Would you cheat on your boyfriend/girlfriend if it was guaranteed they'd never know?

Would?

  • Yes, I would cheat

    Votes: 40 29.0%
  • No, I would not cheat

    Votes: 98 71.0%

  • Total voters
    138

Sageflash

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These kinds of questions bring morality, social construct, and other abstract thoughts into the picture. There are people like Vapid who believe the way they do, and people like Riker Slade who believe the way they do. Neither party is necessarily wrong, as it comes to one's beliefs or lack thereof. We can only answer for ourselves, and even then, under these perfect circumstances, like Blackwatch initially said, it's a 100% fact some of you are lying. It's typical for humans to think they would act a certain way in any given scenario, yet when reality hits and the situation arrives, you behave completely opposite. That is one of the fatal flaws of humans, our very humanity. Bearing that in mind, here are my thoughts:


I hold myself to a higher standard than a lot of society does in this day and age. Much like my favorite characters Naruto, Goku, Aang, Yugi, and Superman, I try to uphold righteousness and exude those traits I find admirable in said characters. Things like honesty, integrity, truth, and fairness matter to me as a person and are defining characteristics of who I am. Being a cheater means being a liar, a betrayer. That's not something I would ever do to somebody who I cherished. What's more, when we were in our prime as a couple, I truly only had eyes for my lover. She was the only thing I wanted in life and no other female caught my attention in the slightest. Call me old fashioned, but I feel that's the way it should be and that's the kind of love and devotion I hold inside me. I love on a 10, if you will. That relationship deteriorated for a lot of reasons outside of that though and the emotional immaturity of my chosen partner was pivotal in that.


However, people who say "Just leave the person if you want to cheat" are either very inexperienced in the dating world or have yet to be truly bonded to another human. Sometimes, even when you want to leave, you just can't. There comes a point when that person becomes a part of you. Like what Owen Wilson said in Wedding Crashers, "True love is your soul's recognition of its counter-point in another." Temptation will always be there for some people and there are moments of weakness, however inexcusable one feels they are. It's not exactly unheard of for people to find comfort in the arms of another after extensive problems when someone they truly love or to be "taken advantage of" emotionally in that sense.

TL;DR - I personally would never cheat because I couldn't live with the person that would make me, but not everybody holds themselves to that standard or is able to ward off basic human thought. Men are hard wired to crave *** and not every male can fend off this biological imprint. The female psyche can be extremely fragile and is easily swayed in times of distress. And to quote Chris Brown, "These hoes ain't loyal".
 

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I won't and i can't pretend that I'm been loyal with them, if i ever did that .
 

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No.

There's nothing worse in a relationship than cheating on your partner.
 

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Not even, I wouldn't have a girlfriend if I wanted to cheat. I would just leave her.

P***y is only p***y, if I'm in a relationship with someone it has to be for more than just the poon.
 

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Depends on the relationship.

If I was in a relationship where I felt real love toward my significant other, then no I wouldn't.

If it was a relationship that was kinda of just going on and not anything special, then probably.


But I haven't cheated yet on anybody so yeah, I'm still in the clear.
 

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Never ever I would do that.
Love my GF too much, and she makes nice food.
 

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Three things in this world that cannot be hidden , the sun, the moon, and the truth. Cheating is wrong, if u love the person u with then love them with all of yourself, and treat people the way u wish to be treated dnt be a selfish prick.
 
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Unfulfilling relationship, sexual incompatibility, loss of attraction, any other number of reasons cheaters have used.


Lot of moral compasses on NB apparently. I call bullshit on most of you. If Scarlet Johanson popped a tit in your mouth and promised not to tell your girl, you'd refuse? I know not ALL of you are that strong.

What about those whose tastes have matured? Plain plastic boards like Johansson are going to appeal to teenage boys who get thirsty over anything in good shape.

Three things in this world that cannot be hidden , the sun, the moon, and the truth. Cheating is wrong, if u love the person u with then love them with all of yourself, and treat people the way u wish to be treated dnt be a selfish prick.

The truth is easy to hide if you have a brain.

I used to lie to save my skin quite a lot, but the truth never surfaced.
 

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No. That is ridiculous. Even if Itachi put a friggin' genjutsu on you, that won't stop you from getting chlamydia.
 

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In scene number1 it's a maybe.
But in scene 2, that's just awful, I'd never think of doing that shit.
 

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To me cheating is just wrong. If you really care or love the person that you are with cheating will be the last thing on your mind. Also I wouldn't cheat on a guy because I wouldn't want someone to cheat on me. Its like being loved in vain and feeling like you were just used rather than truly loved.
 

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No I wouldn't. Because its wrong and I would feel inhuman to do that to someone I love and they loved me. I would feel like scum and never forgive myself. I believe we all have someone that's our person our true love. So when I find the right one I will treat her like a angel and hope she would do the same :)
 

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If i was still with my ex, then i would never cheat her even when we were in a relationship i never thought of cheating her just marrying her and live happily.
But now am single and my most of closest friends do not have a gf so i dont know about that.
 

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I'd never cheat on my girlfriend, but if I was single, I'd definitely bang my best friend's girl under these circumstances, especially because I know he'd do the same ~_~
 
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