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looking at you = trying to read your emotions, speech and behaviour = scaning you so that she knows what are your interests towards her personality and body
asking you to sing a song = she trusts you.
blushing = she is ashmed for something she has done and doesn't like it to be mentioned. guilt maybe?

it might be counterintuitive but I DON'T THINK that she likes you. if anything, you're one of her orbiters and she just uses you to feed her ego.
BUT THEN AGAIN you don't have anything to lose by asking her out. if anything, she is missing a great opportunity to meet a potential nice guy like you. so ask the ***** out. if anything, she'll say no and you won't have her after doing so just like you don't have her now.


THOU I shall ask you 3 questions.

does she NOT see *** as a big deal? does she have a lot of friends and is very energetic?

If YES for most of the options: She's a TJI/Social Butterfly:

Talk about common interests, invite her to do physical things together, show her passion for something and be as energetic as her. Differentiate yourself from the pack. Be EXTREMELY CASUAL and covey her that you want her for character traits, not for ***. avoid complimenting her unless she does something special. use her social connections to get closer (like make your gang hang out with hers in a bar).

If NO for most of the options: She's a TDI/Playette -->

Act like you don't give a god damn ****. don't give any compliments, in fact, make jokes about silly things she does (hence jokes, i'm not telling you to humiliate her). be EXTREMELY casual but at the same time, be protective, helpful, a friend. get her alone as soon as possible because that will get you the leverage. in short, be a time travelling player who came from the 50s.


IN BOTH CASES get physical ASAP. show her your passion and your goals. DIFFERENTIATE YOURSELF FROM THE PACK. make sure that when you ask her out, you go trough a lot of different places in your date so you give her the impression that you two have gone trough a lot in a little time (like, take her out to a place she's never been before, and then have a straw on a park nearby, then have icecream and then take her home, maybe stopping on your way to shop in a nearby mall).

BE VERY MOTHER****ING CAREFUL TO NOT ACTIVATE HER WALLING TRIGGER:

too much pressure too fast will cause her to fall back and protect herself, rejecting you.
 
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looking at you = trying to read your emotions, speech and behaviour = scaning you so that she knows what are your interests towards her personality and body
asking you to sing a song = she trusts you.
blushing = she is ashmed for something she has done and doesn't like it to be mentioned. guilt maybe?

it might be counterintuitive but I DON'T THINK that she likes you. if anything, you're one of her orbiters and she just uses you to feed her ego.
BUT THEN AGAIN you don't have anything to lose by asking her out. if anything, she is missing a great opportunity to meet a potential nice guy like you. so ask the ***** out. if anything, she'll say no and you won't have her after doing so just like you don't have her now.


THOU I shall ask you 3 questions.

does she NOT see *** as a big deal? does she have a lot of friends and is very energetic?

If YES for most of the options: She's a TJI/Social Butterfly:

Talk about common interests, invite her to do physical things together, show her passion for something and be as energetic as her. Differentiate yourself from the pack. Be EXTREMELY CASUAL and covey her that you want her for character traits, not for ***. avoid complimenting her unless she does something special. use her social connections to get closer (like make your gang hang out with hers in a bar).

If NO for most of the options: She's a TDI/Playette -->

Act like you don't give a god damn ****. don't give any compliments, in fact, make jokes about silly things she does (hence jokes, i'm not telling you to humiliate her). be EXTREMELY casual but at the same time, be protective, helpful, a friend. get her alone as soon as possible because that will get you the leverage. in short, be a time travelling player who came from the 50s.


IN BOTH CASES get physical ASAP. show her your passion and your goals. DIFFERENTIATE YOURSELF FROM THE PACK. make sure that when you ask her out, you go trough a lot of different places in your date so you give her the impression that you two have gone trough a lot in a little time (like, take her out to a place she's never been before, and then have a straw on a park nearby, then have icecream and then take her home, maybe stopping on your way to shop in a nearby mall).

BE VERY MOTHER****ING CAREFUL TO NOT ACTIVATE HER WALLING TRIGGER:

too much pressure too fast will cause her to fall back and protect herself, rejecting you.
TBH she doesn't have too many friends, and yes she is energetic, but i don't know if she considers *** a big deal or not....
Thanks for the long reply. it was very helpful, and I've made my mind, gonna ask her out =D
 
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Be straightforward. Tell her straight up you feel for her or keep wondering "what if"..

The way you describe her behaviour..I'm convinced she's interested. Girls that liked me would add my msn or fb, talk for a bit, blush whrn they see you in real but not message you or talk much. Because they hope you'll take the lead.
 
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Be straightforward. Tell her straight up you feel for her or keep wondering "what if"..

The way you describe her behaviour..I'm convinced she's interested. Girls that liked me would add my msn or fb, talk for a bit, blush whrn they see you in real but not message you or talk much. Because they hope you'll take the lead.
Thanks Bro =D
I will, very soon :)
Very helpful :)
 

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TBH she doesn't have too many friends, and yes she is energetic, but i don't know if she considers *** a big deal or not....
Thanks for the long reply. it was very helpful, and I've made my mind, gonna ask her out =D
so if you can't tell the difference, be careful. try to use the strategies of the playette first. if they don't work, move on the tji deal.
 
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From what I read, I think she's being pressured into being nice to you. It could be that her friends know she likes you, or it can be an orchestrated dish-off. Whatever the case, you're right to analyse, but this would be a good chance to get over that "fear" of "rejection". Let me spell it out for you: Talking to girls is actually a skill. Hell, talking to people is a skill. You get better instead of bitter at being rejected and you get rejected less. Be important to yourself, and if she doesn't share your sentiments about you, then she's just for practice anyway.
 
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