What's your dream guy/girl?

[Chihaya]

Being the epitome of beauty it's only natural that I would seek a mate within the opposite *** that is my equal.

Your words give off so much beauty that they make even the sun seem dim.

 

[The Sach]

It sounds nice.

*Calls Sach to the interrogation room*

*runs away before Yami takes me to interrogation*
I will edit this post, and answer your walley. I have to shave before that.>_>

 

[ministerC4]

*One that actually doesn't spill ten thousand secrets spending 20+ minutes telling everyone every single one
*A little geeky
*That actually doesn't swear so much
*Keen eyed
*Humored

And slightly deep

 

[The Sach]

Eh saw through what?
It's not, necessarily. It depends on the preferences.

Yes but very few people have realistic preferences.

Re-read the posts. There weren't that many that were far-fetched. Also, offline, I've seen many people with attractive girlfriends. I know of several people with attractive girlfriends. I know of several people that have dated attractive girlfriends. I know of several attractive girls with great personalities, are down-to-earth. Heck, the girls on NB are a small example of this. To claim such a thing as unrealistic, or close to a fairy tail, is a huge mistake.

Not to mention beauty is subjective, so you and another person may be picturing very different images.

I actually met such girls in my life, who were combination of beauty and that good personality I was talking about, so don't know what you want to prove here. I agree on NB girls perspective, but one can't deny that many people like to live in facade world, it was directed at them specifically.

Because they think it won't be easy to get, that doesn't mean that's the reality. Society has taught us slap the "dream" label on a person that has our preferred qualities. lol some people may list three very common characteristics, and call it their "dream lover". We also have to remember confidence or self-esteem problems may be a factor. Heck, even misuse of the phrase "dream partner" is a factor, as some people could be naming characteristic that may be hard to find in a person, not something they truly believe is without their reach.

What is your point here? You just want people to live in their dream world? lol Dream is dream, one can dream anything, that ain't even close to reality, but you can't keep on dreaming. You have to make your dream reality, if you can't, dream is useless, and you will just keep on dreaming for the rest of your life. One must understand difference between love and affection. lol Do you really think that people think about love part while deciding dream partner, I can guarantee you, at least 80% don't.>_>

Heck, I think there were like two people in this thread that claimed to come close to some/fits the bill of a person's dream list.

How many posted in these thread? These two people can be exceptions.

I wondered that, though you were using "dream girl" as someone non-existent, then later on used normal to contrast it, leading me to believe you were talking about more qualities than just appearance.

Bingo!! That's point I wanted to make in the first place, how people decide their dream girl/dream boy, solely based upon physique.

Meh, I agree. Personality is very important for me. Though, I don't necessarily look down on anyone that focuses more on appearance than they do personality. Also, I think you're exaggerating it a bit here, not everyone has a dream list that includes girls with big boobs or superb physical appearance. This brings us back to my previous post, actually. The attainability of this "dream" person depends on the preferences.

I amnot telling you to look down on them, I am telling you to think about both of them. I am telling you to think about realistic 'dream girl', dream girl which is close to reality and compromise if she doesn't have all the qualities including them physical features. Not everyone go for physical appearances? Na, but many do, to prove my point, just look around yourself and you will find the answer.

First, I said sometimes. Second, it meant that falling in love can give us another "dream". And third, yes sometimes, I definitely wouldn't want to stay awake if I was really sleepy lol. Not to mention no sleep can be bad for your health .

Fine then, thanks for elaborating.
Anyways I think we should stop this stuff here, as I don't think much is left to discuss.Lol
And pinches you for making me repeat just now.:leaf:

 

[YokoKurama]

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[Disquiet]

Yes but very few people have realistic preferences.

You first attempted to use the people in this thread as an example of people with unrealistic preferences, I pointed out how most wasn't that far-fetched. This thread has been done quite a few times, and normally it's things like being nice, sense of humor, into anime and good looks. Mind you, these aren't necessarily in the same list.

However, let's focus on the last one. Just because someone has "good looks" in their preferences, doesn't mean they're thinking of some super model. As for the other qualities, I'd go so far as to say that as long as the list isn't ridiculously long, it's a realistic list. Now of course, this may depend on what's listed. But usually, I hardly see anything unbelievably obtainable in a list that has only like 3-5 characteristics. One human being usually have much more than that.

I actually met such girls in my life, who were combination of beauty and that good personality I was talking about, so don't know what you want to prove here. I agree on NB girls perspective, but one can't deny that many people like to live in facade world, it was directed at them specifically.

My point is that a lot of these "dream people" are just average people to others. My brother-in-law talked about how perfect my sister was, and showed great enthusiasm when first meeting her. My family is religious (I'm not, I'm more spiritual but that's a different subject), so being a deep religious person himself, that was one check on his list. He could also tell how loyal she is, how she stands up for what she believes is right, how she doesn't hang out with any of the troublemakers, and how also down-to-earth and funny she can be. He also found her very beautiful (like how most of her past boyfriends did).

However, there were many other guys that thought she was an average person, or even below. Even if they thought she was beautiful, there were aspects of her personality they thought were sub-par.

My point is, you seem to have deluded yourself into believing that people with several desired qualities are Gods. In fact, I'd go as far as to say that a lot of these "dream partners" are very common, as we don't know a person until we've talked to them (and a lot of us pass by so many strangers within our life). However, there's so many people with rejection fears that they'll never truly know, or they simply don't stop to talk to every person of interest that walks by them.

I guess, if we all walked around with a huge sign detailing our characteristics and personality, my point would be better understood.

Again, I'm saying you're making a mistake in saying it's UNREALISTIC.

What is your point here? You just want people to live in their dream world? lol Dream is dream, one can dream anything, that ain't even close to reality, but you can't keep on dreaming. You have to make your dream reality, if you can't, dream is useless, and you will just keep on dreaming for the rest of your life. One must understand difference between love and affection. lol

I'm saying that a few characteristics being inside one individual is far from a dream. I'm saying that these people are much more common than you seemingly believe. You're getting distracted by the word "dream", that's their dream. Kind, good-looking, humorous, down-to-earth, loves anime, and loyal. I probably just named millions on top of millions of girls with those six characteristics.

Do you really think that people think about love part while deciding dream partner, I can guarantee you, at least 80% don't.>_>

lol yes I do. I imagine most people think of their dream guy/girl actually loving them back, and the feeling being reciprocated.

How many posted in these thread? These two people can be exceptions.

You should seriously reconsider your current outlook if you think that's as close as it'll ever get to someone finding their dream partner. That's not an exception, that my friend, would be the common result of the example I gave of people walking around with their characteristics on a sign .

Bingo!! That's point I wanted to make in the first place, how people decide their dream girl/dream boy, solely based upon physique.

That's what I've been saying. You can't say it's unrealistic if the person's 'dream' partner is realistic. It depends on the preferences!.

A person with several good qualities isn't unbelievable. That would be putting a very low standard on humans lol.

I amnot telling you to look down on them, I am telling you to think about both of them. I am telling you to think about realistic 'dream girl', dream girl which is real and on top of that not only smexy but also honest. Not everyone go for physical appearances? Na, but many do, to prove my point, just look around yourself and you will find the answer.

I agree, and I'm sure many others do as well, explore other options and all.

Fine then, thanks for elaborating.
Anyways I think we should stop this stuff here, as I don't think much is left to discuss.Lol
And pinches you for making me repeat just now.:leaf:

I'm pinch-proof. NoAssAtall. Try again, we both know that's what you were going for. u.u

 

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[The Sach]

You first attempted to use the people in this thread as an example of people with unrealistic preferences, I pointed out how most wasn't that far-fetched. This thread has been done quite a few times, and normally it's things like being nice, sense of humor, into anime and good looks. Mind you, these aren't necessarily in the same list.

However, let's focus on the last one. Just because someone has "good looks" in their preferences, doesn't mean they're thinking of some super model. As for the other qualities, I'd go so far as to say that as long as the list isn't ridiculously long, it's a realistic list. Now of course, this may depend on what's listed. But usually, I hardly see anything unbelievably obtainable in a list that has only like 3-5 characteristics. One human being usually have much more than that.



My point is that a lot of these "dream people" are just average people to others. My brother-in-law talked about how perfect my sister was, and showed great enthusiasm when first meeting her. My family is religious (I'm not, I'm more spiritual but that's a different subject), so being a deep religious person himself, that was one check on his list. He could also tell how loyal she is, how she stands up for what she believes is right, how she doesn't hang out with any of the troublemakers, and how also down-to-earth and funny she can be. He also found her very beautiful (like how most of her past boyfriends did).

However, there were many other guys that thought she was an average person, or even below. Even if they thought she was beautiful, there were aspects of her personality they thought were sub-par.

My point is, you seem to have deluded yourself into believing that people with several desired qualities are Gods. In fact, I'd go as far as to say that a lot of these "dream partners" are very common, as we don't know a person until we've talked to them (and a lot of us pass by so many strangers within our life). However, there's so many people with rejection fears that they'll never truly know, or they simply don't stop to talk to every person of interest that walks by them.

I guess, if we all walked around with a huge sign detailing our characteristics and personality, my point would be better understood.

Again, I'm saying you're making a mistake in saying it's UNREALISTIC.



I'm saying that a few characteristics being inside one individual is far from a dream. I'm saying that these people are much more common than you seemingly believe. You're getting distracted by the word "dream", that's their dream. Kind, good-looking, humorous, down-to-earth, loves anime, and loyal. I probably just named millions on top of millions of girls with those six characteristics.




lol yes I do. I imagine most people think of their dream guy/girl actually loving them back, and the feeling being reciprocated.





You should seriously reconsider your current outlook if you think that's as close as it'll ever get to someone finding their dream partner. That's not an exception, that my friend, would be the common result of the example I gave of people walking around with their characteristics on a sign .





That's what I've been saying. You can't say it's unrealistic if the person's 'dream' partner is realistic. It depends on the preferences!.

A person with several good qualities isn't unbelievable. That would be putting a very low standard on humans lol.



I agree, and I'm sure many others do as well, explore other options and all.





I'm pinch-proof. NoAssAtall. Try again, we both know that's what you were going for. u.u

I don't think there is any meaning in carrying this out Yami. Just like I said there is nothing left to discuss. The two important points that I wanted to convey were concept of dream girl shouldn't be just related to physical appearance, and one shouldn't dream waywardly, which I think I put forth. Anyways leaving it here.

 

[Genrou]

Dream girl, eh, well I've met her in school years ago but she wasn't interested.

Nice smile and hair
I am not particular about the sizes of her secondary *** characteristics, but I guess I'm an ass man.
Intelligent, good sense of humor, kind, nice.
I don't go for popular ones, most of the time they're in situations that create drama.


For the stuff that really matter:


Her coping mechanism and ways on how she resolves conflict: passive-aggressive people are off-putting. I like 'em when she knows how to convey her problems with me or other people. Give me the silent treatment for at most three to four days, when I obviously know there's something wrong, and my interest wanes.

Her values. It would be nice if majority of them are similar to mine. Especially her loyalty love respect and support.

Knows her priorities. That includes people.

 

[Jack Spicer]

These three.

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