how to love yourself

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Ever since i was little i´ve been told that in order to be happy i had to love myself but the thing is i never understood this fully, just because people say "love yourself" doesnt mean you automatically know how to love yourself. Dont misunderstand this not an emo thread about how much i hate myself, i dont hate myself most of the times but i also dont feel the self love some people talk so much about.

So my question is , how do you do to love yourself?
 

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Imo love yourself is basically self-confidence and not lettng random trolls kill your self-esteem. We all have good and bad aspects, you focus on the good and improve the bad instead of hating yourself for every bad thing you got.

As he typed. Being insecure is the worst thing. It'll make you regret a lot of things and have fear from things that won't happen.
 

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You have to know yourself and accept yourself before you can love yourself.
 

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You have to know yourself and accept yourself before you can love yourself.

I agree, accepting your self, and forgiving your self for anything you perceive as negative. I think those are actions of self love, so it's a good place to start, and for some, could be all that's needed.
 

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Fap off to your swexy body in the mirror. I guarantee full Confidence and self esteem gain.

Okay, seriously just trust yourself, may sound like a typical response but try to have confidence in what you say and not let anyone **** with your mind.
 

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its something happy people tell you so that you waste your time trying to figuer it out, because they did not want to tell you that you are a loser and your life sucks.XD
 

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Appreciate your good qualities that you have and overcome your bad qualities and know that life is full of good times and bad times so don't be bitter over it and live happily as possible and take care yourself .
 

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i loved me since i was just a soul w/o a vessel
 

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When you need to grab that lotion fast by just thinking of yourself
That's when you've done it
 

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Think about all the good things you've done so far in life. Or hate everyone else around you, so that you will love only yourself, although that's not a good idea.
 

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Follow the instructions in order to love yourself U_U
>Take a piece of paper.
>Write in it, "I love Me Very Much!! <3"
>Fold it into a ball.
>Moist this ball with water.
>Lie down in your bed.
>take this piece of paper and put it into your butthole.

Better? ( ͡° ͜ʖ ͡°)

On a serious note, Loving yourself doesn't mean anything sexual or like putting your own penis in your ass.

When you accept yourself for what you are, when you gain self confidence, when people commenting on your attitude doesn't bother you, when you're free from any kind of self guilt, that is when you actually Love yourself. People might say it casually but reaching that stage is actually quite difficult irl cuz most of the people got some insecurities which forever haunt them and they never get rid of 'em
 

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The way of loving yourself depends on whether you're a male or a female. Try watching some tutorial vids. ( ͡° ͜ʖ ͡°)
 

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u love yourself by being confident

if you are, for example, ugly (i'm not saying you are), and you're always hiding your face in front of other people because of it, then you need to love yourself by NOT hiding your face in front of people.

i guess what im trying to say is, don't put yourself down because of your physical appearance/ugliness; be confident.
 
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