Women and there bibles of expactations for me

[Bling Kai]

Why do some girls want so much from one dude. He has to meet these ridiculous requirments and there's sooo much of them. I don't get it.

 

[Joker]

Because they just do. People want the most with the least effort.

 

[Beans2]

Human nature I guess. It applies to dudes too.

 

[Elio]

And guys don't have absurd expectations??? Lol

 

[scorezor]

because they're girls , girls are almost always like that (i mean , most of them) but there is also dudes that are like that , so... just don't question why they do that , is in their nature or in the their past.

 

[Chie]

And guys don't have absurd expectations??? Lol

^This.

ot: Just be yourself. If you find a girl you like and you cannot meet her unreasonable expectations for a significant other, then you owe it to yourself to move on and find someone better. There are numerous people out there, so as corny as this may sound, there's bound to be someone out there for you.

 

[RikudoKami]

Nobody is perfect. I figure we find someone we can enjoy being around, the rest can fall into place. Expectations only lead to disappointments anyway.

 

[Raxido]

Blame social media..

 

[YokoKurama]

I don't get anything from my husband that I don't give to him.
Ok that wording seems confusing. I basically mean I get what I give.

Some people just want too much and don't want to try to do anything for the other person in the relationship.
It's s two way street the way I see things.

 

[cptenn94]

I don't get anything from my husband that I don't give to him.
Ok that wording seems confusing. I basically mean I get what I give.

Some people just want too much and don't want to try to do anything for the other person in the relationship.
It's s two way street the way I see things.

It is definately a 2 way street. If you have high expectations, then you need to be prepared to richly reward someone for meeting those high expectations. You need to recognize someone with those high expectations.

So a women who is tired of douchbag guys, and wants someone to always be there for her, and just go out of their way all the time for her, BETTER check her friendzone. If she ignores them, then she has no right to have high expectations.

Glad you have a healthy relationship with your husband. I hope you two can live happily together for the rest of your lives

Nobody is perfect. I figure we find someone we can enjoy being around, the rest can fall into place. Expectations only lead to disappointments anyway.

Underlined part is BS. Unreasonable expectations, and Expectations you do not try to enforce, lead to disappointment. If you expect your roommate to pick up his trash, then if you just sit there and dont say anything, then you will be disappointed. If you just mention it sometimes, then you will be disappointed.

If you go and make it a big deal, and bug him and pressure him to do it, then you will get your expectations met. If you do not properly reward for him meeting your expectations met, then he will not keep those expectations.

Also you need to have your own life in order first, to get those expectations met. If you just sit around with your trash, and expect him to get his trash, then you will not get anywhere haveing your expectations met.


To the OP. There are men like that as well. But not all women are like that.

 

[LED ZEPPELIN]

they are investors deniers