Why men treat women as 'Bitches'
- Thread starter YowYan
- Start date
At first I was like, "I don't get this logic at all" but then realized people probably do that to the nice guys because there is something they can't get from them that they can get from others. People are probably going to accuse me of generalizing, and I guess it is a generalization (sorry!), but nice guys can be somewhat boring (or at least that's what I've heard) or just...yeah. Not saying I'd personally go with some rude dude who calls me a b//tch. Just saying, both sides have problems, and I guess different women are gonna like different things.
Gender things...it really just gets annoying after a while though. "Why do girls always ____" "Boys are such ____". Does it matter? There are so many people out there. There are always gonna be exceptions. Can't everyone just accept it....and stop having gender arguments saying one is better or worse than the other or something.
Last edited:
~Shadowhunter Princess~
Active member
Awards
I agree with what you said but also women allow themselves to be treated that way. Everyone has a choice and some women choose that so you can't always blame the men.
And its mostly women who call other women such horrible names
And its mostly women who call other women such horrible names
Lightbringer
Active member
The irony about treating women like "bitches" is that many of them enjoy it. I'm being serious
Why do you think most of all the hot chicks date complete douchebags? Those guys get the guts to ask them out(and they notice that this guy has balls to approach me) and by acting tough, they give the women a sense of security.
Many women also go for people who are well built or really tall, it's because they feel comfortable being around those types of people.
And sometimes they just want to be treated like sluts and act dirty. Girls are defined as sluts if they sleep with a few men, whereas men can sleep with as many women as they want....obviously living by a certain code is never fun for them so they just tend to party and do whatever they like.
Girls want to be taken care of, and the tougher you appear, the more they notice you.....they don't get the sense of security with say a scrawny emo kid.
Ofcourse this doesn't apply to all women and it also differs with age.....older women prefer romance over douchebags. But younger women, like in their 20's, usually like to be outgoing.
I don't try to treat women badly, and I like being kind, but it seriously is weird that as soon as you start acting like a prick, they find you attractive.....so I do it every now and then.
Although if it was up to me, I'd just be romantic all the time.
Why do you think most of all the hot chicks date complete douchebags? Those guys get the guts to ask them out(and they notice that this guy has balls to approach me) and by acting tough, they give the women a sense of security.
Many women also go for people who are well built or really tall, it's because they feel comfortable being around those types of people.
And sometimes they just want to be treated like sluts and act dirty. Girls are defined as sluts if they sleep with a few men, whereas men can sleep with as many women as they want....obviously living by a certain code is never fun for them so they just tend to party and do whatever they like.
Girls want to be taken care of, and the tougher you appear, the more they notice you.....they don't get the sense of security with say a scrawny emo kid.
Ofcourse this doesn't apply to all women and it also differs with age.....older women prefer romance over douchebags. But younger women, like in their 20's, usually like to be outgoing.
I don't try to treat women badly, and I like being kind, but it seriously is weird that as soon as you start acting like a prick, they find you attractive.....so I do it every now and then.
Although if it was up to me, I'd just be romantic all the time.
Last edited:
I honestly don't see why there's a need to treat girls like that. I have my friends who sadly make comments that disrespect girls 90% of the time and I don't truly tell them anything because I know it wont change their views. I cant speak for all men out there, since I'm just one person and have my own views but I do agree what what you have stated.
Of course I can be a meat-head at times too and make a few chicken jokes and say dumb@ss stuff with my guy friends but never in front of a girl.
Though we have those females who love to be around the 'bad' boys, neglect the guys who treat them well and later on when they get their butts handed to them, they come crying to others. I really hate that BS. It's wrong and in my opinion, they deserve whatever happens to them. Ofc I say that but I know myself, even if a girl was a "b*tch" I would still help her out if her bf or any guy started to treat her bad. At the end of the day, it doesn't change the fact that she's a girl.
Of course I can be a meat-head at times too and make a few chicken jokes and say dumb@ss stuff with my guy friends but never in front of a girl.
Though we have those females who love to be around the 'bad' boys, neglect the guys who treat them well and later on when they get their butts handed to them, they come crying to others. I really hate that BS. It's wrong and in my opinion, they deserve whatever happens to them. Ofc I say that but I know myself, even if a girl was a "b*tch" I would still help her out if her bf or any guy started to treat her bad. At the end of the day, it doesn't change the fact that she's a girl.
Last edited: