What for people is a real man?

[Izou Xaxa]

Listen i decided to be my own kind because almost everyone in my circle is perverted sometimes i say i am interested in the opposite but not in that way

they tell me i am probably gay because i hate porn and whenever some scenes appear i treat them different than perverted actually i am not gay but if all this things are normal and makes one a true man ok they can never change me then i am just not a true man but i am not gay either

At the beginning i accepted but now they just went too far so in fact whenever someone even mentions words like "hot" or "atractive body" in my presence i shout them down for being like that in the classsroom i need to hold myself back

I even hate it when someone would call me attractive because i just know they only go for the same things

Whenever i find something what is human like attractive i deny it forcefully for the sake of not being like "them" i actually still call my PS3 attractive without problems

Because if i would even have dreams of girls i would be like the perverts and i never want to be like people that always treated me unfair or that simply disgust me

well if someone is still an ok person but does it secretely i do not bother but sometimes some persons that hanged out with my brother are making those jokes and then they ask me "about my attractive feelings" i always just tell them i have none i actually might have some but i defeated them inside of me because i will never be like this this cannot possibly be Pride

I always had a few secret desires but i deny them because i dont want to be a pervert actually i had soem desires for the opposite but i threw that away
That is exactly why i am almost close to an asexual my will is to be asexual but my heart actually says it wants the straight but too bad for my heart my brain is stronger i am close to the asexual i just need some time to force it in me

I just explained why i am gonna ask those questions

Is really being a pervert making you a man? So makes that me a ******? Can someone understand how i feel?

 

[Bad Touch Yakushi]

Men need to stop questioning their own masculinity. Embrace it or ignore expectations of you, just like females. The question of being a man creates sadness, insecurity, sociopaths and d*ckheads.

Focus on not being a good man or a good woman because these terms are empty. Focus on being a good person.

 

[Izou Xaxa]

Men need to stop questioning their own masculinity. Embrace it or ignore expectations of you, just like females. The question of being or not being a man creates sadness, insecurity, sociopaths and d*ckheads.

Focus on not being a good man or a good woman because these terms are empty. Focus on being a good person.

Well people the people just call me a ****** because i find porn pathetic and theyt always told me any women would decline me for being a boring ****** of course this is not the whole reason why i wish to be asexual those people could never influence me

I just see love relation with 4 topics

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Perverted porn
being a cool person ever
being special

and other things

i actually find that not understandable and so in fact i also told them in defense it is not like i dont deserve them but they dont deserve me because only to call me gay or ******

They can obtain any female they like i will never make a contest with them never

 

[DroGGz0r]

What does "being a man'' even mean ? It sounds so ridiculous. Pukeworthy...

 

[ahmo]

Being a man:
1. Girls: has a big you know what
2. Boys: extremely cool
3. Yourself: what makes you happy, you want to be asexual, you strive for, that alone makes you a man.

 

[Izou Xaxa]

What does "being a man'' even mean ? It sounds so ridiculous. Pukeworthy...

Yeah i know thats what i find as well but most people are using on perverted terms
i actually find it ridiculous to call anyone a true man

Being a man:
1. Girls: has a big you know what
2. Boys: extremely cool
3. Yourself: what makes you happy, you want to be asexual, you strive for, that alone makes you a man.

SO you wanna say denying my true feelings and becoming asexual on force makes me one well maybe i can be proud of it

A shame that all girls only care about that "thing" well then i am glad i will evolve into an asexual if thats the case and boys that wanna be cool why? They are annoying and childish for me

 

[ahmo]

Yeah i know thats what i find as well but most people are using on perverted terms
i actually find it ridiculous to call anyone a true man



SO you wanna say denying my true feelings and becoming asexual on force makes me one well maybe i can be proud of it

A shame that all girls only care about that "thing" well then i am glad i will evolve into an asexual if thats the case and boys that wanna be cool why? They are annoying and childish for me

Maybe, you see I'm heterosexual, and I've ever been trying to bang a real nice G, that's what makes me the man I am, so holding dear what you want should be the real factor to be considered
Yah, a real shame it is, they seldom care about ones personality, which should be the most important of all.
I'm afraid I have to disagree with you about the guys,being cool doesn't necessarily=swagger, damn a nerd/hipster could be cool amongst fellow nerds/hipster, It implies "blending in" in this case

 

[Izou Xaxa]

Maybe, you see I'm heterosexual, and I've ever been trying to bang a real nice G, that's what makes me the man I am, so holding dear what you want should be the real factor to be considered
Yah, a real shame it is, they seldom care about ones personality, which should be the most important of all.
I'm afraid I have to disagree with you about the guys,being cool doesn't necessarily=swagger, damn a nerd/hipster could be cool amongst fellow nerds/hipster, It implies "blending in" in this case

Yeah and i am a man for destroying my heterosexuell personality with force and becoming an asexual which will be hopefully a better life
I get what you mean so you are a man for what you consider yourself being one
Because being cool and pervert most guys are good and so i am sure they all bang all girls existing away or at least the one that i would love probably
I just saw no way for me to be able to get in that my feelings want it but i know girls get banged by higher classes cool guys and also i am a completely weird and scum person sometimes so i just cant accpet that anymore

I am still struggling between the lines of hetero and asexual
That is actually something i can be proud off

 

[ahmo]

Yeah and i am a man for destroying my heterosexuell personality with force and becoming an asexual which will be hopefully a better life
I get what you mean so you are a man for what you consider yourself being one
Because being cool and pervert most guys are good and so i am sure they all bang all girls existing away or at least the one that i would love probably
I just saw no way for me to be able to get in that my feelings want it but i know girls get banged by higher classes cool guys and also i am a completely weird and scum person sometimes so i just cant accpet that anymore

I am still struggling between the lines of hetero and asexual
That is actually something i can be proud off

Lol, I'd surely look you up when I turn asexual, might be pretty soon, even I can't tell.

 

[Izou Xaxa]

Lol, I'd surely look you up when I turn asexual, might be pretty soon, even I can't tell.

Oh so you plan too to become asexuel?

 

[Jazzy Stardust]

See your definition of something perverted and the general publics definition are different.

For instance, is this perverted to you?

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The majority of males, especially young males, wouldn't think that is perverted.


So that's the key to remember. Then just do you, without forcing it on others. If you don't like a part in a movie, just look away or at your phone. You don't have to sit there and complain, you know what people will say because your perspectives are different.

 

[ahmo]

Oh so you plan too to become asexuel?

No I don't, but I might consider it if I don't get a girl real soon, better an asexual than a heterosexual looser. Lol
(I just said that for fun)

 

[awesomeseimei]

Well, each society obviously has some standards set for each gender, but I won't go there now. I'll just say that, I think that you should not let those standards make you feel insecure about yourself. I've never been attracted to a real-life person (and, well, my "attraction" to fictional characters is purely aesthetic), so I guess I can't say what being a "real man" means to me. However, I can say that I like people who are confident and have good self-control.

Denying your secret desires might not be a good thing though. It's better to accept them, get over them and move on.

 

[ahmo]

Well, each society obviously has some standards set for each gender, but I won't go there now. I'll just say that, I think that you should not let those standards make you feel insecure about yourself. I've never been attracted to a real-life person (and, well, my "attraction" to fictional characters is purely aesthetic), so I guess I can't say what being a "real man" means to me. However, I can say that I like people who are confident and have good self-control.

Denying your secret desires might not be a good thing though. It's better to accept them, get over them and move on.

even if it means accepting it might rue your chance to happiness?
i know denying yourself something you want might hurt, but doing it nonetheless is for a greater cause, What doesnt kill you makes you stronger

 

[awesomeseimei]

even if it means accepting it might rue your chance to happiness?
i know denying yourself something you want might hurt, but doing it nonetheless is for a greater cause, What doesnt kill you makes you stronger

It depends on how bad it is, I guess - but I prefer staying true to myself, even if it would make it harder for me. I also had some struggles against myself, and my life actually got easier once I acknowledged my "true self" (quote Itachi). I mean, of course I hide my true feelings often but mostly out of politeness.

Not to mention, nothing good can come out of bottling up anger etc. too much. Repression leads to frustration, irritation and sometimes even worse. That is, unless you can become dangerous to others if you don't hold back, but in that case, you may require help, preferably from professionals.

 

[Izou Xaxa]

See your definition of something perverted and the general publics definition are different.

For instance, is this perverted to you?

Spoiler

You must be registered for see images

The majority of males, especially young males, wouldn't think that is perverted.


So that's the key to remember. Then just do you, without forcing it on others. If you don't like a part in a movie, just look away or at your phone. You don't have to sit there and complain, you know what people will say because your perspectives are different.

No i just find the guys reaction perverted i dont mind people

But in thi case i dont find the women appealing so they can say whatever they like because it is not my buisness and also i think she looks like she likes perverts so yeah

In movies its i slike when a naked scene is not for fanservice purpose and just for beauty i like it but once it is for perverted purpose i dislike it

I know i am complex in my head

If everyone is like this wehre is my piece?

No I don't, but I might consider it if I don't get a girl real soon, better an asexual than a heterosexual looser. Lol
(I just said that for fun)

Agreed

Well, each society obviously has some standards set for each gender, but I won't go there now. I'll just say that, I think that you should not let those standards make you feel insecure about yourself. I've never been attracted to a real-life person (and, well, my "attraction" to fictional characters is purely aesthetic), so I guess I can't say what being a "real man" means to me. However, I can say that I like people who are confident and have good self-control.

Denying your secret desires might not be a good thing though. It's better to accept them, get over them and move on.

Well i can kinda understand what you mean actually i feel similar to you in a special way
My secret desires yeah i am embaressed about them, i am proud of them, i am angry at them at the same time

I cannot even characterize myself maybe tahts why my answers sound so strange

Maybe you are right

 

[YowYan]

I'm actually the same as you in that sense. I despise when my friends talk pervertly.
It's a good trait, be proud of it.

And you're a man when you're born with a penis. That manly pride behind it is just rubbish.