[Discussion] How to not miss someone

[Callypigia]

There is nothing wrong with missing people. Just accept the feeling. All pain weakens over time.

 

[Mis]

Kira?

Well anyway, if you miss this person you might try writing to them everyday, you may not be able to send the letters but you can give them to that person when you do see them again. This may help alleviate the feeling of isolation from them.

Write notes of things you want to tell them, conversations you want to start with them.

And ignore the trolls, they seems to have had too much sugar tonight

This does seem like something that would help. I might just try it out.
Thank you!!! k:
And don't worry, happily I have a great sense of humor.
I even let out a few gags.

Well, you can't really stop missing someone. Try sending letters, or messages if possible. If you really cannot reach that person, try doing things to distract yourself from it. The more you concentrate on it, the more you'll miss them. It isn't a bad thing to miss someone, it means that you care and want their company, but it does hurt to have someone close leave even temporarily. I hope I've helped, even if just a little.

It does help. Just the fact that you took your time to think up something is enough
I'll try to focus on other stuff and leave this pityness state I put myself into.
Thanks a lot~

first of all, ignore the insecure douchebags who judge people out of their own insecurities..aka the orange hokage...

second of all, you must love your self before you can truly love another, if you do not love your self, you can not be content with nothing, if you rely on anything, human or object, for happiness, that happiness has the ability to be taken away, when it is taken away you will feel as you say, missing someone, you need to be able to be happy on your own, so that you can love more fully, because if you can be content on your own, you will not worry about the pain that can be caused from your happiness leaving, there fore you will be able to love others greater.

Funny thing. I have been telling my friends the exact same thing my whole life, but it was way harder to do when my turn came. A bit hypocritical of me. But it's not that I rely on that person to be happy. However, his presence contributes greatly. Thus, his absence is also very impacting. Thank you for your words :yeah:

Found other things to keep you mind off that person or find new people to hang out with (and not saying to be their friend and compare them to Kira).

I understand your point. Being around other people and keeping myself busy might help. I will not stay still, awaiting his arrival, I will distract myself from the sad thoughts. I'm not sure about the company part. But I'll definitely try. Thank you! k:

There is only one way to keep in contact between 2 humans
put your message in a bottle and release into the sea or ocean.

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I love this idea. And I have done it at least 5 times in my lifetime. I'll put my feelings and thoughts into paper and throw it to the ocean, even though it'll never reach him. Thanks!! *_*

Try and keep yourself distracted with other activities, and try to shut him out of your mind. Best and most simple advice I can give.

I guess this is what people usually do, right? ^^''
Why do I have to be so damn fragile.
*sigh*
I'm going to try this. Thank you for your help! k:

By saying he's your Kira, do you mean to say that it's only a one-sided relationship?

Anywho, plenty of fish in the water. You're young, break-ups happen, who cares and enjoy life. Get a couple of shots in and you're good.

Oh no, that's not what I meant at all. He's the person I love. That's all.
I'm afraid you misunderstood me, hehe. This isn't about a break up (thank god).
He left, but he will eventually get back. I just wanted to know what I should do during his absence.

I know this is not the best advice you can get, but when I know that a person is leaving, I distance myself from them, and convince myself that I don't like the person. That way, when they disappear from my life, I don't care anymore.

Wow. I do it, too. Except I never manage to not care in the end.
But fortunately that is not the case. He just left temporarily.
Still, thanks for you words

do not worry i am there for you...Lol

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That was oddly comforting~

Try not to think about him but it's difficult. I can't say anything tbh.

It's okay. I still appreciate the attempt :mew:

There is nothing wrong with missing people. Just accept the feeling. All pain weakens over time.

Geez. I had never thought about it that way. This is actually a really good advice. Thanks a lot! *_*

If you watched death note. You would've gotten that reference....

Don't worry, I got it. And laughed

 

[NineSNS]

Plan to have fun, especially things you don't or can't do with your Kira.

If you have any art or craft talent, make a special gift to give to him when you can see him next. It will show that you've been thinking of him while he's gone and give you something constructive to focus on.