Need some advice/opinions about...

[Jin]

So, the case is, I like a girl too much(much more than i should) and have been talking to her for quite a while.
I don't know if she likes me back, and that's why I made this thread.
There are some signs that she might like me; For example:

✘She invited me to dance the first song at her birthday. (Romantic Song)
✘When we talk she stares at me and doesn't take her eyes off.
✘She blushes every time she talks to me when she's with other people around.

But, on the other hand she doesn't really seem quite interested on me. She hardly ever chats and when she does, it's only when i write her. We used to talk and chat more often before, but now things seem to be going bad for me.


So, if you have experienced the same situation before or a similar one, please would you mind giving some advice ?
And please your overall opinion if you don't mind.

Thanks!

 

[JIRAIYA perv]

catch her alone and ask her out :yeah: looking at the circumstances/things you mentioned, you might be just over thinking the whole thing (she likes you), so make a move.

 

[senjuBankai]

ONE hell of a place to ask for advice...!!

OK virginBase, take over...share your experience which actually doesn't exist.!!

 

[ObitoRolent]

ONE hell of a place to ask for advice...!!

OK virginBase, take over...share your experience which actually doesn't exist.!!

That made me Lol because it's true...
OT: Maybe try inviting her to some activity and start talking more to her...

 

[Hàdes1]

She is might be just shy and dont know what to say.

She is waiting for you to say something and all the signs seems that she likes you

 

[Madara ibn Lahad]

Ask her out then... Fuk her right in da pussay.

 

[lightchaos]

Keeping your feelings to yourself only hurts yourself and could potentially ruin your chances of forming a relationship

It seems like you have a chance maybe she's not chatting because she's shy or thinks that you don't feel the same about her?

Tell her how you feel could be the best decision of your life.

Good luck man

 

[Jin]

catch her alone and ask her out :yeah: looking at the circumstances/things you mentioned, you might be just over thinking the whole thing (she likes you), so make a move.

Hmmm, well idk TBH, but i might soon. Thanks

ONE hell of a place to ask for advice...!!

OK virginBase, take over...share your experience which actually doesn't exist.!!

LMAO

That made me Lol because it's true...
OT: Maybe try inviting her to some activity and start talking more to her...

Hmmm maybe i will, thanks

She is might be just shy and dont know what to say.

She is waiting for you to say something and all the signs seems that she likes you

Yeah, being optimistic is good but... well lets hope so

Ask her out then... Fuk her right in da pussay.

Easier said than done

Keeping your feelings to yourself only hurts yourself and could potentially ruin your chances of forming a relationship

It seems like you have a chance maybe she's not chatting because she's shy or thinks that you don't feel the same about her?

Tell her how you feel could be the best decision of your life.

Good luck man

Thank's bro, it's not that i am shy or smth, it's just the "fear" or rejection :'(

 

[lightchaos]

Belong afraid of rejection isn't a bad thing

But don't let it stop you from being happy

Follow your heart man

 

[iKrys]

Thank's bro, it's not that i am shy or smth, it's just the "fear" or rejection :'(

Rejection is a part of life. Whether it is for a job, getting into college, or asking a girl out. So if you live your life hiding from opportunities based off of a slightly irrational fear, then you will miss out on truly living.

OT: She is probably shy and more than likely wondering the same things you are. You could approach this several ways.

1. Be direct and ask her how she feels about you. This is extremely forward so you would have to gauge the situation and the current relationship you two have. Being direct can often scare people off and make you seem pushy.

2. Ask to spend more "quality" time with her. By quality time, I mean alone doing things that two people who are dating would do. I have found in my past relationships, I end up dating someone without even realize it happened because our relationship formed from such a strong friendship and things just fell into place.

3. Make a big gesture like holding her hand or try to kiss her at a seemingly romantic time. Again, it's forward and could make things super awkward, but sometimes it can evoke an emotional response that she may not realize she had those feelings to begin with.

Whatever the outcome, you will gain experience and insight that will help you in the future. Best of luck with whatever you decide.

 

[AnimusOra]

The best thing you can do is ask her out and don't be afraid too. There are always going to be rejections, but it's more comforting knowing that you asked and failed than wondering what could happen. What happened to you happened to me a long time ago. I use to love and I mean really love this girl for a long time and I felt like she did as well and this went on for 3 years 3YEARS I thought everything was ok and perfect. When I finally got the balls to ask her out she did not like me the way I had hoped but after that I was mad upset and hurt, but mainly thankful because she loosened that burden and false reality over my life and I was able to move on. That's what life is man taking chances and living, not surviving and wondering. Ask her out in front of everybody and face your fear because when you conquer it, who knows what you will be able to do after that.

 

[Jin]

Belong afraid of rejection isn't a bad thing

But don't let it stop you from being happy

Follow your heart man

Thanks bro, i appreciate it

 

[Jin]

Rejection is a part of life. Whether it is for a job, getting into college, or asking a girl out. So if you live your life hiding from opportunities based off of a slightly irrational fear, then you will miss out on truly living.

OT: She is probably shy and more than likely wondering the same things you are. You could approach this several ways.

1. Be direct and ask her how she feels about you. This is extremely forward so you would have to gauge the situation and the current relationship you two have. Being direct can often scare people off and make you seem pushy.

2. Ask to spend more "quality" time with her. By quality time, I mean alone doing things that two people who are dating would do. I have found in my past relationships, I end up dating something without even realize it happened because our relationship formed from such a strong friendship and things just fell into place.

3. Make a big gesture like holding her hand or try to kiss her at a seemingly romantic time. Again, it's forward and could make things super awkward, but sometimes it can evoke an emotional response that she may not realize she had those feelings to begin with.

Whatever the outcome, you will gain experience and insight that will help you in the future. Best of luck with whatever you decide.

Thanks, this was very helpful TBH, i think i might do smth

 

[Jin]

The best thing you can do is ask her out and don't be afraid too. There are always going to be rejections, but it's more comforting knowing that you asked and failed than wondering what could happen. What happened to you happened to me a long time ago. I use to love and I mean really love this girl for a long time and I felt like she did as well and this went on for 3 years 3YEARS I thought everything was ok and perfect. When I finally got the balls to ask her out she did not like me the way I had hoped but after that I was mad upset and hurt, but mainly thankful because she loosened that burden and false reality over my life and I was able to move on. That's what life is man taking chances and living, not surviving and wondering. Ask her out in front of everybody and face your fear because when you conquer it, who knows what you will be able to do after that.

Thanks Bro
I'm sorry for you, and yeah, you're right. What i should do is ask her out. If she rejects me never mind, It will pass over time. Very helpful, thank you

 

[AnimusOra]

Thanks Bro
I'm sorry for you, and yeah, you're right. What i should do is ask her out. If she rejects me never mind, It will pass over time. Very helpful, thank you

Any time bro

 

[Jin]

Any time bro

 

[Ldude]

It seems as though she does like you but is shy.. Try not to be too forward.

 

[Hexuze]

When we talk she stares at me and doesn't take her eyes off.

^ That's just your brain playing tricks on you. xD Anyways, go for it.

 

[HornyPanda3]

Don't wait, ask her out. I've been in the same situation, i've waited too long and she found another person.

 

[Jin]

It seems as though she does like you but is shy.. Try not to be too forward.

Hmm, well i hope so Yhnkas

When we talk she stares at me and doesn't take her eyes off.

^ That's just your brain playing tricks on you. xD Anyways, go for it.

Hhahahaha your sig is making my brain play trick on me
Thanks =D

Don't wait, ask her out. I've been in the same situation, i've waited too long and she found another person.

Ohhh, I'm sorry to hear that :'( . And i will , thanks