need good advise. trolls need not enter

[straightup]

Ok so somethings been weighing heavy on my mind for a while now. Ive had a girlfriend for 4 years already. So far its been a rough ride. We argue alot. I cant talk to her about my feelings because shell freak out on me. Shes usually very angry at me or about something. I feel like i do love her though. Shes very faithful and we have amazing ***. She loves me very much. I think im her first love. I feel like i need to break up with her. I met someone that makes me very happy (never once cheated or anything of the sort) Should i sacrifice my life to see my current girlfriend happy or should i hurt her now and try to pursue happiness for myself. What would the right thing to do be?

 

[WolfHaley]

She's been a rough ride? I'd need to verify that myself.

 

[Joker]

Cheat on her, best of both worlds.
OT: Do what you want, pursue your happiness, you come first.

 

[Lyke]

hurt her man. if you dont want to tell her to gtfo

 

[Hokage Legacy]

If you can't talk to her about shit that's bugging you, and she won't change that, then that won't be healthy for you at all. Get out of that, but at the same time, give her the decency of at least taking some time before being with another woman.

 

[ShiroT]

why not try and workout it out with her before going after another girl

 

[Punk Hazard]

If you aren't happy, leave the relationship. This isn't a "We've been together shortly, I need to stick in here and push through this," this has been for years. It's about time for you to call it quits, and do what makes you happy.

 

[Punk Hazard]

If you can't talk to her about shit that's bugging you, and she won't change that, then that won't be healthy for you at all. Get out of that, but at the same time, give her the decency of at least taking some time before being with another woman.

Eh, I don't agree with this notion. If you have a relationship available, and you can go for it, go for it.

 

[Naijakid]

Stay close to anything that makes you glad and alive bro

 

[Jin Hayami]

If you're thinking about it then you've probably got your answer huh?
Dump her before she gets knocked up and you get stuck with her.

 

[straightup]

heres the deal. Weve had these problems for a while now. like 2 plus years long. Honestly I am going to wait for a long time for another girl if we do break up. But its hard because even through the arguing and resentment I can tell she is very in love with me. But it could also be that shes just accustomed to me. I don't want to hurt her but recently ive been very depressed. Don't eat, doing drugs I shouldn't be. Im pretty sure im hooked on pain pills because of the stress I go through and she doesn't know because if I told her she would torture me.

 

[Hokage Legacy]

Eh, I don't agree with this notion. If you have a relationship available, and you can go for it, go for it.

Even with his situation? 4 years... And your plan would be to jump into another relationship right after.. If his plan is to hurt his girlfriend 70x more than necessary, I would agree with you.

 

[chintu234]

Try to discuss things with her and try to sort out yor problems and tell your honest feelings about her.
If she wants to understand you she will and will try her best to be with you and sort out things but if she doesn't want to understand she herself will break up with you.
Always be with someone who understands you and knows yoyour pain and will always be with you and support you.

 

[Edo Odin]

Well... you always gotta look out for number one. u_u

 

[WolfHaley]

Orion has his hentie, he has no need for ladies

 

[a banned cartoon]

Do what makes you happy. Sounds like a breakup is inevitable anyways, so better sooner, than later. The longer you wait the harder it'll be.

This is coming from somebody who's been in a relationship for seven years now. If you guys haven't even moved in together or anything yet, than define tell break up, because than you'll be around each other 24/7, and you'll end the relationship hating each other. Do it before it's too late, because it sounds like your miserable.

 

[3MESSIAH]

sacrificing your life for the happiness of your current girl will make you unhappy,which will ultimately make her unhappy and the whole thing will break apart anyways...you should tell her what you feel and listen to your heart....it may result in hurting her at first,but it`s better to let someone go than pretend that you are happy this way

 

[TrickyDD]

Hey mate. If you love each other go for it! I mean I was in a relationship for a long time but suddenly we came to a conclusion: Do we even love each other? After that question every thing fell apart.. If you love her Well thats fine, now ask her if she loves you! If she loves you too then keep going!

 

[a banned cartoon]

If you can't talk to her about shit that's bugging you, and she won't change that, then that won't be healthy for you at all. Get out of that, but at the same time, give her the decency of at least taking some time before being with another woman.

No if theirs somebody he likes who makes him happy, and this girl he's with now is treating him like trash he needs to drop her, and be with who makes him feel better about himself.

 

[Punk Hazard]

Even with his situation? 4 years... And your plan would be to jump into another relationship right after.. If his plan is to hurt his girlfriend 70x more than necessary, I would agree with you.

That's not what I mean. If he's breaking up with her to pursue his own happiness, then what sense would it be to put off being happy for her sake? If he feels like he's ready, then he should go for it. If he's not, then sure, wait until you know you're good to go. She's already gonna be hurt, so he might as well go for all he can go for.