I'm shy.
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Just try to be yourself and if the person doesn't share the same feelings as you do to her than just move on i know it may sound hard but it is what it is so you just have to keep going on forward without regrets.Hope that helped and good luck.
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If you know you have a chance with the girl you like then go ahead and ask her for a date something like going to the movies or just hanging out...
If you know that you don´t have the slightest chance with her, just become her friend and treat her the way you would like to be treated...
This is only my opinion on the experience don´t take my word for the best there is...
We accomplish true happiness, with the happiness of others
If you know that you don´t have the slightest chance with her, just become her friend and treat her the way you would like to be treated...
This is only my opinion on the experience don´t take my word for the best there is...
We accomplish true happiness, with the happiness of others
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Fear of rejection ?
****ing kidding me ?
Dude, are you sane enough to realize that not everyone in this world likes you ?
You can have family, friends, and acquaintances, but not everyone will like you.
This makes fear of rejection illogical, and invalid.
Approach her like a man, you have nothing to loose but the minutes you waste hesitating.
****ing kidding me ?
Dude, are you sane enough to realize that not everyone in this world likes you ?
You can have family, friends, and acquaintances, but not everyone will like you.
This makes fear of rejection illogical, and invalid.
Approach her like a man, you have nothing to loose but the minutes you waste hesitating.
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Avatar means nothing. I mean in reality. And that's Yuno (albeit more animated) from Mirai Nikki, one of my favorite characters in anime.
That is entirely dependent on the girl. And how would that work on you? You're a guy.
Godly... you always know how to lighten the mood u.u
Yea... I've been told that. I'm kind of weak emotionally, so I have troubles opening up at all, which kind of pertains to the whole "share the feelings" portion of your post.
Yes, and I'm still really shy
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It's in me my genes. I would tell you about my nickname, (the one my Mom gave me) but that's a story for another time. But in all seriousness, have self confidence. Go look in the mirror, and tell yourself, "I am attractive, nobody can tell me otherwise." repeat this, over and over. Not everyone's going to like you, but a girl will come around for you, let's just hope she's STD free.Avatar means nothing. I mean in reality. And that's Yuno (albeit more animated) from Mirai Nikki, one of my favorite characters in anime.
That is entirely dependent on the girl. And how would that work on you? You're a guy.
Godly... you always know how to lighten the mood u.u
Yea... I've been told that. I'm kind of weak emotionally, so I have troubles opening up at all, which kind of pertains to the whole "share the feelings" portion of your post.
Yes, and I'm still really shy
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lol , yet , in the insults or something like that you're good -.- go trolling someone else dude.
you just be yourself and try saying something nice and speak like you were speaking to a guy.
This is the huge Problem with our society. No one teaches us how to approach the other ***. Maybe some of you will laugh, but this is probably one of the most important things you should be able to do. Because you will not get that many chances to find the "right" one. How old are you ? My answer would depend on that.
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Well...
I've heard that many times. But these guys who seem to conform to one common ideal (like being some jacked up douche) seem to be the ones "getting girls" rather than supposedly being themselves like the uniqueness of humans suggests.
Hmm.. I actually like that advice. But that's where my lack of confidence comes in. I'm hesitant to ask.If you know you have a chance with the girl you like then go ahead and ask her for a date something like going to the movies or just hanging out...
If you know that you don´t have the slightest chance with her, just become her friend and treat her the way you would like to be treated...
This is only my opinion on the experience don´t take my word for the best there is...
We accomplish true happiness, with the happiness of others
@Bold Are you kidding me? I am the last person to think of myself in that way. That's a blatant assumption on your part.
A personality trait such as my fear of rejection is not illogical nor irrational, I don't know why you would say that. Given what's happened in my life the last year, it's amazing that I'm still sane, let alone emotionally stable enough to even contemplate about relationships.
Nigguh, I surpassed your fodder ass months ago.
NB wise, but in Real Life? Laughable. You can't even talk to girls. (I will hold this against you forever).Well...
I've heard that many times. But these guys who seem to conform to one common ideal (like being some jacked up douche) seem to be the ones "getting girls" rather than supposedly being themselves like the uniqueness of humans suggests.
Hmm.. I actually like that advice. But that's where my lack of confidence comes in. I'm hesitant to ask.
@Bold Are you kidding me? I am the last person to think of myself in that way. That's a blatant assumption on your part.
A personality trait such as my fear of rejection is not illogical nor irrational, I don't know why you would say that. Given what's happened in my life the last year, it's amazing that I'm still sane, let alone emotionally stable enough to even contemplate about relationships.
Nigguh, I surpassed your fodder ass months ago.