How to turn down a guy >____>

[Craziie]

Look, rejection should be an easy thing for people to do but I don't want to hurt his feelings .___.

This guy, has been getting realy cozy with me, even though I barely speak to him....like rarely. >__>
Lately he wants hugs, my phone number, wants me to call him, and he calls me "baby" , and touches my face and shiz.

I'm not mean person for hugs and stuff, but I like my personal space. When I was a kid , I didn't recieve all that, so now its awkward as hell when people want hugs for me, and I usually refuse, even to my grandma .__.

I think he is trying to eat my cookies.... >___> but Im not into him like that or in any way.
He amuses me in class but that is it.

Plus, this totally hot guy (not to say the guy is ugly) sits behind me, and I can't have the hot guy think we are in a relationship like that. Today, he called me baby infront the whole class...and I wanted to kill myself....

Its nice, he likes me in that way in all but .__. Im just not interested...not to mention hot guy >___> Can i be the nobody who dates the hot guy?
Even though, I cant even utter a word to him because I go all Hinata and stuff.

Point is!
How do I let this guy down gently so I dont go tumbling down his world?
A guys advice would be greatly welcomed.

Also, I want to point out. Me likeing the hot guy doesn't really have anything to do with me not liking the other guy.

My theme song when I see him:

Spoiler

TAKE A HINT!!! GUY!!!!!

 

[Asu Be]

just f****** say no

 

[Hypemaster]

NB problems I tell ya..

 

[Joker]

Aren't you a guy tho? Unless you're homosexual or you just clicked the wrong gender. But either way, be nice about it.

 

[Sakura Bunny]

Tell him to **** off. That's what I do. =D

 

[Penguin]

Look, rejection should be an easy thing for people to do but I don't want to hurt his feelings .___.

This guy, has been getting realy cozy with me, even though I barely speak to him....like rarely. >__>
Lately he wants hugs, my phone number, wants me to call him, and he calls me "baby" , and touches my face and shiz.

I'm not mean person for hugs and stuff, but I like my personal space. When I was a kid , I didn't recieve all that, so now its awkward as hell when people want hugs for me, and I usually refuse, even to my grandma .__.

I think he is trying to eat my cookies.... >___> but Im not into him like that or in any way.
He amuses me in class but that is it.

Plus, this totally hot guy (not to say the guy is ugly) sits behind me, and I can't have the hot guy think we are in a relationship like that. Today, he called me baby infront the whole class...and I wanted to kill myself....

Its nice, he likes me in that way in all but .__. Im just not interested...not to mention hot guy >___> Can i be the nobody who dates the hot guy?
Even though, I cant even utter a word to him because I go all Hinata and stuff.

Point is!
How do I let this guy down gently so I dont go tumbling down his world?
A guys advice would be greatly welcomed.

Also, I want to point out. Me likeing the hot guy doesn't really have anything to do with me not liking the other guy.

My theme song when I see him:

Spoiler

TAKE A HINT!!! GUY!!!!!

I hope your joking. Unless your the hottest girl in your class, or if you are in the 8th grade, he won't get his feelings hurt over someone who is too embarrassed to flirt with him or even hug him. But, just say you like someone else or it is not a good time.

 

[Madara55]

Hmmmm humans disgusting jst break the poor guy heart iam is girls specialty

 

[Craziie]

just f****** say no

I don't want him to be all sad and stuff, and if he is. I want to turn him down in the nicest way possible, my little hints as in no. Aren't working.

I hope your joking. Unless your the hottest girl in your class, or if you are in the 8th grade, he won't get his feelings hurt over someone who is too embarrassed to flirt with him or even hug him. But, just say you like someone else or it is not a good time.

I don't want him getting the idea, and Like I said. Those kind of signs of affection, is something I dont do on a daily basis, not even with my mom or family. I will not do any exceptions for a guy I am not interested in, and I barely even know.

Me liking the other guy is not the factor, I know me and him are never going to happen, but I dont want to be with him in romantic relationship , in any way.
It's just something I don't want.

 

[Punk Hazard]

Sorry, I'll stop.

 

[Noni]

Let him down nice and easy.

Like a... "Please stop, I don't like you like that should suffice"

 

[Ciao]

You're a dude also?

 

[Joker]

My question, still not getting answered.

 

[-Punk-]

You are a girl , it should be easy to break the guy's heart .

 

[Punk Hazard]

You're a dude also?

Dudes can like dudes now, get outta your hole.

 

[Lucidus]

Aren't you a guy tho? Unless you're homosexual or you just clicked the wrong gender. But either way, be nice about it.

you know its not unusual for a girl to click the male gender in order to stop guys from hassling...

 

[Joker]

Dudes can like dudes now, get outta your hole.

The way I said it earlier sounded homophobic. I apologise

 

[ShiningStar]

Alright, I'm going to help you with this because I know exactly what you are going through. Trust me, I've been there. You want to speak to him privately to not only spare his feelings, but be courteous as well as to not cause any drama to occur where people can see it. Tell him that he's a nice guy, but you are just not interested in pursuing a romantic relationship with him. Bam. Sweet, simple, and to the point. If he begins to ask questions, be honest with him. Just let him know that you don't like him in that way and that you'd appreciate if he'd refrain from acting like he's dating you. Let him know that you'd value some personal space and that you'd really appreciate keeping his hug and the like to a minimum.

Be gentle enough with him so that he is not hurt, but be firm enough so that he knows you are serious. You do not have to tell him about the other guy, but make it clear that a relationship between you two will not happen and that he needs to respect you by valuing your personal space.

 

[Craziie]

You are a girl , it should be easy to break the guy's heart .

I don't appreciate this whole sterotypical thing of women being the heartbreakers shizz U_U

Alright, I'm going to help you with this because I know exactly what you are going through. Trust me, I've been there. You want to speak to him privately to not only spare his feelings, but be courteous as well as to not cause any drama to occur where people can see it. Tell him that he's a nice guy, but you are just not interested in pursuing a romantic relationship with him. Bam. Sweet, simple, and to the point. If he begins to ask questions, be honest with him. Just let him know that you don't like him in that way and that you'd appreciate if he'd refrain from acting like he's dating you. Let him know that you'd value some personal space and that you'd really appreciate keeping his hug and the like to a minimum.

Be gentle enough with him so that he is not hurt, but be firm enough so that he knows you are serious. You do not have to tell him about the other guy, but make it clear that a relationship between you two will not happen and that he needs to respect you by valuing your personal space.

A post, I can actually get some advice from.
I'm glad someone understands me to. I'm not being a btcvh or trying to break his heart.
(Whole reason, Im getting advice U_U )
I wouldn't want that happening to me, so I want to refrain from doing that to others.

Also
@People who notice my gender
It doesnt matter if I am a guy. Doesnt change the situation so dont worry about whether what *** genitials I carry.

 

[Ciao]

Dudes can like dudes now, get outta your hole.

I was just asking a question. That person has changed their gender before I think. Plus, I don't think this is even a real story.

 

[SonictheHedgehog]

A moment of silence for our brothers in the friendzone.