other people. Solipsism is, sadly for some, still an illusion in the real world. We can't do "anything" alone right now.
I personally don't have sources of drinkable water near me that I can reach by walking. And keep in mind that I won't use a car because nobody would take oil anymore, nobody would turn it into fuel, nobody would take it to the station. I would spend about one day and half reaching mountains by walking, but then? I can drink, still assuming that water didn't get contaminated, and what do I eat? squirrels? And what will I do in winter? I'd probably end up freezing.
We've never been that depending from others in the whole history. Do you live in a cold place? What do you think you would do without centralized warming?
How would you protect yourself against a bear or worse, without a weapon?

I can't really agree with the way you've described history here. XD A lot of these "-stan" countries don't identify as much with a national identity as much as with descrete tribal/ethnic identites. The necessity to have a nation is a product of the Washington Consensus; they wouldn't organize this way necessarily if it wasn't the only way to compete in a global world.
Come on, you know well that the way they decide how a nation gets formed is far from being fair. Every country has its own interests, big countries favour the formation of a country as well as that fits their own interests. If it wasn't like this, you wouldn't have dozens of states who are recognized by some countries and not recognized by some others. Kosovo is an example, Nagorno Karabakh, South Ossetia, Taiwan, are others.
Well, with those -stan I meant "land of" not "nation of". While it's true that not every -stan is a nation, you will agree with me that its name is not random. Thus, you'll have Belucistan, Bashkotorstan, Dagestan because it fits the name of the population who inhabits those lands, not because it was edgy to put a -stan at the end of their name.

Again, the circumstances we live in define how necessary it is to some kind of group/society. It's about survival. If these countries didn't exist, they'd be erased or othered (Pakistan was created because Indian persecution of muslim populations was in fact a thing, even if it wasn't a perfect solution and border conflicts continue today). In sum: Yeah, it was very necessary. Life and death-type necessary.
The fact if it wasn't a perfect solution at all. Muslim persecutions are very big if you document in a Muslim source, very low if you document in a Hindu source, and even though we can't define who is right and who is wrong, our experience can suggest us that "truth is in the middle". This doesn't mean Islamic fundamentalists did never create problems in India. We've had numerous examples of destructions of temples or religious monuments.
Still stays the fact that today we have two big countries that hate each other.
I don't wanna speak for Shelke and put words into his mouth, because he's more than capable of expressing himself without my input, but I will say that I understand his viewpoint based on the course of human history.
Never said you were speaking for him. But since you make his name, I would like you to answer my question he wasn't able to answer: what would you think if someone (stranger) risks or even gives his life in order to save yours. Or rather, how do you think you would react?
In that right moment, would you be still convinced that human life is pointless? Would you laugh at him, as Shelke seemed to suggest, for being so stupid to care for someone else instead of just doing his own business?



I fundamentally disagree here, and I don't know if we can come to an agreement.

In the eyes of someone who commits suicide, and I'm generalizing here, there is no point to continue living. In the scenario described by OP (Sorry, KonanX, I made your thread the darkest thread on the base XD), if one chooses to sacrifice oneself for others, it is because there is no point in continuing one's own life at the expense of the lives of others. It's just a different sense of meaninglessness, except that generally we consider dying so that others might live to be more noble. And I mean, I know we emphasize the impact that suicide will have on the living, because, well, we're alive - but that's also in itself a form of egoism. It's all the same to me, really.
There is a fundamental difference between a suicidal and a hero: when one commits suicide, he thinks there is no point for him to continue living. A suicides hates just his own life, not life in general, or he would find some way to kill other people while dying.
Instead, who sacrifices his own life for saving others, makes the sacrifice itself the point of his life. Plus, he gives an insane motivation for those who get their life saved by him.
For what concerns the humanity becoming more noble I disagree, one doesn't sacrifice himself for that.
Che Guevara (no I'm not a Communist) said something life "I disagree with your opinion, but I would give my life for you can freely express it". Humanity will not become more noble for that, this is not a mother who promises her child a candy if he does all his homework.
I will add a thing I previously said while confronting Shelke, join my reasoning: if you love a person, you find in that person some characteristics that make him/her unique. Those characteristics will lead you to consider that person worth dying for. Now, the fact is that everybody is loved or has been loved through his life, granting them a seat in the "worth dying for club". To me, it really doesn't matter if the one who finds those characteristics is me or someone else, everybody is worth dying for.

Never claimed to be a nihilist. But my understanding of nihilism isn't that it's this negative force that you're portraying it as. All it means is that nothing is given, and everything is constructed ("Nothing is true, everything is permitted" XD). When I say "life is not intrinsically worth living," I mean that "I am alive" is not a statement that has any value or meaning. Life is given meaning solely by the features surrounding life, whether it's your relationships or your goals or whatever else you give meaning. If you lose all those things, and all you are is alive, what's the value in that?
Well, you can't be "a bit Nihilist". the fact is that Nihilism is in a position that gives you no choice, you completely agree, or you completely disagree.
I mean, how could I say that there's nothing worth fighting for while there's something worth fighting for? Unless you say world is pointless from 1:30 to 4:00 PM but it's awesome for the rest of the time I really can't see how any other position or ideology can stay together with Nihilism.

Again, not a nihilist. But nihilism doesn't mean that life is pointless. It just means you are born into this world with no given truths or obligations beyond those which you choose for yourself. Which is freeing, in a sense, and can actually enhance the value of life as you select those things you believe matter. But it's important to acknowledge that all those things can be taken away from you - nothing can be taken for granted.
It doesn't mean, like Gnosticism, that you're born in a world with no given truths like you can be able to find some truths if you search well.
Nihilism says that nothing in life matters. How can't be pointless a life in which nothing matters?
And how do you select the things that matter? This is not Nihilism, this is called Relativism (the one described as the greatest plague of the XX century huh). But never mind, let me ask you a question. Let's suppose you're a relativist, who chose the things that matter for him and now lives for that. What if another relativist dissipates those things because in his life don't matter? Are you supposed to make war to him for being exactly like you? And if you do, making war with that one is definitely a thing that you didn't program for being mattering, so what do you do? Do you modify your values? But how can that be a solid philosophy of life if it's so depending to the circumstances?

If I valued life such that it was fundamental ideal above all else, how would I ever rationalize an altruistic act like sacrificing myself for even one person? I would have to say that one life is valued more than the other, or I have to rely on other ideals. So the value of life itself is ultimately irrelevant, or at least highly subjective.
No, if you rationalize life in general as a fundamental idea, and not your own life. What if you were a rocks collector, and you had to destroy a boulder in order to find a treasure of super precious stones? Would you let all that treasure uncovered because your conscience of rock-lover can't bear you destroying a boulder, or would you take the stones?

I'm not encouraging suicide or saying we should all just kill ourselves. I don't think nihilists are hypocrites either. Life is an opportunity to create meaning; that meaning isn't given to you. But we need to understand that the world oftentimes takes meaning away from people, and puts them in a position where they might consider things like suicide. People aren't obligated to uphold the same meanings upon things like family and friendship like everyone else does.
Sadly, this is the same thing as above. I calculate the meaning of life as something that can be objective (right for everyone, useful for everyone) and not dangerous for others.
You can't give a meaning to your life basing it on something relative. If one says "the meaning of my life is making money", well, he fools himself.

You say your life is meaningful and useful to you because you get time to achieve your goals and bring joy to others, but not everyone necessarily sees or even has that opportunity, for example. The capacity to enjoy life is something that is learned - we're taught what we should hold important and to what we should aspire - and those who are unable to, for various reasons, and who therefore reject life, are not egotistical. Understanding this is key to sympathizing with those people and helping them to heal.
Maybe the ways we are expected to enjoy life are taught. But life enjoyment itself is not taught. Animals are happy and nobody does explain them how they're supposed to enjoy life. Humans are less different than you think. Everybody is naturally prone to be happy with life, but this doesn't mean you can be happy with those three-four stereotypical things a happy person is supposed to have (fame, money, sexy women-men around, big cars etc.). The happiest person I've ever met was an ex addicted who lives in Rome's suburbs..
Anyway, you will agree with me that there is a big difference between being happy in another way, and have suicidal tendencies. Plus suicide is not present in nature as we do intend it. Only humans commit suicide for personal reasons.


Anyway, if I sacrifice my life for someone, and that guy commits suicide it would be pretty disappointing XD
 

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I have no intention in joining the discussion again, because I already shared everything that I want to say on that matter. But I want to add something to the quote below:

Plus suicide is not present in nature as we do intend it. Only humans commit suicide for personal reasons.
That's wrong. Humans are not the only species that commits suicide. It has been confirmed that sometimes cats, dogs and dolphins just stop to eat or breathe when their mate or owner died. They grieve so much that they eventually give up living.
 

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I have no intention in joining the discussion again, because I already shared everything that I want to say on that matter. But I want to add something to the quote below:



That's wrong. Humans are not the only species that commits suicide. It has been confirmed that sometimes cats, dogs and dolphins just stop to eat or breathe when their mate or owner died. They grieve so much that they eventually give up living.
Uhm lol no.
There's nothing proved about animals' suicides. Plus, the only thing we know is that animals haven't the ultimate concept of "death" in their mind. They also don't have the concept of"pain" if you were interested in learning.
Yes, it happened sometimes that dogs stopped eating when they lost their owners, but such cases have been analyzed and it resulted that they stopped eating because they were too used on their owner giving them food, and his death simply utterly broke their habits in a point that the dogs couldn't understand anything.
Believe me, animals are animals and they act as animals, it's just this Veganism trend that tries to say that animals are like humans.
Vegans :sdo:
 

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No, it's the lack of knowledge and pure arrogance that you see animals as "animals" and think that humans are so much different and better. But if you were interested in learning, you would see that the difference isn't anywhere that big as you think.
 
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