Would you cheat on your boyfriend/girlfriend if it was guaranteed they'd never know?

[AndreJNZ]

Just saying this from an anthropological standpoint, humans have very little different sexual differences and that among primates is generally the sign of monogamous preferences. That being said, why are people not bringing up the idea of having open relationships? I wouldn't cheat on someone. Personally, I think people who cheat generally do this because of problems in the relationship. I address those before finding a girl or a boy to bang me.

Back to open relationships, if people are as 'bored with monogamy' as people here claim, then I expect to see open relationships flourish (now that the stigma towards them is lessening) within the decade.

See? This is kind of the viewpoint I want to see. Bloody people and their bloody idiocy all over.
We need to control ourselves. NOT be controlled.

One may say that we control our actions, but those actions, and that control we exercise on them, are shaped by how we are raised. By what we are told to believe is right. That is unless you have been raised in an open environment where you were given all the freedom to CHOOSE FOR YOURSELF. That freedom of choice....That is the important aspect in this problem.

It really is just an illusion. You must shape your world to your liking. Not to anyone else's. You must choose whether it is acceptable to have more than one partner. You must choose if it's acceptable to sleep with another man's partner. Do not let others and their point of view influence your own. Do not accept another's just to fit in with the majority.

And of course: Do not take what others say seriously. Unless...

 

[Cloudbuster]

What I don't want done to me, I don't do to others. Otherwise I would be a hypocrite.

 

[shinOG]

hell yah i would

 

[vasu 32]

Is it necessary for me to not love other women if I am in relationship with one woman? If the answer is yes, then to me that is not love but attachment, that in a long term would become a suffocation and would cause pain, qualities which shouldn't be present in true love. *** to me is nothing but a physical act and it's definitely not a synonym for love. I wouldn't mind if my gf, wife, or whoever loves some other men, because if I love her, I'll be happy in finding them happy and would expect the same in return. Love is liberation, attachments is the prison. So to answer your question, if I love her I would definitely do it openly even if the condition doesn't apply.

 

[Alice in Noodleland]

The most WTF thread I've ever seen on NB since I joined almost 2 years ago.

 

[GivenItz Boomer]

Joke's on you. I don't have a significant other...

 

[Retro Chaos]

Depends on who my girlfriend was; if I truly loved her, I would not cheat. Otherwise, I would consider it.

 

[Tennis Robot]

I would like to think that I wouldn't, but there's no way of knowing for sure. I do know that I would never date anyone who I didn't really like, and I would definitely feel very guilty about cheating if I were to do it.

 

[kickassjutsu]

That stuff can't be measured with words. A simple yes I would or no I wouldn't doesn't prove squat. That kind if things needs tone presented in the real to really find out your true character.

 

[Flakez]

Yes. .

 

[Phoenix110]

Without morals you would most likely be living your life in fear if not dead.

I was gonna say that

 

[Phoenix110]

No I wouldn't

 

[Sageflash]

That stuff can't be measured with words. A simple yes I would or no I wouldn't doesn't prove squat. That kind if things needs tone presented in the real to really find out your true character.

One of the smartest posts in the thread.

 

[Strawberry]

yea im cheating on her with her sister right now

 

[1Told]

my best friend is a male so no, i would never go for his partner for sure, i'm not interested by girls
when you are in a relationship and you are not really happy, cheating is gonna happen for sure, it's inevitable.