I hate talking to women(well people in general)

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Have you ever seen a person ignorant of their own environment? Prolly, I am particularly talking attractive women- they are so used to people constantly wanting to **** them by default that their sense of self worth skyrockets to ionosphere, the reason I dislike interacting with them is because-- well let's talk about how laughter works, scientifically- when you expect something your brain like gatherers energy to process it; then if it turns out to be something silly that energy is released and it results into laughing-- having said that, every time I have to interact with these people; in order to avoid awkward social situation- I can(but I don't) either treat them like some High princesses that they believe themselves to be(those collection of meat and bones filled with blood) and get treated like their underling - i.e how they treat everyone else(Absolutely unexpectable- I'd rather laugh at them) or secondly I can just treat approach them like regular humans- to which I come off as creep trying to 'get close' or something-Also unacceptable. So usually I am left with a third option, which is -like what I always do- laughing at them for the idiots they are and try my best to keep conversation as brief and strictly subjective(as if on a subject), I mean how do you take someone so delusional seriously.

Is there even a way to interact with these people normally?
In fact I have noticed a lot of time when I see these young kids, their interactions are always like -LOOK at ME I am a GIRL/BOY interacting with BOY/GIRL-- ****ing pathetic, like how stupid can you consciously get!? or, maybe it's just the hormones, but do they ever grow up?

Of course I don't mean EVERY person, but this class definitely exists and this is definitely an issue. How do you deal with people 'ignorant of their environment'?(to put it lightly.)
 

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I'm at a loss here, you seem pretty hurt by their ignorance/arrogance and there's also the fact that you seem to care a lot about them. Looking past that:

Treat them normally the "creep trying to get close thing is more of a mind thing" except ofc you treat normal people in a creepy way, and if you end up holding a decent conversation with one of them you might be shocked to find out they don't think of themselves as being in the ionosphere.... Or you could just ignore them (if possible)
 

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I have never had to talk or work with a beautiful girl/girls so idk.
Must maintain very high intolerance to bullshit, drama and delusion dealing with any kind of person. Distance yourself from such people.
 

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With what kind of people do you interact in the first place? o_O
Well, I know such people myself and I just avoid them as best as I can. Be it women that think they are princesses that need to be worshipped, these so-called "attention-wh*res" or over-confident men that think they are the most desirable creatures in the universe or behave like disgusting bullies while thinking, what they do is cool.

First of all, you should question yourself if these people are even worth your time. If you are annoyed by them like me, try to make contact with quiet, reserved people. They are so much better than these annoying fuqs that you described.
 

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This is ridiculous. It's people like you that place pretty women in the position they are in. They are regular human beings. They have fears, anxiety, and they probably don't think they are as hot as you think they are. What I've found out in my life is that it's usually the pretty girls that always end up being the lonliest. People get intimidated by their looks so they can never make any connections with other people. My advise to you is to approach them in a friend mindset. And if there is something there than pursue it. Worst case scenario you have a new friend
 

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With what kind of people do you interact in the first place? o_O
Well, I know such people myself and I just avoid them as best as I can. Be it women that think they are princesses that need to be worshipped, these so-called "attention-wh*res" or over-confident men that think they are the most desirable creatures in the universe or behave like disgusting bullies while thinking, what they do is cool.

First of all, you should question yourself if these people are even worth your time. If you are annoyed by them like me, try to make contact with quiet, reserved people. They are so much better than these annoying fuqs that you described.
-In class having to ask that girl to pass the question papers, assignments, "hey call that guy on your left" etc etc
-helping out with business- customers
-At functions- people
-Society gathering- people
-Old friends have arrived, time to meet everyone- Hell
They're everywhere and you are bound to run into them regularly, voluntarily though, I avoid like all human interactions.
I think I am just wining tbh.
 

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Damn bro it sounds like you need to be ignorant of your own environment so you can chill tf out.

It's not that I don't feel what you saying but bro...if you don't know how to to talk to beautiful women it's ok. I'm trying to figure out wtf you be doing with your life to run into this problem so much?

I know beautiful women trip a lot but damn if every time you approach them like a "regular human" and you still called a creep...you're probably being a little creepsih bro. It's cool we're all socially awkward in one way or another, attractive women just might be your grey area. Mine is worse it involves friendships. I feel you trust I'm just saying man, most of the time attractive women do have a reason to be stuck up, they deal with more creeps in a day then guys who aren't creeps deal with them. But they're still people and you can usually have a normal conversation with them and go about your day unless it's something you doing.

I can tell this weighing on you man just trying to help you look at this from all angles. Stay thirsty bro
 
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