Why do some people do like nontraditional is bad ?

[BSK]

She didn't. She left it out to interpretation. But if she was attacked physically or not has little importance. Because one leads to the other. The problem cannot be discussed here because we don't know all the insights. This is clearly something between a small group of people because they know each other lol. We don't know how how she reacted in the past maybe she was agressive and now she's playing the bunny role and feels like a victim or maybe she was never bad with them and they are just brainless monkeys who act on instinct. Either way She might very well have a communication issue and get very easily angry on words that put her to her place or make her look bad. This topic is ended because of very little information on such issues.

I agree completely. I was actually going to write something similar but was too lazy

 

[Sakura Michiko]

And the last part about heaven and hell is just stupid I would have taken my hat off in front of you if you wouldn't have said that. If you want to talk with me about heaven or hell, PM me I'll be willing and glad to share and exchange impressions with you upon this idea.

How is it stupid? I'm just saying because I decided to not to be a christian. I would imagine if it is real that I would probably go to hell. So how is that stupid? We were talking about right/wrong and I said that cause I know I might be wrong.

 

[Namar]

I agree completely. I was actually going to write something similar but was too lazy

I understood the way you were talking to her. She actually needed what you said and I hope she has a mature mind to understand that

 

[BSK]

I understood the way you were talking to her. She actually needed what you said and I hope she has a mature mind to understand that

I hope so too.

 

[Namar]

How is it stupid? I'm just saying because I decided to not to be a christian. I would imagine if it is real that I would probably go to hell. So how is that stupid? We were talking about right/wrong and I said that cause I know I might be wrong.

Again you just react on what is not good for you or your words.

AND you do have a ****ing communication issue. I don't talk about your decision to be christian or not. I actually say that saying that you go to hell is extremely stupid and btw I'm a christian and idgaf about heaven or hell because they are not what everyone think they are.
If you have ever read the Bible you would have known what Heaven or Hell actually are. To add to this. A discussion in the light of right or wrong is a heaven and hell based discussion : ) ) Light and dark, good or evil, etc.

Are you sure that you are not a christian after all ?

Now, nobody actually sends you to hell. because hell doesn not exist it was intended for the monkey brain in that period to decipher and delimit the boundaries of something good and something bad.

Yes, in the Bible it is written about heaven and hell and such. It is written, but the real work for God in that period of time was not to tell people where they will go. The real work was to make people turn to him. The heaven and hell idea is just outdated and was just used as a way to make someone like you or me understand what actually good and bad are and to choose from them.

 

[Namar]

Anyway you are a great person remember to cherish yourself and also be open minded to others.
Nobody said that society is perfect. We need to know how to blend in because too much good can also turn bad. Nothing is really perfect. Actually the idea of perfect was created by people who have a mental disorder called "never being pleased by anything".

If you ever want to talk you know how to pm. Until then I wish you the best in all your life.

 

[PlatinumTitan]

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I'm actually a very fair, moral, honest person and I can see clearly that this is not cruelty. She never said she was physically attacked.

Then you didn't read her whole post.

 

[PlatinumTitan]

Again you just react on what is not good for you or your words.

AND you do have a ****ing communication issue. I don't talk about your decision to be christian or not. I actually say that saying that you go to hell is extremely stupid and btw I'm a christian and idgaf about heaven or hell because they are not what everyone think they are.
If you have ever read the Bible you would have known what Heaven or Hell actually are. To add to this. A discussion in the light of right or wrong is a heaven and hell based discussion : ) ) Light and dark, good or evil, etc.

Are you sure that you are not a christian after all ?

Now, nobody actually sends you to hell. because hell doesn not exist it was intended for the monkey brain in that period to decipher and delimit the boundaries of something good and something bad.

Yes, in the Bible it is written about heaven and hell and such. It is written, but the real work for God in that period of time was not to tell people where they will go. The real work was to make people turn to him. The heaven and hell idea is just outdated and was just used as a way to make someone like you or me understand what actually good and bad are and to choose from them.

If you understand that those ideas are obsolete...why go through so much effort to make your ideology conform with modern society?

 

[Yubel]

Being nontraditional is not a bad thing. I actually get really sick of seeing hardcore extreme traditional people attacking non traditional people(and I'm not talking about all traditional people). These people do like it's taboo to be non traditional. Just a few days ago someone told me that I shouldn't worry about being a nurse over being a mother because as a mother I would be my kids teacher and I am young foolish girl. Like I'm not even a mom and I want to be a pediatric nurse so I will automatically be dealing with kids. I'm not with the whole traditional gender role stuff and it's fine if someone else wants to be like that but not me. I remember my college literature class was having a talk about gender norms and a good amount of the class said they are for them.One girl even said her boyfriend told her his feelings would be hurt if she had a better job than he ever did. When the teacher got to me I told her that a lot of people like to put pressure on my boyfriend because he isn't in college and I am. They try to tell him is a failure because I might be making more money than him but we think those people are close-minded.I told my boyfriend that he isn't a failure as a boyfriend because I love him regardless of the money he will make.Like why is it so important to these people for everyone to be traditional ? Social norms. It's like some people buy into them and attack the people that don't fit. Me and him are extreme non traditional.
Us-
-Non religions(if we categorized ourselves we would be considered Pan agnostic(me) and Atheist(him) ) African-Americans
-We see each other as equals and no one is over the other
-We both cook together and clean up together( for the most part)
-We both want to be providers

We've been attack a number of times. I remember one of his sisters attacked me and called me "an evil monkey" at one point because I'm not religious(but she chilled though). We even get weird looks when we say how we are.
What's so wrong with us not being traditional? Nothing at all. Why are some people prudes about people like me and my boyfriend? Like we aren't killing them..If they wanna be traditional then fine but tripping over non traditional people isn't cool.

Women are hypergamous, meaning they always look for a man with higher social status, that's their sexual nature. You say you love him now but it will be hard for you to respect him in the future if you're more successful than him, more than likely you'll dump him after he let his guard down thinking it's ok to not be as successful or more successful than you. If you truly "love" him, you would want him to be as successful as he can be, that doesn't have to include going to college and getting a degree but you need to encourage him.

 

[YowYan]

Because close-minded people cannot accept anything out of their little bubble.

 

[Sakura Michiko]

Women are hypergamous, meaning they always look for a man with higher social status, that's their sexual nature. You say you love him now but it will be hard for you to respect him in the future if you're more successful than him, more than likely you'll dump him after he let his guard down thinking it's ok to not be as successful or more successful than you. If you truly "love" him, you would want him to be as successful as he can be, that doesn't have to include going to college and getting a degree but you need to encourage him.

Wow, when did you wake up as me a female to tell me what I well do it the future. You shouldn't even try to give advice. I saw some of your post of here....

 

[Yubel]

Wow, when did you wake up as me a female to tell me what I well do it the future. You shouldn't even try to give advice. I saw some of your post of here....

Your post remind me of the type of chicks who tell their BF to not go to the gym because "I love your belly baby" and then get disgusted with him for being a fat slob.

 

[Norman Bates]

Women are hypergamous, meaning they always look for a man with higher social status, that's their sexual nature. You say you love him now but it will be hard for you to respect him in the future if you're more successful than him, more than likely you'll dump him after he let his guard down thinking it's ok to not be as successful or more successful than you. If you truly "love" him, you would want him to be as successful as he can be, that doesn't have to include going to college and getting a degree but you need to encourage him.

I am convinced you are very troubled or trying to stir up things with controversial and rather stupid opinions. Everything in this little paragraph is wrong. I suppose it's possible for some people, no matter the gender, to be this way, but all? That's laughable. Perhaps you had a bad experience and you are reflecting your own lust onto others. It's sad because now, with your insane logic, you would not know love if it walked up to you and stared you straight in the eyes. You seem so backwards, but I do wish you change and find happiness, find love. Maybe you will have a healthy relationship like Mother and I someday. It's probably unlikely, but I wish you the best.

 

[Sakura Michiko]

Your post remind me of the type of chicks who tell their BF to not go to the gym because "I love your belly baby" and then get disgusted with him for being a fat slob.

My boyfriend asked me how I felt if he went to the army I told him I'm cool with that.He is going to the army. I also really don't have a preference because I'm not shallow so I don't care if he was skinny,big, or his race.

 

[YowYan]

Women are hypergamous, meaning they always look for a man with higher social status, that's their sexual nature. You say you love him now but it will be hard for you to respect him in the future if you're more successful than him, more than likely you'll dump him after he let his guard down thinking it's ok to not be as successful or more successful than you. If you truly "love" him, you would want him to be as successful as he can be, that doesn't have to include going to college and getting a degree but you need to encourage him.

You clearly stated you know nothing about women. Why are you still talking?

 

[Mayweather]

The white man brought the negroes from africa and forced us into slavery. Now it is not favorable for them they say take them back? You cant eat your cake and have it. Their hard-work built america, had you picked your own cotton you wont have this issue. So don't complain about multiculturalism or integration.

 

[Yubel]

You clearly stated you know nothing about women. Why are you still talking?

That was then, this is now.

 

[Sakura Michiko]

That was then, this is now.

and even now you fail to understand women. Clearly you are a sexist.

The white man brought the negroes from africa and forced us into slavery. Now it is not favorable for them they say take them back? You cant eat your cake and have it. Their hard-work built america, had you picked your own cotton you wont have this issue. So don't complain about multiculturalism or integration.

Wrong post???I think was wanted to post that here

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[Yubel]

and even now you fail to understand women. Clearly you are a sexist.

No, I am a realist.

 

[Sakura Michiko]

No, I am a realist.

"Women are hypergamous, meaning they always look for a man with higher social status, that's their sexual nature. " <Hasty generalization fallacy "You say you love him now but it will be hard for you to respect him in the future if you're more successful than him, more than likely you'll dump him after he let his guard down thinking it's ok to not be as successful or more successful than you." <Wow when did you being come me a female. " If you truly "love" him, you would want him to be as successful as he can be, that doesn't have to include going to college and getting a degree but you need to encourage him."<ASSuming I never talked to him about college but he decided he is going to the army. ...Yea you are a realist alright lol Here this should explain what a hasty generalization is

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