Girl loses virginity at 13..

[Nikes]

So I've asked my closest friend his opinion on this subject a couple of times but it's bothering me again. This is the only place I can post/ponder without any of my friends fam or GF having a chance to see.

So anyway.. Could you be with a girl that lost her virginity at 13(just turned 13) and in the following years leading to age 20 sleep with 12 guys? Important note for 3 of those years she was in relationships and she isn't a cheater so really that leaves a shorter time to get her body count up.

Could you do it? What're your thoughts?

Idk but it bothers me.

And again this is the only place I can go with a ZERO chance of anyone in my life seeing it, so that's why I'm posting this here.

 

[Everztar]

being 13 she's not mentally mature yet.
she's 20 now and slept with 12 guys because she started very early and was probably cheated on by guys and such...
13-20 is the age where many people have a relationship for 2 months and break up... or if they hang out in a "little gang"
almost every girl in that gang has been together with every boy in that gang... it's very common...

not that i have slept with 12 guys...

she's now 20 and probably a bit more mature.

give her a chance to prove she's worthy your time...

her past should not matter.

 

[Nikes]

being 13 she's not mentally mature yet.
she's 20 now and slept with 12 guys because she started very early and was probably cheated on by guys and such...
13-20 is the age where many people have a relationship for 2 months and break up... or if they hang out in a "little gang"
almost every girl in that gang has been together with every boy in that gang... it's very common...

not that i have slept with 12 guys...

she's now 20 and probably a bit more mature.

give her a chance to prove she's worthy your time...

her past should not matter.

but there's times where I can see a glimpse into.. Like... Hoeness? Idk but it almost convinces me that her partners were not immature hookups ya know (no disrespect by the word hoeness just didn't know what other word could work)

 

[Monxstaa]

So I've asked my closest friend his opinion on this subject a couple of times but it's bothering me again. This is the only place I can post/ponder without any of my friends fam or GF having a chance to see.

So anyway.. Could you be with a girl that lost her virginity at 13(just turned 13) and in the following years leading to age 20 sleep with 12 guys? Important note for 3 of those years she was in relationships and she isn't a cheater so really that leaves a shorter time to get her body count up.

Could you do it? What're your thoughts?

Idk but it bothers me.

And again this is the only place I can go with a ZERO chance of anyone in my life seeing it, so that's why I'm posting this here.

Honesty the double standers are bs if you had *** with 30 girls i dont think she would care so no you shouldnt care and if you love her be with her, what people think shouldnt bother you if people say shes a hoe then shes your hoe nothing wrong

 

[Ryu Kishi]

daddy issues :bdpf:

 

[Power Bottom]

daddy issues :bdpf:

And guys who sleep around Mommy issues?

 

[Nikes]

Honesty the double standers are bs if you had *** with 30 girls i dont think she would care so no you shouldnt care and if you love her be with her, what people think shouldnt bother you if people say shes a hoe then shes your hoe nothing wrong

Yeah I feel you. No one thinks she's a hoe, but I'm starting to think she is. And I think I fell for a hoe and I don't want that but what would you do? Like I found out about the 13 and partners AFTER I had already developed feelings, and I curse myself for not being more thorough in getting to know her and about her(past)

 

[Everztar]

but there's times where I can see a glimpse into.. Like... Hoeness? Idk but it almost convinces me that her partners were not immature hookups ya know (no disrespect by the word hoeness just didn't know what other word could work)

Having *** with 12 guys in the range of 7 years does not have anything to do with being a hoe.
she might just have grown up with the wrong people...
where *** didn't really matter that much, so it became a common thing that you'd do with anyone among your "gang" for some people, *** doesn't mean "that much" but instead is a social thing that you can do with another person becuase you both want the pleasure.
ask her, and you'll probably get this answer; i had *** with 10 guys from 13-17 and then it was only 2 more.

 

[Ryu Kishi]

And guys who sleep around Mommy issues?

too much porn:bdpf:

 

[Power Bottom]

too much porn:bdpf:

Yea maybe not

 

[Monxstaa]

Yeah I feel you. No one thinks she's a hoe, but I'm starting to think she is. And I think I fell for a hoe and I don't want that but what would you do? Like I found out about the 13 and partners AFTER I had already developed feelings, and I curse myself for not being more thorough in getting to know her and about her(past)

if you love her then its cool bro nothing wrong with it unless you are not satisfied with your *** life?

too much porn:bdpf:

stahp please dont solo the thread too much.

 

[Nikes]

Having *** with 12 guys in the range of 7 years does not have anything to do with being a hoe.
she might just have grown up with the wrong people...
where *** didn't really matter that much, so it became a common thing that you'd do with anyone among your "gang" for some people, *** doesn't mean "that much" but instead is a social thing that you can do with another person becuase you both want the pleasure.
ask her, and you'll probably get this answer; i had *** with 10 guys from 13-17 and then it was only 2 more.

Shit how the hell am I supposed to ask that? And that explanation sounds like hoeing around to me. Maybe I'm arrogant idk

 

[Power Bottom]

Shit how the hell am I supposed to ask that? And that explanation sounds like hoeing around to me. Maybe I'm arrogant idk

Why dose it matter?

 

[Everztar]

Shit how the hell am I supposed to ask that? And that explanation sounds like hoeing around to me. Maybe I'm arrogant idk

ask her this: do you have aids?

if yes - leave her be
if no - no need to worry about her past

problem solved.

jokes aside, don't be so afraid to get hurt. if you want her, go take her.
if she leaves you in 1 month it won't hurt anyway

 

[Nikes]

if you love her then its cool bro nothing wrong with it unless you are not satisfied with your *** life?


stahp please dont solo the thread too much.

No physically it's good, it's just the mental state of me not wanting her sexual history. And I started to think it was cause my last gf, of three years, was a virgin when we got together. And now my current gf come to find out has a body count I'm not happy with. It's different and the shock hit me cause I thought she was a hella good girl and like 3 months later I find all that out. It's really stressful and it's childish I'll admit but it's just how I feel

 

[Mari Makinami]

Of course I could be with her. I might even stay 'till the morning, if her skills are good enough, that is

 

[Power Bottom]

No physically it's good, it's just the mental state of me not wanting her sexual history. And I started to think it was cause my last gf, of three years, was a virgin when we got together. And now my current gf come to find out has a body count I'm not happy with. It's really stressful and it's childish I'll admit but it's just how I feel

This is more of a personal/moral situation. If you can't be with somebody that has a history break it off. Or you are going to have to look over it. I am sure you didn't think oh I wonder how many partners she had when you found feelings. The things you saw in her are truly important. That is the past. You can't change it. If you can't look over this will only hunt you and make you stressful during any romantic encounters. You should look over it but if you can't break it off.

 

[Nikes]

Why dose it matter?

Shock value. I thought she wasn't like that, come to find out 3 months later she lost her virginity at 13 and that's terrible imo. I didn't have *** till 17 junior year

 

[Monxstaa]

No physically it's good, it's just the mental state of me not wanting her sexual history. And I started to think it was cause my last gf, of three years, was a virgin when we got together. And now my current gf come to find out has a body count I'm not happy with. It's different and the shock hit me cause I thought she was a hella good girl and like 3 months later I find all that out. It's really stressful and it's childish I'll admit but it's just how I feel

oka last your gf was virgin but you wasnt right? whats the matter if shes loyal man just keep her btw how many people did you have sexx with?

 

[Nikes]

This is more of a personal/moral situation. If you can't be with somebody that has a history break it off. Or you are going to have to look over it. I am sure you didn't think oh I wonder how many partners she had when you found feelings. The things you saw in her are truly important. That is the past. You can't change it. If you can't look over this will only hunt you and make you stressful during any romantic encounters. You should look over it but if you can't break it off.

It's hard to get over it, and it's hard to break it off I've tried both and it still comes to mind. **** this shit is haunting I wish it wasn't a big deal to me