Help Are you allowed to have GF in Islam

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women r usually not allowed to reveal themselves to men in Islam, where in relationships close like those off a gf/bf it is usually taken too far for personal happiness, though it doesn't matters much with fiance
as for modern times, no body bothers about it
my personal opinion, dont feel like giving it, as where i stand as a Muslim, i'll keep it to myself
 

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well im living in a muslim country and guess what.. im the only christian in class and the only one who have no gf =p
 
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Uhm, in England its sort of different, from my point of view..modern british muslims are allowed to have relations but it seems to often be with someone with the same background as them
 

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am muslim ..and i know that having gf is haram...but i think if said the reason .. non muslims will not understand what am takin about..

anyway i will say as much i know....

Muslims should have good relations with all people, males as well as females, at school, at work, in you neighborhood etc....You should be kind and courteous to everyone....it is not allowed for a Muslim boy to have a girlfriend or for a Muslim girl to have a boyfriend. Howsoever pure your intentions may be, the danger is that it will lead you to sin....i hope u understood wat i said
 

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am muslim ..and i know that having gf is haram...but i think if said the reason .. non muslims will not understand what am takin about..

anyway i will say as much i know....

Muslims should have good relations with all people, males as well as females, at school, at work, in you neighborhood etc....You should be kind and courteous to everyone....it is not allowed for a Muslim boy to have a girlfriend or for a Muslim girl to have a boyfriend. Howsoever pure your intentions may be, the danger is that it will lead you to sin....i hope u understood wat i said
Typical for so many religions. Don't know why you people think of this restriction as of a major one though.
Serious relationships establish when you are 18+ , imo. Until then , it is more like friendship.
 

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see, there's the problem
no one knows if you fornicate or no, so in order to prevent that they forbid relationships o_o
Couples themselves should know the limits >_> it's considered to be a responsibility!

and what you said is a fact [IT'S THE END OF THE WORLD! D:]
 
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