Why do girls get mad for no reason?

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There are different people in each gender group. Some girls are more calm than others, just as some guys are more calm than others. So, the same thing won't work for everyone. What UzumakiSama posted is the standard way of dealing with it.

So, you're saying your gf randomly out of the blue yelled at you and then when you showed that you cared appropriately, she didn't talk to you? I doubt it to be honest. What did she say when she yelled at you? That might tell you something.

Which is why i said it isn't that legit. Also I don't know if it's out of the blue for her, but it was at lunch that day. I didn't talk to her for the whole lunch period except for the last 2 minutes before the bell rings I go up and ask how her classes are going today and than just screams why should I care and than she says don't talk to her in front of her friends....... I texted her during class, never got a reply. I text 2 more times, nothing again.
 
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I'm not trying to set you up. I'm trying to make you think about something. If you really love someone, their happiness should be your sole concern. You stop caring about yourself in your desire to make them happy, and you don't expect anything in return for what you do for them.
You're right. This can't really be contended with!
Bruh females are so complicated that they can't even understand each other at times. Us n*g**s are different we just straight up with shit girls always have to be playing mind games like we back in high school. If you ever win an argument or point you don't, you still lose. Patience is key that's the only thing I can say.
Hahaha, yeah it takes a lot of patience.
Stripped down to the most basic level and generally speaking, they see things from a different perspective. Evolution plays a big role in the collective difference of perspective genders have. Women tend to see things on a more personal and emotional level (important for child rearing) and men see things on a more extrinsic and logical level (important for hunting and gathering). Of course, everyone is different because of our life experiences, but there are millions of years of developmental reason we have to and need to see things different.
Well that answers a lot from a scientific perspective. I remember reading this for one of my introduction to psychology classes!
I can only add that if someone gets angry at you for not automatically knowing what is wrong, either:

You have a tendency to brush off or belittle the issue when she does tell you something that's bothering her, or

She isn't comfortable being open or honest. Sometimes this can change with time as trust grows, but sometimes it doesn't.

I never brush off her issue, I think it is the latter for whatever reason she's not comfortable. Sometimes she's open and sometimes she isn't. Hmm... Idk.
 

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Some do it to test you to know, how you behave in a such situation, if this is not the case then probably there must be a reason .
 

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Women carry diseases known as feelings and children. But seriously. Women are independent beings with their own thoughts and feelings. Some may get mad for no reason, but some men also get angry for no reason. Maybe your girlfriend/mother/right hand is mad at you because you don't listen when they talk. Or

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I had that just about 30 minutes ago. Walking through the mall with gf and she suddenly wants to go home real bad and is pissed because we're not home within 2 seconds and blames me for it. So random and illogical. It was cold out and I wanted to rush home too but I don't bring over my frustration by blaming her xd
 

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Sometimes it is not about you. Just because you do not know the reason it does not mean there is no reason. Or you can be the final drop of the day for an unimportant reason, sucks but it happens.
 

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I had that just about 30 minutes ago. Walking through the mall with gf and she suddenly wants to go home real bad and is pissed because we're not home within 2 seconds and blames me for it. So random and illogical. It was cold out and I wanted to rush home too but I don't bring over my frustration by blaming her xd

Bruh we have 9 inches of snow here right now and it's still snowing, if you are in that type of weather god bless you Lol
 

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I am a girl and I don't get mad without a reason and when I do get mad I let people know what went wrong
 

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poor OP reminds me of this Lol

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Which is why i said it isn't that legit. Also I don't know if it's out of the blue for her, but it was at lunch that day. I didn't talk to her for the whole lunch period except for the last 2 minutes before the bell rings I go up and ask how her classes are going today and than just screams why should I care and than she says don't talk to her in front of her friends....... I texted her during class, never got a reply. I text 2 more times, nothing again.

It's the most legit way of handling it. Doesn't mean it always works.

If that's the case, then just leave her alone. Needs to blow off some steam and she'll start talking to you again when her school/private life get better.
 

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^Oh yeah, about that. Sometimes it is best to leave her alone, but let her know that you are going to leave her alone until she is ready to talk to you. Don't just do it for no apparent reason. Let her know that you're always there for her.
 

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A lot of women can be like that. They just take things more personally and are more emotional. Females generally perceive things differently than guys.

I don't know why people are denying that girls tend to do this more than guys though.
 

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Bruh we have 9 inches of snow here right now and it's still snowing, if you are in that type of weather god bless you Lol

I'm in london. It's not snowing here ._. just boring weather
 

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For the same reason guys get mad for no reason.

We actually have a reason when we get mad. We don't play those stupid mind games.
 

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omg i hate all of yoouuu!
 

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If she gets mad you know you aren't performing in bed well. (͡° ͜ʖ ͡°)​
 

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well because:
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