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NaNaNaaaaa

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I lost my Mum in April and last night I lost my Dad and though I wasn't close to him like I was my Mum I was thinking about the things we learn, the life lessons we learn from when we were raised, so list five things that have been life lessons for you from your parents.

One rule: No quoting and criticising people, this is there life lessons tought by there parents. The lessons I learned from my parents
1) women should always treat themselves with self respect. and can be whomever they wish to be
2) Religion if a life 'choice' not a decision to be made my anyone else for another person
3) Men who hit women are unpleasant
4) People who are racist are unpleasant
5) If you try, you can achieve anything you wish

There are other lessons but these are the ones I picked
 
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I am sorry to hear that. I lost my neighbor on Sunday. And thus reality is cruel :(
 

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There's another active member here who lost both his parents. Maybe he can talk you through this if he decides to open up on here.

I wish you the best and make your parents proud ;)
 

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I feel sorry for your loss. And Yeah, I agree with your points. As long as we don't give up at life we can do everything
 
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I'm sorry for your loss.

My parents taught me literally nothing, I only learned from their example what not to become.
 

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my condolences to you my friend, i lost my father a few years ago and being the only son with 4 sisters i took a hard hit so i can relate with you. as far as life lessons that he passed on to me I can try to think of some off the top of my head.
1. Chivalry is not dead. Some people are actually good chivalrous people.. its rare but its there. I try to be chivalrous as often as a can, and im always surprised when somebody returns the favor because im so used to people being..well... douchebags lol.
2. Dont smoke.. its not good for you in any way whatsoever. Enough said.
3. Love your family no matter what. Look we all have dysfunctional families and we dont get along with them often. However your family will ALWAYS be your family. They will always have your back, and believe it or not they are the reason you are who you are. All your daily experiences growing up and even at this very moment make you who you are.

Theres alot more but i dont wanna write a wall of china. These are the basic life lessons that i go by everyday though.
 

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Wow.. Thanks for sharing this and I'm really sorry for your loss. I'd have gone crazy if I lost my mum. T_T
Stay strong! <3
 

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1 is kinda contradicting...

But my condolences for your losses
 

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Blessed are those that mourn.

Anything worth knowing I learn from Jesus and our heavenly Father. My parents didn't teach me much in the ways of life.

1) Love your God with all your heart soul and mind

2) Love your neighbor as yourself

3) Give bless and forgive those who do not deserve it.

4) Give thanks to God for all things good.

5) If you sin against someone, repent and ask forgiveness.
 

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Thank you everyone

1 is kinda contradicting...

But my condolences for your losses

LOL it kind of is, isn't it, if a woman wants to be a prostitute, ( and it beggars belief but some do), she can't be, I wrote it badly, I meant to write that women should always treat themselves with self respect.
 

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my condolences for your loss .

I learned from their past mistakes .

1. work is not everything, if you get lost in it, you'll lose lot of special moments with ones close to you .

2. you must do things that need to be done at right time or you gonna regret later .

3. do what that makes you happy .

4. some people only care about your social status and what they can gain not you, they will go away, when you lose it and choose ones that cares for you not your status .

this they taught me later on life

5. don't forget the ones who helped in a hard time even if it's a little help .
 
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I lost my Mum in April and last night I lost my Dad and though I wasn't close to him like I was my Mum I was thinking about the things we learn, the life lessons we learn from when we were raised, so list five things that have been life lessons for you from your parents.

One rule: No quoting and criticising people, this is there life lessons tought by there parents. The lessons I learned from my parents
1) women should always treat themselves with self respect. and can be whomever they wish to be
2) Religion if a life 'choice' not a decision to be made my anyone else for another person
3) Men who hit women are unpleasant
4) People who are racist are unpleasant
5) If you try, you can achieve anything you wish

There are other lessons but these are the ones I picked
Women who hit men are also unpleasant.
 

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Warning: Extremely long post (about me) that gets very off-topic very fast and ends up only approaching my lesson(s). I would not recommend reading this. My reasons for even posting it are completely selfish.

Edit: Maybe the base isn't ready for my story yet. Some things are better left unknown.
 
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I am very sorry to hear that. My parents have taught me to be respectful to others and a whole lot of other things.
 

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What I learned from my father
1.Do not marry and do not have kids if you cant afford them/their expenses.
2.If you still do don't make their life hell
What I learned from my mom
1.Woman should be financially independent or at least be educated other wise they are going to have a very bad life
 
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