[Debate] Why do people say looks doesn't matter?

[-Punk-]

Oh they matter but of course there's people who don't care for that, good for them .

 

[villain55]

Pretty girl, why would I want to talk to a girl I'm not attracted to, Cookie?

I just wanna see who would be that guy who is gonna lie and say go up to the ugly girl.

 

[KcMSean]

I just wanna see who would be that guy who is gonna lie and say go up to the ugly girl.

See what you do is go to that pretty girls ugly friend and hit it off great, while the pretty girl has to watch, then next time you're like, seeya ugly, hello there beautiful!

 

[The Sach]

It does matter ,but its not everything to me.

We naturally love beauty . The outer beauty is the first thing to notice when you meet someone for the first time so its important
However all the admiration changes if the person turn out to be pretty from the outside and ugly from the inside .

^This, I agree.

Scenario: There is a Pretty Girl & Handsome guy next to a Ugly girl & Ugly guy. Who would you go up to first without knowing their personalities?

If I don't know anything about them before hand, I will certainly go for Pretty girl. Also outer looks might be decisive, since we have 'modern science'.

 

[Wparker6804]

That's a crock of shite.

What makes people attracted to another individual in the first place are their looks.

Only after getting to know them does one begin to desire them for their personality.

Love is a balance of both, not just one or the other....unless if you're blind of course

I agree. There is no "love at first sight" and love isn't the same as infatuation
Love is an action, a verb, a dedication, a promise AND loyalty with limitless variation and purpose.
BUT it's also something that doesn't last forever on its first stick. It dwindles and fades away due to the human condition, so it's usually neccissary to "fall in love" repeatedly over long stretches of time. That's where infatuation is a bonus.

My first girlfriend wasn't a looker but she was everything I ever needed and more--and I loved her with all of my heart. Now I'm in love again with someone who is being unintentionally cold, shallow and stupid on a very important personal matter. BUT I still love her, because my love is no mean feat and it won't be dropped simply because of pain. REAL LOVE WILL HURT AT ONE TIME/DEGREE OR ANOTHER. Is your love strong enough to have what it takes?

 

[Stark]

That's why society hates ugly people.

It really does, why do you think models are gorgeous and handsome? They want good looking people advertising their clothing, handsome/beautiful been wining for eternity.

Go up to do what?

The look is what gets your attention The personality is what keeps it .

It keeps it but looks intrigue you and draw you to the individual more, had a male who has pimples and warts wanted to talk to you I doubt you'd give him the chance to make a impression, looks cannot be cast aside so easily they are important.

I just wanna see who would be that guy who is gonna lie and say go up to the ugly girl.

There's always that one person

 

[UCE]

Go up to do what?

The look is what gets your attention The personality is what keeps it .

I'll support fayon on this. The personality is what keeps it.

 

[Sjhsgjhsgjshjshjsh]

It keeps it but looks intrigue you and draw you to the individual more, had a male who has pimples and warts wanted to talk to you I doubt you'd give him the chance to make a impression, looks cannot be cast aside so easily they are important.

well yeah i never said otherwise.

 

[Wabbit]

Fugly people say such things to comfort themselves and other people say it to look generous.

Scenario: There is a Pretty Girl & Handsome guy next to a Ugly girl & Ugly guy. Who would you go up to first without knowing their personalities?

It depends on why I have to approach them,I would go up to the person who looks friendly generally but I might try and say something to catch attention of the beauty.

 

[Karna]

Every kind of relationship starts off at some kind of physical attraction.

 

[Goetia]

Looks are important, but personality is the most crucial part of it all.

 

[Natsu Shazneel]

I some times saw teachers that looked funny and when they talked they seemed so cool. I think personalty can turn a simple person into a cool person and a cool person into a simple person. So I say decent mixture of looks and personality matter.

 

[narutokage99]

They asked the great mathematician Al-Khwarizmi : He gave the value of 1 for the ethics of the woman, then added a 0 for her beauty to get 10, followed by an other 0 for her wealth to get 100 and an additional 0 for her origin and affinity to get 1000, but if the woman lost her ethics she lost the 1 stayed with the value of 000.

 

[JCW]

Because they are ugly themselves... or sensitive to judgement

Or both

 

[GhostProject]

Physical attraction matters at all times.

At first, it determines a lot of if a person will care or like what you are saying.

Later, looks determine how much someone will tolerate what you say if you happen to say something offensive or something that doesn't land well.

Looks have to do so much with whether someone will like your personality. Your looks determine what someone else perceives about your personality honestly. In relationships, their perception of you matters more than the reality of you or your personality.

This sounds just awful, but it's pretty much true. No good looks (at least perceived/opinionated) equals no chance.

 

[Scooby Doo]

You may get turned on by the looks, but you fall for the personality. Once I fell in love even before I knew how the girls looks u.u

 

[Chazzi]

well,looks are important and i probably could never get attracted by a girl i don't consider good looking.
however I've noticed looks seem to matter less for some ugly people since i often see ugly couples Lol

 

[Seventh Sama]

Looks is what rails you in and personality is what keeps you around....
that's how i like to go.

 

[Natsu Shazneel]

well,looks are important and i probably could never get attracted by a girl i don't consider good looking.
however I've noticed looks seem to matter less for some ugly people since i often see ugly couples Lol

Thats why whats ugly to you is beautiful to others.

 

[Uzumaki Macho]

In a perfect world looks wouldn't matter; however, in this world they do.