why gays do want to be married

[Bantos]

When you live more, you'll understand how important it can become.

One should learn to be happy by themselves. Every person just wants best for themselves first. :| So basically you will live your whole life alone even if you're ****ing with someone and "sharing" your life.
I find you naive.

 

[sasukesworld]

it's not that they want to get married to prove anything -.-

imo it has to do with equality, we're the same
why are men and women allowed to marry but gays aren't

we all should have the same rights

 

[BlacLord™]

One should learn to be happy by themselves. Every person just wants best for themselves first. :| So basically you will live your whole life alone even if you're ****ing with someone and "sharing" your life.
I find you naive.

On the contrary, you've yet to understand how life will shape you, whether you like it or not.

Be as rebellious as you want, but one day you'll learn the true meaning of love and you'll find out marriage won't be essential, but it adds to a relationship.

And it's naive to think that everyone is selfish.

 

[Booker]

One should learn to be happy by themselves. Every person just wants best for themselves first. :| So basically you will live your whole life alone even if you're ****ing with someone and "sharing" your life.
I find you naive.

I whole heartedly disagree with this.

I've lived my entire life feeling completely alone. I've never had a best friend, and I'm convinced I'll never have a wife either. I would give anything to feel as though somebody cared back for me. I've lived too many of my days alone.

 

[Bantos]

On the contrary, you've yet to understand how life will shape you, whether you like it or not.

Be as rebellious as you want, but one day you'll learn the true meaning of love.

:| True love? You mean like some kind of MAGIC?
We're all extremely selfish on this planet.
The purest love that exist if what a child feels for his/her parents and vice versa.

 

[Bling Kai]

I whole heartedly disagree with this.

I've lived my entire life feeling completely alone. I've never had a best friend, and I'm convinced I'll never have a wife either. I would give anything to feel as though somebody cared back for me. I've lived too many of my days alone.

Ditto man i fell the same

 

[Bantos]

I whole heartedly disagree with this.

I've lived my entire life feeling completely alone. I've never had a best friend, and I'm convinced I'll never have a wife either. I would give anything to feel as though somebody cared back for me. I've lived too many of my days alone.

I used to think like that. And I had a relationship which didn't really work as well as I hoped it would. After that I found out that one of my friends is madly in love with me.
I should be happy that someone loves me, but alas I am not since I don't love him like that.
People rarely see eye to eye in anything, and a persons subconscious will always try to find a better partner.

Also people get bored to eachother.

Also inner beauty doesn't exist. :|

I'm not a cynic.

 

[Element Master]

Marrige is Sharing your life will someone you love, not what is written in a 2000 year old book of bullshit that applied then but not now( i.e., women roles, ***, Marriage and many other things)

 

[Sjhsgjhsgjshjshjsh]

I Agree...

Marriage is a ritual between men and women .simple as that .Gays can create their own ritual /ceremony if they want to ,but asking for something created for men and women as "their rights "make no sense to me.

Like banto said ,maybe they want the rights that comes with marriage .In that case they should ask for those kind of rights not the concept of marriage to be allowed Imo.

 

[nightwolf888]

civil marriage is more then symbolic, it deals with certain benefits, taxes, adoption,hospital visiton, military family protection
everyone should have the same rights
WTF, why should you be to tell someone what kind cermony they should have and wether it's called marriage , you don't own the word marriage and there is no kind copyright that says you do

 

[Sjhsgjhsgjshjshjsh]

civil marriage is more then symbolic, it deals with certain benefits, taxes, adoption,hospital visiton, military family protection
everyone should have the same rights

They should ask for those benefits as their rights ,Not marriage imo.

 

[nightwolf888]

you don't own the word marriage or have copyrightownership , they never told you who you could marry , why should you be able to tell them can and can't marry?

 

[Scooby Doo]

I Agree...

Marriage is a ritual between men and women .simple as that .Gays can create their own ritual /ceremony if they want to ,but asking for something created for men and women as "their rights "make no sense to me.

Like banto said ,maybe they want the rights that comes with marriage .In that case they should ask for those kind of rights not the concept of marriage to be allowed Imo.

I have to agree with this.

Legally marriage is for men and women, gays can live together tho and get certain rights. At least in my country.

 

[Sjhsgjhsgjshjshjsh]

you don't own the word marriage or have copyrightownership , they never told you who you could marry , why should you be able to tell them can and can't marry?

Sure ..I don't own it . (I never said i do)
I didn't stop anyone from doing so , I only expressed my opinion on why would they ask for something created for others as its their own "right".

 

[nightwolf888]

well maybie you should read up on marriage then, marriage was orginally created for property and men haveing more then 3 wives, it didn't star just between" A MAN AND WOMAN" like right wing extremeist scream all the time

 

[Sjhsgjhsgjshjshjsh]

well maybie you should read up on marriage then, marriage was orginally created for property and men haveing more then then 3 wives, it didn't star just between" A MAN AND WOMAN" like like right wing extremeist scream all the time

It is between men and women . The man can have more than 1 wife ,but it doesn't mean he must.

of course having more than 1 wife need certain conditions .

 

[nightwolf888]

So what? , my point was marriage has changed through history, why can't we include same-*** couples now as ppl opion of lgbt ppl change more postive , do you dislike them that much?

 

[XR999]

CUM ON GUYS it only natural.

 

[Sjhsgjhsgjshjshjsh]

So what? , my point was marriage has changed through history, why can't we include same-*** couples now as ppl opion of lgbt ppl change more postive , do you dislike them that much?

Its not about disliking.Why would you take what i say as disliking?
some stuff in marriage may have changed ,but the whole concept of marriage is between men and women .Marriage doesn't mean love.

Its like me asking to have a room with my husband in gay hotel(if you ever heard about it) as my right.
Or asking for a straight couple to participate in a game made for gays as their right.

I hope you get my point.


Anyway
If gays want to adopt and make family ,have all the benefits of married couples etc ..Then sure i support that.

 

[nightwolf888]

the problem is seperate catagorys don't work , it's like this., i go to work , i pay my taxes, i was able to marry my wife, i take my kids to school , etc, my best friend in the entire world does almost all the same things as me except he happens to be gay thus he is not able to marry his partner , now why should i have advantages over him just because i'm straight? why should he be put in a seperate catagory when he's a hard work citizan just because he happens to be gay?

and marriage is about love not procreation or whatever