Ever since I was rejected I can't move on...!?

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Summimasen...!! I don't know if I did the wrong thing sharing this with otherx...!!

Ettoo... Anno...!! You see the girl I was in love chose someone else upon me. Ever since then I couldn't get myself back to my usual self. You see, I was sort of rejected... That led to the change in my whole personality. Now, I don't know anymore what my actual self was. How I used to behave...!! Before I was rejected the only thing I wanted to do was have fun. But I'm fed up... How come I have fun while I'm not with the person I like the most??

Have u ever been dumped even without doing a confession?? The person I liked definitely knew what my emotions were... I never got a chance to confess, but still....

How the hell am I supposed to live like a lively guy again? Back then I was all cheerful and used to have a pleasant atmosphere around me. But now - There are chills you can feel whenever I say a single word...
I try to suppress this side of mine and had been able to... But I can't do it anymore... I can't take it anymore... What am I supposed to do... How am I supposed to live??

I no more know whether I should act like I'm all funny and lively... Or should I engrave myself with this dark personality of mine. In any case, trying to be back to my normal self is impossible. I can't... It's no use, I have already tried numerous times.

Summimasen Deshta!!... I'm sorry if I sounded like an idiot or if I said something I shouldn't have...!?

I know that there are people out there who have bigger problems than this one... That's why I apologized in the very beginning. Well then, Ja'na!!
 

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It's normal to feel sad for a while. Give yourself a short period of time to feel down, but then get back to living.

Take care of yourself and do things you love to do. It might not be tomorrow, but happiness will eventually return.
 

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You should fellow what dio saids.
"Don't dream of women
'Cause they only bring you down"
Wakata... Dey'mo... How can I change my personality back to what it used to be after what has happened!? It's not easy on me. I don't care for anyone or anything anymore. I have become a mess...!! :(
 

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This is why i'll never fall in love with someone. :bdpf:

Girls are the ones who have to fall in love with you... not the contrary !
 

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You will get over it, just try to avoid seeing her for a while. You will forget her and find another girl who will like you as much as you like her. Don't say this isn't possible because it always is.
 

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It's sounds like you're trying to write a poem, chill lol. If you never told this chick how you feel than how can you be so sure she knows? Women are extremely complex dude. You have to let them know straight up. Once they know if she likes you she'll let you know but if not then it'll suck but life goes on. There's someone out there for everyone you just have to be out going and get out there man don't let one girl change who you are in a negative way.
 

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Arigato ney, for your concern. But I can't move on with my personality like this...!! It's become quite dark. :(
Notice how the chick you like doesn't even know you exist, don't give her anymore attention either.
You're stronger than that, get your life together, no woman should effect you to this extent.
 

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You will get over it, just try to avoid seeing her for a while. You will forget her and find another girl who will like you as much as you like her. Don't say this isn't possible because it always is.
It's normal to feel sad for a while. Give yourself a short period of time to feel down, but then get back to living.

Take care of yourself and do things you love to do. It might not be tomorrow, but happiness will eventually return.
Gomeney, for not mentioning ==>> So, a year wasn't enough?! :hyper:
 

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Wakata... Dey'mo... How can I change my personality back to what it used to be after what has happened!? It's not easy on me. I don't care for anyone or anything anymore. I have become a mess...!! :(
Drink alcohol to take the pain away.
No im kidding don't do that. You should see a therapist, mate.
 

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You're gonna get over it but you're never gonna forget it. Depends on how close you were/are and if the two of you had something to start with. Written words on a forum by strangers might not be much of a help but try turn your sadness into positive fuel. Time, avoiding contact and other girls will help.


"Never make someone a priority when all you are is an option to them".
 
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It's sounds like you're trying to write a poem, chill lol. If you never told this chick how you feel than how can you be so sure she knows? Women are extremely complex dude. You have to let them know straight up. Once they know if she likes you she'll let you know but if not then it'll suck but life goes on. There's someone out there for everyone you just have to be out going and get out there man don't let one girl change who you are in a negative way.
Is it that difficult to realize that someone loves u...!! It's juxt that I didn't say her the words. :'(
 

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Dude srsly? Live is too short for that, meet other girls and you will forget about her.
People around me are so active that I'm beginning to hate 'em. Just in case, you must know that I'm not social enough... U see, since I changed my pace changed too... And moreover I nomore want to live upto anyone's expectation...!
 
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