[Debate] Why is it *** the only thing guys are looking for nowadays?! O_O

[PandaMan.]

Complete bias. Alright all guys don't think that way. Don't get me wrong, we think about *** oftenly.

This guy was obviously not meant for you if he couldnt wait. I recommend going for girls, go try something new haha

 

[Destruction of Konoha]

To all of you (girls) saying "guys are pigs", please re think that ignorant statement. Guys are literally hard wired to crave and think about *** constantly, especially from 14-20. It would be considered weird if a guy didn't think about it at least once a day. It is not our fault really, although some guys can be more crude about it. There are many things with girls that only girls can understand or sympathize, and the same goes for guys. You wont really every truly understand it and neither will we frankly. It is just how we function and instinctual. That being said we do not look for just *** in a relationship, most of us look for someone who we really do care about and hope to possibly fall in love with, we can;t at times help our natural desires. So just try to understand that please.

 

[Destruction of Konoha]

That's a funny title because I think girls are too into *** these days.

Right? I'm not complaining but sometimes it becomes a bit strange....

 

[Rot]

LOl at all the guys commenting here blaming their genes and horomones when it's clear they are all really horndogs xD

lol at people who don't know about the human species or its past

For one "Love" is a fairly new concept, as far as one man and one woman, lets not forget it hasn't been even 300 years since Men were allowed to have more then one wife

You are young, and I assume the guys you date are the same age, that age is probably the most influential as far as craving *** for a male. Its the same for every guy, don't let these self righteous internet anons fool you into believing they are some how higher then the average human male. You shouldn't feel bad that this happened to you, and you shouldn't let it get you down..you have plenty to look forward to and you'll be ready when you are ready. Don't worry, that lust filled craze that seems to plague the males your age starts to calm down around the ages of 21-25. Even then you'll still be considered "young" and have plenty ahead of you in life. Don't be in a rush to fall in love, you must consider the future and not only the now, many people make the mistake of "hooking up" with someone they "love" at young ages and it usually ends up ruining the rest of there life by either having kids at that age or getting ruined mentally because once the guy gets what he wants he moves on to the next. This is the brutal truth about "young love", its about as real as Bigfoot in most cases. Ofcourse there are some exceptions..but those are very few.

 

[3MESSIAH]

sigh.....women...:|

 

[Uzumachia]

Hahaha *** is a natural subconscious urge for us. There's nothing we can do about it. It's instinct, but that doesn't mean we don't want a love relationship. By the way, we're also after good anime!

 

[Gouki]

meanwhile in the midst of potential man-bashing I just want to point out that gals are just as horny as guys. Don't trip about it either, its just for some reason girls are far better at hiding that fact in today's society than guys.

 

[summergirl]

When you are all over FB posting almost naked pictures, don't expect boys to take you seriously... Then you fall for the jerks aka "dicks" "D0uchebags" etc etc and ignore the good nice kids.... Here are a couple of examples:

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You're welcome

 

[meowmeow]

I did not read any of the comments, I am only going to comment on the original statement. If you think guys only have *** on their mind then you are sadly mistaken. If you are having a problem with a boyfriend because he wants to have *** and you do not then deal with it like an adult and either work out the problem or separate. Please do not group every guy together into this one category just because YOU picked a guy who wanted to have ***. This sounds more like a personal problem than a public problem so learn to deal with it.

 

[Uchiha boii]

*** is great lml

 

[b7718]

Women complain that all men care about is ***, while at the very same time use ***/appeal to try and get what they want all the time.

 

[shortfusered]

I think that promoting a better sexual conduct on guys is really important and that is why I made this thread.
There are more important things in life that just "a hook up".
Guys, I'm really disappointed and disillusioned about this fact. I'm not being biased when I talk about this matter.

My last bf just left me like a month ago just because he wanted to sleep with me already and I told him that I wasn't ready for that jump.
He never told me he left me because of that but from my perspective:
-Everything was great, we used to have fun and I was (am) ridiculously in love with him even when he wasn't that "good looking" guy. But I liked him because he never pushed me to do anything and everything happened very naturally. He used to take me to places and we used to have lasting conversations. Suddenly he asked me when were we gonna sleep together. I explained him the fact that I wasn't (still not) ready for that. He insisted a couple of times more and after a week he just broke up with me saying that "he needed some time and space for himself".
Now he's seeing another girl who is known to be a big ***** and rumor has it that she has slept with half the school's guys and she's only 17 just like me.

Guys, no one is supposed to jump to a sexual relationship where there isn't love... there are things that take time in life like to feel that you are fully prepared for such an important decision as it is having your first sexual relationship.

Love someone and wait for the right moment when you both feel that the natural time for you has arrived. There's more time than life, says my Granny. Don't rush into something you might regret later on. For your safety and for the one you really love's safety. Let it flow... stop being retards like my bf.

If all guys are only after that "one" thing I rather be with girls :| ... so grow up ya'all!!! I'm serious!

Raise your standard in guys and they all won't want just that. True Story

 

[whytaco]

Guys, seriously...
I'm not saying that *** is "wrong" ... that's an important part of life. But please, you can't just be interested in that when you love someone. If you love someone it will come eventually and naturally. Trying to get *** from a girl and if she doesn't want to... are you just gonna leave her like that tard did to me??? shame on you if your are like that. *** is a part of life... but so are FEELINGS!!

I see this in many dude I know and it's not right. I mean where the love behind it the feeling.

 

[Sanguis]

tbh it has been proven that women want *** more then men. The reason why you don't see it is because of three points:

*Society looks down on that sort of behaviour classing such individuals as 'sluts', 'whores', etc.
*They usually want a relationship rather than being on themselves (i.e. it's just hard-wired into their brain).
*They usually have more principles then men.

In this day of age society mostly makes it seem that the only thing young men care about is *** but a lot of the time it is down to peer-pressure. For example If you haven't lost your virginity around about 16-20 or you don't have *** with someone and word gets out, your friends will look down on you and think you are either gay or there is something wrong with you. The only individuals this doesn't happen to is either the ones who hang around with only geeks (no offence) or you constantly lie and never get found out.

Another thing this question is so biased it is unbelievable maybe if women actually cover up a little and not have thier cleavage in free view or short dresses on us men wouldn't be looking so much. Breasts and ass are sexual attractions for a reason, just saying.

 

[naruto1246]

it sounds like your boyfriend was pressured into wanting it i mean school kids can be annoying like that the trick is to tell them to shut the **** up and walk away if they get mad and try to hurt you fight them if you lose you lose come back the next day with a sock with a potato in it and beat the shit out of him thats what my teacher would say. im in high school with a girlfriend and trust me im pressured by every stupid boy in my school to do stupid things ex: drugs *** bringing a weapon to school to show off yea that kind of stuff. you know how i handle it i do the easiest thing in the world i lie to them by say yea thats a good idea ill do that and when i get home i laugh, then the next day i say i forgot. its funny becuase i made friends with all the idoits and they dont even know i hate them and will never listen to them xd tell your ex if he is being pressured to try this out but let me warn you u must have good lieing skills along with a happy face

also dont believe rumors that get spread you dont know if that other girl is a hoe some guys could just be spreading rumors about her

 

[naruto1246]

tbh it has been proven that women want *** more then men. The reason why you don't see it is because of three points:

*Society looks down on that sort of behaviour classing such individuals as 'sluts', 'whores', etc.
*They usually want a relationship rather than being on themselves (i.e. it's just hard-wired into their brain).
*They usually have more principles then men.

In this day of age society mostly makes it seem that the only thing young men care about is *** but a lot of the time it is down to peer-pressure. For example If you haven't lost your virginity around about 16-20 or you don't have *** with someone and word gets out, your friends will look down on you and think you are either gay or there is something wrong with you. The only individuals this doesn't happen to is either the ones who hang around with only geeks (no offence) or you constantly lie and never get found out.

Another thing this question is so biased it is unbelievable maybe if women actually cover up a little and not have thier cleavage in free view or short dresses on us men wouldn't be looking so much. Breasts and ass are sexual attractions for a reason, just saying.

i kinda do this lol

 

[rockerstud]

im more worried about getting a job

having intercourse isnt my cup of tea

my reason becasue too many diseases that you can catch

 

[Toshiro]

I agree. <3

 

[Hyuga Prodigy]

Why this thread is soo popular???

 

[eyesofthekyuubi44]

I think that promoting a better sexual conduct on guys is really important and that is why I made this thread.
There are more important things in life that just "a hook up".
Guys, I'm really disappointed and disillusioned about this fact. I'm not being biased when I talk about this matter.

My last bf just left me like a month ago just because he wanted to sleep with me already and I told him that I wasn't ready for that jump.
He never told me he left me because of that but from my perspective:
-Everything was great, we used to have fun and I was (am) ridiculously in love with him even when he wasn't that "good looking" guy. But I liked him because he never pushed me to do anything and everything happened very naturally. He used to take me to places and we used to have lasting conversations. Suddenly he asked me when were we gonna sleep together. I explained him the fact that I wasn't (still not) ready for that. He insisted a couple of times more and after a week he just broke up with me saying that "he needed some time and space for himself".
Now he's seeing another girl who is known to be a big ***** and rumor has it that she has slept with half the school's guys and she's only 17 just like me.

Guys, no one is supposed to jump to a sexual relationship where there isn't love... there are things that take time in life like to feel that you are fully prepared for such an important decision as it is having your first sexual relationship.

Love someone and wait for the right moment when you both feel that the natural time for you has arrived. There's more time than life, says my Granny. Don't rush into something you might regret later on. For your safety and for the one you really love's safety. Let it flow... stop being retards like my bf.

If all guys are only after that "one" thing I rather be with girls :| ... so grow up ya'all!!! I'm serious!

Well first off, you're living in the 80's and 90's.

Nowadays, girls are looking to hook up JUST as much as guys. The only problem is, girls get to choose them men, not the other way around. Basically, not every man has what it takes for particular women. You're generalizing does absolutely nothing.

I'm in college and I actually know women who have cheated on their man because he didn't want to have ***.

I take it from your post that you are a virgin. That's great. But the more *** you have, the less notion of "special" it has and more of "it feels good". In my opinion, the most reasonable time to do it once in a while is senior year of high school. Too young and you end up getting busted trying to buy a Plan B with absolutely no money.