[Debate] Is the word "gay" offensive?

Aquaglow

Jōnin Strategist 🧠
Regular
Joined
Feb 1, 2011
Messages
1,512
Reaction score
120
Gay isn't offensive at all even if you use it as GAylord.

Because you are clearly Showing High levels of Respect to the gay by Calling hIM the Lord of Gays.

Oh my!!! :lmao: Some people here are just so................!!!
 

Dark Sonic

Anbu Operative 🎭
Veteran
Joined
Jul 21, 2015
Messages
3,207
Reaction score
287
I googled the word. I found some feedback

gaylord. noun. Offensive Slang. Used as a disparaging term for a gay man. Used as a disparaging term for a foolish or inept man or boy.

I guess that's the derogatory meaning.

The other meaning however is an American surname and a male given name. I guess because of how the word gay is the reason for it to be interpreted as an insult.
 

Filosoofis

Banned
Veteran
Joined
Apr 26, 2014
Messages
3,769
Reaction score
294
Is there a valid reason to consider the word "gay" so offensive as to ban someone for using it? A while ago i almost got banned from a site because my signature had "Gaylord' in it. They removed every comment I ever posted with the signature, removed my signature and suspended me for about 4 days with a warning. Personally I think is outrageous and ridiculous, you have to lack a lot of common sense to ban someone over something so stupid, like if "gay' is an offensive word shouldn't heterosexual be considered offensive as well? and bisexual etc.? You get my point. But what do you think of this, do you think "gay" is a really offensive word for some reason? If so, please by all means let me know why.

nope but i do use it as an offensive swearword
 

Karna

Member
Joined
Aug 2, 2014
Messages
2,394
Reaction score
200
You're stupid.

Gay was used as an offence even before homosexuality became 'not taboo', if someone is ok with it; use it, but they might totally want to 'not be addressed' as that since it could have two meanings, homosexual on the other side doesn't, so it's ok. Idk the context of your sig but 'Gaylord' is 99% offensive and obviously meant as an insult, hence the first line.
 

GreyWizard93

Anbu Operative 🎭
Veteran
Joined
Apr 26, 2012
Messages
4,474
Reaction score
387
You are offending the people who are gay as if it were a bad thing to be gay.
 

Curteth

Jōnin Strategist 🧠
Veteran
Joined
Dec 8, 2011
Messages
2,178
Reaction score
115
It's gay to be offended by the word...

OT: jk above, and IMO it could very well be those that are uneducated about matters that cause it to be considered such... (Only a shot in the dark tho)

....but keepin with the theme: I'm sorry if this offends ya (lol)

Well now a days it isn't considered offensive at all.

He has became a hipster... So gay. (Jokes)
 
Last edited:

Jazzy Stardust

Banned
Legendary
Joined
May 15, 2013
Messages
13,494
Reaction score
987
It's how you look at it. Gaylord would technically be a lord of gays. Which isn't an insult.

Calling someone gay also isn't offensive, unless they aren't gay then it can be. But if someone's gay you're stating fact, can't be mad about it.
 

Tarkatower

Sannin of the Scrolls 📜
Elite
Joined
Oct 5, 2015
Messages
5,150
Reaction score
70
I do not think so, but i wont be surprised if 20 years from now it's socially considered to be so
 

Cornson

Leaf Village Regular 🍃
Regular
Joined
Mar 12, 2013
Messages
910
Reaction score
55
No, there is no way the word gay is offensive.

and if you find the word offensive I find you offensive.
 

Elio

Legendary Shinobi 🐸
Supreme
Joined
Feb 4, 2012
Messages
29,920
Reaction score
1,446
Depends how you use it. Using it as a synonym for stupid is offensive because the word stupid is offensive. But stating that someone ks actually gay (because they are in fact gay) is not an insult.
 

GreyWizard93

Anbu Operative 🎭
Veteran
Joined
Apr 26, 2012
Messages
4,474
Reaction score
387
It's how you look at it. Gaylord would technically be a lord of gays. Which isn't an insult.

Like black

Calling someone gay also isn't offensive, unless they aren't gay then it can be. But if someone's gay you're stating fact, can't be mad about it.

Like black people right.
 

BanGinji

Leaf Village Regular 🍃
Regular
Joined
May 8, 2014
Messages
548
Reaction score
43
Offensive is subjective. Depends on who you ask.

Anything can be offensive based on context and inflection.
 

Izou Xaxa

Jōnin Strategist 🧠
Regular
Joined
Jan 30, 2015
Messages
1,466
Reaction score
87
If someone never ever wanna be compared to gay people it is offensive for him
 

Ripple Hole

Banned
Veteran
Joined
Jul 24, 2015
Messages
2,766
Reaction score
172
I mostly see it used as an insult.
"Get yo gay-ass from me."
"That's gay."
 
Top