Would you cheat on your boyfriend/girlfriend if it was guaranteed they'd never know?

Would?

  • Yes, I would cheat

    Votes: 40 29.0%
  • No, I would not cheat

    Votes: 98 71.0%

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No I wouldn't. Because its wrong and I would feel inhuman to do that to someone I love and they loved me. I would feel like scum and never forgive myself. I believe we all have someone that's our person our true love. So when I find the right one I will treat her like a angel and hope she would do the same :)

I feel the same way except for that last part, but i don't know if she's the right one. Probably not, though. :/

Regardless, serious or not, i would never cheat unless cheated on first.
 

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Usually the guilt will murk you in the end
 

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I wouldnt. Ive been cheated on. That shit hurts. I wouldnt do it because I believe cheating is immoral. I like to live honestly. Wouldnt cheat or smash a friends girl. Thats dead.
 

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i wouldn't cheat...

not because morals or any sort of self righteousness...

but simply because if you don't want to be with them, why bother dating them?...

i think you should just be honest, maybe you'll get lucky and end up with both girls...

but that's just my opinion...
 
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If I was with someone, probably. But I don't think I'm capable of sustaining a meaningful relationship so it's moot. Because for me it's mostly about sexual conquest and courting the favor of someone than the relationship itself. Captivating someone is a means of control, to give rise to some island of stability surrounded by a bubbling sea of inner turmoil. I'm deathly afraid of intimacy and once in the relationship I feel suffocated and change my tune real quick.
 

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No just plain and simple. There is a reason it's called cheating. You have a relationship with somebody and it's an understanding to see and be with one another. When you cheat you are breaking that agreement. Take a mature individual to see cheating as a Juvenal and Selfish thing to do.
 

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Nope Never, I'm not the type of the person who goes and do girls in friends circles or clubs that's just sad and desperate behaviour :Omg:.
Message to those who would: Come on people have some dignity at least *_*

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OT: Of course. You don't have to feel bad, because there's no risk of being caught. People don't actually feel bad about their actions unless they get caught

That's why shows like The Jerremy Kyle Show was made to fight cheaters and get truth even if they are lying in keen eye. Also the truth in most cases is painful but at least you know it.
 
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A liar.

OT: Of course. You don't have to feel bad, because there's no risk of being caught. People don't actually feel bad about their actions unless they get caught

Well thats bull.

People always feel bad without being caught.
 

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Nope. Why cheat? Why not just leave the person you're currently with and date the next?
 

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No way man. Karma is a *****. If i did that i know something worse would happen to me.
 

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it's still cheating even when your friends wont know.if you are really his/her friend, guilt will follow & i dont want that to happen..:|
 

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it depends on person . i mean if i have to cheat for Taylor lautner :ls::flirty:then i will do it without having second thought.
 

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...Sigh* In a society that doesn't accept polygamy any more, this question is more of a question of what you believe is okay. If our society did accept such relationships then I would be all for it.

The biological need to reproduce is very strong indeed. If this current society were to change in to one that does not frown upon such things...what do you guys think would happen, hmmm?

We are shaped by what 'everyone' believes are acceptable at the time. Some time in the future we might change our values as a species. Having more than one 'Partner' might not be that far fetched.

So close minded we have become.
 

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What does a curse mark have to do with cheating?

One time in high school I kissed another girl while I was currently dating a different girl. That is the closest thing to cheating I have ever been guilty of. In my adult life I have been cheated on and it feels terrible. I would never sleep with another woman if I am currently in a serious relationship, unless to save my life or hers. More than that, I would never hook up with a friends girl. That, to me, is potentially worse than cheating.

It is wrong whether they find out or not.

Seriously though, I don't understand why curse marks are included in this hypothetical.

This is like my opinion spot on xd
 

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A liar.

OT: Of course. You don't have to feel bad, because there's no risk of being caught. People don't actually feel bad about their actions unless they get caught
Lie...ppl actually feel bad abt their actions after they did them evn bfore they are caught some1 who only feels bad after he/she has been caught is only sad for being caught alone. As for the question since I'm aready in a relationship I would NEVER cheat....among many other reasons is the fact that 1 wrong begets another.
 

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No I wouldn't do it..
I was in a relationship for five years and even though I wasn't happy at the end and had the opportunity to cheat I never did it..
I think if you feel attraction towards someone other than your bf/gf
to the point where you consider doing them means that you are no longer in love..at least not as much as you were..
If I got cheated on though..well that would depend on how pissed off I would be..;)
 
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