[Discussion] Girls dating a guy with a child.. U_U

[BusinessManTeno]

Well guys, Im curious... I have a child on the way.. but me and the girl are no longer together (She dipped soon as she got pregnant.. >_>) But I am in the child life (Dont ask) But im talking to another girl.. and my thing is.. How do i tell this girl I have a girl on the way... >_> I think this turns girls off honestly. But I dont wanna continue to date a girl without her knowing I am a father.. How would u guys handle this.. If u have not.. And If you have how did you handle it

 

[Snape Uchiha]

and you thought the best place to ask this question was an anime fan site?

 

[UchihaMifune]

Move to Canada and start anew

 

[Crossroads]

The struggle is real if you're resorting to NarutoBase for answers.

OP: Honesty is the best policy, she'll find out eventually if you stay with her.. man up.

 

[D R E X]

This thread is going to get famous

 

[D R E X]

Well guys, Im curious... I have a child on the way.. but me and the girl are no longer together (She dipped soon as she got pregnant.. >_>) But I am in the child life (Dont ask) But im talking to another girl.. and my thing is.. How do i tell this girl I have a girl on the way... >_> I think this turns girls off honestly. But I dont wanna continue to date a girl without her knowing I am a father.. How would u guys handle this.. If u have not.. And If you have how did you handle it

What's your Age ?

Only then I can help you

 

[NarutAwesome]

on a naruto forum?

 

[Kαmi]

Only thing you can do is be real about it man. Some girls might be turned off while others might think you're a really good person for still staying in your child's life, despite not being with the mother and being upfront about it. Just explain your situation and hopefully they'll be understand. If they don't like it, you shouldn't want a serious relationship with a girl who wouldn't want to be involved with your child's life, that wouldn't work out in the first place man

 

[Supreme Hokage]

Tell her before it gets serious.

 

[BusinessManTeno]

Move to Canada and start anew

I like this answer. *****

The struggle is real if you're resorting to NarutoBase for answers.

OP: Honesty is the best policy, she'll find out eventually if you stay with her.. man up.

I agree with you here

What's your Age ?

Only then I can help you

Im 20

on a naruto forum?

No. On a porn forum. NO SHIT A ANIME FORUM. smh

Only thing you can do is be real about it man. Some girls might be turned off while others might think you're a really good person for still staying in your child's life, despite not being with the mother and being upfront about it. Just explain your situation and hopefully they'll be understand. If they don't like it, you shouldn't want a serious relationship with a girl who wouldn't want to be involved with your child's life, that wouldn't work out in the first place man

Man, you totally right...I was telling my brother that. The fact that Im handling my business might be a plus.. But I just got a bad feeling.. But your right.. Any women that dont wanna be in me or my child life. Ion need em

 

[Fair Warning]

So many people on this thread are on my ignore list and I can't understand the topic

So i will answer with Yes

 

[Ciao]

What's your Age ?

Only then I can help you

This. Also, a lot of the people on here are going to be too young to give advice on something of this nature.

 

[KGB Kakuzu]

Now by "she dipped" you are saying she dumped you?! Or are you talking about Tabacco... Or something else.


Regardless, you are right in the idea that she needs to know. Pending what the above is (I'm not clear on it), the best case scenario would mean that you are someone that is being honest.

Sadly the idea of you being a parent will break it for some people, but IMO it is something you need to say.



As for going about it.... Kinda hard since I haven't been there. I'd say you just need to sit down and just have a talk about it. While that sounds a little too serious since you started talking, getting everything on the table and fully explaining the situation is the best thing to do. As at that point she is either going to walk, or she'll stay. If she stays, I guess that just shows she's really into you... Or at least enough into you... Which I'd take as a good thing).

 

[BusinessManTeno]

Im 20 years old.. :|

Now by "she dipped" you are saying she dumped you?! Or are you talking about Tabacco... Or something else.


Regardless, you are right in the idea that she needs to know. Pending what the above is (I'm not clear on it), the best case scenario would mean that you are someone that is being honest.

Sadly the idea of you being a parent will break it for some people, but IMO it is something you need to say.



As for going about it.... Kinda hard since I haven't been there. I'd say you just need to sit down and just have a talk about it. While that sounds a little too serious since you started talking, getting everything on the table and fully explaining the situation is the best thing to do. As at that point she is either going to walk, or she'll stay. If she stays, I guess that just shows she's really into you... Or at least enough into you... Which I'd take as a good thing).

Umm..
Well, She wanted an abortion and she wanted 500 to get rid of it. I talked her out of it and told her im not doing that. If she dont want the baby give it to me. I begged her to keep it.. something most men wont do
So she dumped me and said she still gonna have it but she dont feel Im there for her cause I didnt give her money to abort the baby.. Smh

 

[Aresfour]

u should try to work it out with the mother of your child. where is the love? the compassion and loyalty? be strong

 

[Urda]

Only thing you can do is be real about it man. Some girls might be turned off while others might think you're a really good person for still staying in your child's life, despite not being with the mother and being upfront about it. Just explain your situation and hopefully they'll be understand. If they don't like it, you shouldn't want a serious relationship with a girl who wouldn't want to be involved with your child's life, that wouldn't work out in the first place man

Have your answer. ^^ Nothing more to say people, move along.

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[Souji]

Erm, I think you should focus on your kid before you decide to go out and date again.

If the girl can't accept your circumstance, she isn't for you, bro.

 

[CurseSealofEarth]

Simple fact is that your child is part of your life. You can't be with someone that wants to be with you but can't deal with you having a child. Be honest and if she doesn't want to be with you tough.

Oh and congrats on your little girl.

 

[Javaweb]

Well you should ask her if their anything serious she want to confess. Then say well I have a confession to make wather she says something or not. Tell her she might dump you (worst case) or she might be understanding (Best case). It depends on her personality to.

Ask yourself is the new girl the person you wanna be with for a long time or just a few months? You could tell her later if it's a few months but if you wanna be with her for a long time tell her

 

[Yo pappy]

The struggle is real if you're resorting to NarutoBase for answers.

Sho iz.


OT: Aside from the irrelevant parts, tell her what you just posted.